[happy ending]

I wonder if that might be his way of trying to show some commitment. He wants to store some stuff at your place (even if it is only in a shed).

Either that or he was being inconsiderate. I'm not quite sure what to make of it.

it's only as a convenience to him, i wont be living at the house, i will (hopefully) renting it out. that is why i dont want him to fence off the shed and store things in it, i think it will put off potential renters. he actually wants me to seperate the titles and sell him the back block, but i dont want to as the rear of the property has the sea views. i am tending towards wildchilds point of view. i think he has sort of done me a favour, i can rent a house in the city, if i like it sell my house and buy a unit there, if i dont i can move back here. i dont understand why he feels entitled to tell me what to do with my property.

[ThexMrs]

When you're getting off of the phone with someone who loves you (boyfriend or ex boyfriend in my case) and you're saying goodnight and they pause... What are they waiting for? Am I supposed to say I love you first? Is that what it is? My ex ALWAYS does this and it makes me laugh so I say I love you and he says I love you too and then we hang up. It's awkward and I don't know what he wants or is waiting for so... I just fill the empty silence (though I'd say I love you anyways) and let it go.

[jellyfish]

Hey, uhm my bf has like a small round ball thingy next to his balls, in the ball sack...can it be something serious or is it normal?

[danceintx]

Hey, uhm my bf has like a small round ball thingy next to his balls, in the ball sack...can it be something serious or is it normal?

Umm, I'm not a guy (sorry), but that could be a hernia. My son had one, it's where the shaft that their testicles drop down through during puberty don't close off like they are supposed to and intestines end up dropping down through, creating that bump. His was next to his testicles too. The surgery for this type of hernia is a lot easier to do than for a regular hernia.

[kailua]

Thanks.I do agree with your views, and I do not mind being the one to start the conversation, it would be nice if they would hear that this is not against them, just something that needs to be discussed....

[Texinator]

i dont understand why he feels entitled to tell me what to do with my property.

Does he usually try to tell you what to do with other things too or is it isolated to the shed?

[happy ending]

Does he usually try to tell you what to do with other things too or is it isolated to the shed?

i wish it was isolated to the shed. no he is often telling me what to do, ie dont cut your hair, practice your dancing, see a solicitor about your divorce etc etc. i am a fairly cruisy person, so he tells me it is for my own good. but it does feel disrespectful sometimes.

[happy ending]

Hey, uhm my bf has like a small round ball thingy next to his balls, in the ball sack...can it be something serious or is it normal?

i would see a doctor about that my nephew (who was only 19) found a lump in his balls and it was a maliginant tumour, didnt ask much about the details ie how he found it etc, but he was on interferon and everything for about 2 years.

[Texinator]

he was fine on his week off.

happy, I missed this part in the original post. Do you think his outburst could be related to his work? Is he happy with his job? I think you said elsewhere he can change from very sweet to very moody.

[happy ending]

yes he doesnt really like his job, but the problem on his week off, is that he promised that we would go camping together, but he put me off because his friend was up here, but he still maintained that we "have" to fence off the shed, he said it was for my benefit - i asked him how, but you wouldnt explain. just said it was obvious!