[CHANDLERS WISH]

Karen,

Don't let him win okay....

I won't delete the thread, I will close it if you really want but, if you do that, your letting him win..

This IS A PLACE to vent...it is a place to say nom nom nom, obviously in anger you were thinking of them eating... but we didn't know that till now okay

Drinking? Just on that note of BD's, I can see myself, being distraught over something and drinking alot...we all can, to try to ease the pain, so I believe that was her question.

Why are you caring, please get out of this, you don't need him honestly he is playing with you left right and centre.

To call you and say I love you then take someone out for dinner, he's playing you, your stronger than that, smarter than that...

Vent here, please, we don't actually want you to go, we are actually here to support you...

CW

[mymirrose]

I so understand where Karen is coming from, I am still on that long road back to myself (sometimes seems never-ending) I haven't posted for a while because it still sometimes hurts to bad. But after reading this thread, I am hoping we haven't heard from Karen bacause she is in the process of fighting her way back to herself.
Karen, if you are out there, let us know you are at least ok. I really do know how you feel, I know how hard it is, but you can get thru it and back to YOU. That first step really is the hardest, but everyone here will give you the strength you need, they sure did for me. Just take it one breath at a time.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hey mymirrose

Good to see you back, and nice of you to post on this thread, in the way you did....

Hope your continuing to do those jumps......

[mymirrose]

Thank you, CW. Now that I "broke the ice" so to speak, logging in & posting, I will start my own thread..... But I could so understand where Karen was writing from, it actually scared me. I hope she can see that it can be done and that everyone here helps more than they even realize.
So, Karen, even if you can't (psycologically or physically) answer, read the posts and know wonderful people are here to help.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hoped you would

I'm hoping she'll talk again here on this thread as well

[WildChild]

Hey Mymirrose, Good to see you back again. Hope you are moving ever forward!
We are all hoping that Karen is doing well and is working toward getting free of her situation.

[JustHormonious]

Hi Karen,

How are things going? Have you made any progress with finding employment? This thread has been very busy over the last 12 days, I hope you have found some of the information helpful. It sounds like you've had time to think about your situation, any decisions yet on your end? Wishing you the best...

~JH

[karenshiver]

Today was my birthday and Brian did not want to spend my birthday with me... the only thing I received from Brian today was an 8 second voice message saying, "I wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday, Karen. I love you. Bye." That was it. That is all he did for me on my birthday. When I called him and asked him if he wanted to spend my birthday with me, he said, "No." I told him I was hurt, and, he said, "I did not have to even call, you know, you should be grateful I even called you to wish you a Happy Birthday." But, yet, he called and texted Maria Sanchez 10 times today. I am leaving him, and, I am going to bible college and becoming a minister. I applied to bible college this week.

[WildChild]

I'm glad to hear that you are making plans for the future.

[karenshiver]

His domestic violence trial date is scheduled for April 11, 2011. Since, he will not repent, I have no more sympathy for him... I hope they convict him.