[cocoa]

There are aren't there? Good question you posted.
One thing I've learned is that age need not be a barrier in a relationship, in either direction - older or younger - and if you make it one, you're needlessly missing opportunities and shutting off interesting avenues to travel.

personality, lifestyle and value compatibility, and life experience plays a pretty strong role and i think age plays a huge role. i don't think age can be nixed from the equation. I think it holds more weight and value than many admit, or at least the stronger sense of identity, maturity, and stability which is often a trait of someone older.

[mrsent]

I have a little fantasy about sleeping with an older man...someone 15-20 years older than me...... maybe someday I'll be able to answer this question. haha. I think it will be very hot and passionate.

you wont regret.