[WildChild]

Personally,at this pont I've gone from neutral, watching it occasionally myself, to thinking that if I give another relationship a try someday, this may be a real sticking point with me. I could happily have sex a couple times a day and having been completely sidelined in favor of a man's hand....I'm not sure how I'm going to feel about porn anymore.

[manspoint]

Couldn't resist this...

[WildChild]

LOL, It also doesn't do your laundry, laugh at lame jokes for the third time, pick you up from the mechanics shop or drive you down to pick up your vehicle, steady the board you're cutting, bake your favorite cookies, oh and ah over the great job you did, let you use it's credit card when yours won't go through, and you can't make its day with a kiss.

[pretzel]

LOL, It also doesn't do your laundry, laugh at lame jokes for the third time, pick you up from the mechanics shop or drive you down to pick up your vehicle, steady the board you're cutting, bake your favorite cookies, oh and ah over the great job you did, let you use it's credit card when yours won't go through, and you can't make its day with a kiss.

Yeah, but it also doesn't complain about everything you do is wrong.

[Millania]

porn seems like the much easier alternative then :/

[pretzel]

porn seems like the much easier alternative then :/

Sorry, it was a somewhat lame attempt at snarkiness on my part and is in part based on my own relationship.

It should be a no harm, no foul type of post.

[Millania]

lol Pretzel, no I understand what you mean- but I am certainly learning that most men use porn as an easy and quick fix/alternative when their SO is not around

[pretzel]

lol Pretzel, no I understand what you mean- but I am certainly learning that most men use porn as an easy and quick fix/alternative when their SO is not around

Thanks, it's early for me.

[Explorer44]

Sigh, looks like I'm late to the dance, but I'll tell the tale anyway..

My former SO told me very clearly how he liked his women.."natural/trimmed" NEVER shaved or bare..etc. etc. Very religious, in his mind. Lots of rules.

Imagine my surprise to walk into his computer room too quickly before he could click away and see a website filled with young women (20's-he's 56 so it was a little creepy to think they could be his daughters) all with shaved/bare nether regions and performing various poses and such.

mmm hmmmm. So that would explain all that "Mah Jongg" he always had on his computer. Guess he was really looking for a different "pair" than the game could offer!

It might also explain his initial inability to maintain an erection...but I digress

What did I think? Well, I thought it was ridiculous that he would hide it, frankly. And I felt betrayed that he didn't tell me about it. And I started to wonder what was in his mind.

And we're no longer together, so......

[mylo99]

The answer is, "probably." If I masturbate to porn earlier in the day, then have sex with my SO later. It is very likely, but not guaranteed, that I am thinking of someone, or some activity, that I saw on the screen.