[Tenstion]

I am newly wed and I assume I am doing it 2 times min. each night. 5 times during one day and max. 7 times during night. I think it was only because we are new. This mat drop down a bit as time will move on. It was not great overall, as we were experiencing a lot, specially my honey don`t react, she wants me to take ocntrol every time..

[Guest]

I could work 16 hrs: a day and dead bone tired and would and could always make luv, i know that term may sound old fashion but that's me, old fashion.

My deal was I did not like the fact that I had to always initiate it. Reason, it turns me on more when I know the wife soon to be ex wanted me, craved me, lusted after me. To be the one always, to me, was 1 sided, not that she did not want to, after 22 yrs you basically know if she wants to or not.

I could have done it every day, sometimes twice a day, this is when I was healthier but I can still do it at least once a day/7dys.

I do get tired yes, but with a little rest and some more foreplay, bring it on!

I found out that I can have sex longer if one does it more often, and not only that but you get into more activities, I mean stuff like going from the kitchen to the living room, to the floor of the bedroom to the chair to the bed.............It ends up being a adventure that creates a bond, to me it does anyway, because all the time we're communicating, connecting, lusting.

When we first married we done it 3 time a day, separate times of the day.

But ya know, I've read so much on this when trying to fiq, things out like you are "elsa" and discovered there are no exact statistics to go by, averages yes. Couples have to determine together what is a happy medium because the averages dictates that sexually they will probably be somewhat different as to how often they would or could do it.

If ever I hook up with another woman and I trust I do, before becoming intimate, I want to know if there is at least somewhat of a same sex drive. Even if a future girl lets say likes to get it on 3 times a day. I would have to think that over because I don't know that I could do that now. Shooooo, sure wouldn't mind trying, hahah,lol! But really in this short posted thread here you see a difference in peoples drives, maybe not drastic but there is a difference.

Before things begin to go awry for us it was on an average of twice a week, 10yrs ago 3 times a week
But at times there were dry periods of 1 a mo to twice a mo. Oh yea, your other question, I had know problem of getting around, only when we were doing it 3 times a day, a little sore ya know!

[Shannon1]

My hubby and I have sex at least once every three days, and in between we do "other" stuff.. At least every other day. And we both initiate. But everyone is different. Has anything changed recently in your relationship or has it always been like this? It could be he just has a low sex-drive, in which case, maybe he should see a doc.

[some random guy]

I get sex 2-3 times a month, but sometimes less...

oh god bless you for your words.

my husband claims that because he works from 7-6 pm in an office he is mentaly tired and even after he comes home, eats his ready dinner and relaxes, he is still not interested and i should let him rest, rather than bother him with the thought of sex.

i left him yesterday and refuse to go back.
i just want to know what's normal?
Can guys have sex more than one time in a night?

I dont blame u. i would have left. i am a man, 26. my girlfriend never wants sex. we do it once a week, fri or sat night, late at night (her timing, not mine), but its like a chore to her, and sometimes I have to wait two weeks if I do something to " her off" (another excuse)..."im tired, hurry up, cover me up after!". She never even initiates. when asked she says she is tired, that she just wants to relax. we go to bed and i get every excuse out of the book. If it were up to me we would do it 3 times a day 4ever, but im a big horndog. I once asked for everyother day and she laughed very sarcastically. I thought everyother day was pretty normal...what do you all think? Please help me sort this out, im about to leave her over this I just cant take it anymore...but i do still love her alot...im not selfish am I? sex is a small part of a relationship if your getting it, ... but its almost 100% of the relationship if your not getting any or if your hardly get any at all.

My story is a little different but it has similarities l think. Anyways I know what uwent threw I think and I can simpathize with you.

also the can guys have sex more than once a night question...im a male, medium build, 26, very sexually active...I can have sex several times a night. the skys the limit. I wish my gil somehow one day woke up a nempho, but only for me...dream dream dream...

[some random guy]

Im venting................

We have been married 20 years and we average humm... 3 or 4 times a week. Some weeks its more like 7 days a week and then once in a while its 1 or even none but "most" of the time I would say its probably 4 times a week.

And its STILL great! ;-)

Wow. I think its so lucky for two people to match like that sexually. Usually its one hardly wants it and one wants more of it. I've been in this relationship for 3 months short of five years. I am very unhappy sexually in my relationship. we do it 2, mabye 3 times a month...Everyother day i thought was a good compromise but not her...o no. You are so very lucky to have eachother, im not gunna lie, im somewhat jealous of you ing this tonite so I can let out built up hurt in my body...I feel better after I share something. Thank you for allowing me to post here.

[Guest]

How often do you have sex?

If you are newly weds, should you still have sex 1-2 times a week, always initiated by the woman?

please tell me what is normal for you, so i can judge my own life?

Do you mean by myself? an awful lot!

As newly weds wayyyyyy back when, it was 3-4 times a day and it was great.

Forget what is normal for anyone here. First off, none of us are normal. Second, how much doesnt matter how much/often if it's no good. That'd be like going to the worst restaurant in town because it's "all you can eat night".

[MansView]

Do you mean by myself?

I have great sex every day! Sometimes 2, 3 or even 4 times! Who with? Oh just myself... lol

It's frustrating

[WildChild]

Haven't gotten as much as I'd like in at least 20 years. But I agree with No1. Quality is more important than quantity. In fact I'd say none is better than lousy. Lousy just makes you want it more.

[Missy Belle]

whats normal for one person maybe unattainable for others...

hubby and i are really fortunate after 14 years being together we still hot for each other. he works away alot so when he is home easy 3-5 times a day with at least a 2 hour fck session in all of that... we both are highly sexed towards each other soooooo it helps. Btw we are holidays no children soooooooo we've jus spent the last 2 weeks doing u know wat everywhere and anyway we fancy...god i soooo love him ...

[Skybluupink]

The truth is we are all so busy, all we want to do is come home and relax. BUT, if you get regular exercise and eat right you will have more energy. I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 5. Our first year was bad, I wanted it a few times a week or at least once a week and he never wanted it - never. I am a confident woman who has done everything with my husband so I know it wasn't because of me. After some counseling we found that he was so stressed about work and keeping his job and making more money that he was becoming a bit depressed and consumed with his job. Don't get me wrong, he is not the sole breadwinner, we both work so we have a dual income household, but he wants to work and perform and he was stressing himself out. So after all of this was discovered we were able to get back to 'us' and date nights helped a lot.

I guess to make a long story short, you will never be on a 'regular' schedule, but I try for at least 2-3 times a week. Sometimes I get more and other times none at all, but we both enjoy eachother, enjoy sex and try to accommodate one another even if we're a bit tired. The more more we are connected emotionally, the more we don't get frustrated if a few days or a week goes by without having sex.