[Texinator]

As far as I'm concerned, if someone has a problem with my penis size, they can go perform a certain sexual activity on themselves.

Though unless someone explicitly states that they have a problem - and nobody has ever made a negative comment - I'm also not going to worry that I might be inadequate.

I should have said "I'm also not going to worry that they might consider me inadequate." Because I know I'm not inadequate either way, and anybody who begs to differ is in my opinion a shallow person whose opinion is irrelevant.

It's not difficult at all to think this way.

[Guest]

Just as many women need constant reassurance that the man in their life finds them attractive, many men seem to need assurance that their penis is large enough. Interestingly when I was younger I never had a man comment on the size of his penis, aside from one who really was huge and concerned that wouldn't scare me away. As I've gotten older and gotten back into the world of being single, every man I've been with (granted that isn't a large number) has commented that his penis is on the smaller side and seems to need assurance that it is enough. It seems that porn and the media is succeeding in making men as body insecure as woman have been made to be.

At this rate we can forget sex I guess because everyone will be so busy being insecure and hiding out so no one will see their pathetic body.

yeah i agree...i think Men in general always think "bigger is better" as a inherent belief. personally, i think i have a awesome body...especially for someone who never works out and eats like a pig (thats beginning to catch up to me now though)....but as a "bruh", i'm still tentative on if i have a pretty enough face. sure i'd like to have a bigger penis, but i feel like if you can get a girl in bed, who cares how small your penis is? how many people will ever see your thing in action? but everyone will see your face...

[Master Bruh]

I think the whole penis debate in lady bruh's mind could be compared to the old problem of "Does this dress make me look fat".. Its a moral issue, you dont want to be like "Yea that makes you look big(irony)" or in penis terms its kind of small to me. So you soften it up so you dont destroy his pride with how you really feel, but if it looks good you really get excited and talk about it or compliment it more...like with a bruh he'll be ready to have you right then and there.

Master Bruh has Spoken.....

[allspice]

It's really easy.

Breast size doesn't matter. Why should it? Does it serve any function? No. Breasts are breasts, and they're all the best thing since sliced bread. You can flash yours at anyone and get an excited reaction. ...and if there isn't an excited reaction, he's either gay or impotent. Simple as that.

Penis size doesn't matter. Why should it? A man with a 5 inch penis can please a woman just as well as one with a 7 inch penis. Even if he needed tweezers to shake after peeing, he could still use his hands and tongue to please her; in fact, he could probably do a better job than a dude who is dragging a 12 incher across the floor.

That's not to say that there aren't people out there for whom breast or penis size doesn't matter. But who gives a rat's rectum what they think. They're the same kind who believe a man making $100,000 a year is twice as good as the one making $50,000 or that a 25 year old woman is twice as hot as a 50 year old. In other words, they're idiots.

I disagree, breasts are primarily for feeding babies which they can do no matter what size they are.

A mans penis size does matter to some women, sorry but its the truth. Your mistake is in assuming that women are happy to be pleased "in other ways" if its that small he has to shake it with tweezers. The reason small doesnt work for me is that small ones just dont reach the right places, not because "bigger is better" in a to the eye sort of way.

I've had several small ones and let me tell you things didnt go real far! However on the same hand it may be that I am larger than normal in that regard so require something a bit extra. LOL

In the end its not that a bigger one is better for all its that each person needs to find the corresponding sized partner for optimum fit and pleasure.

And for the record - I'd like bigger boobs!! (being a D as it is) They woudl balance my **** better.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

IDK

I never had children, although I have a step daughter, breast to me are my biggest love of my body and that of my fiance, they are beauty in themselves, no matter no size.

I also have had small, average, large, ..... I agree with Tex, see if a man knows how to be intimate, he can indeed in love spin you out and spit you out whereby, when he enters, it's just as amazing, your virgina responds, tightens, en-largens, what ever ...that's the way it was meant to be, in sexual en-lightenment or love.

[Texinator]

Bumpety bump, bump, bump.

[Guest]

Just figured I'd weigh in here, having experience with various sizes. It's a little tough for me to talk about as I'm ashamed of the way in which I was able to experience a "large man", but this forum has helped me so much over the past few months and I want to try to help some others out understand this issue. This isn't the place for my personal transgressions, and I'll do my best to keep them out of this post and keep it purely informative. I'll post what happened in my old thread later if anyone is interested in hearing about what happened and possibly suggesting advice/council.

I've had experience with 4 inch guys, 6 inch guys, and just recently I experienced my first 8 inch man.

Initially, I was of the opinion "size doesn't matter". The reason I believed this to be the case was because my 4 inch boyfriend was able to get me off just fine. Sex was never really a problem in the relationship at all, but also keep in mind that I'm a very petite girl and my vaginal is relatively small, at least from what I understand.

Then I met the man that, who is now my most recent ex. We initially had great sex, definitely better than with my first boyfriend (Not that sex in the first relationship was bad) and he was 6 inches. I never really attributed the difference in pleasure to size, I believe it to be because we had such a strong emotional connection, not just temporary lust, and also due to the fact that I was a more "seasoned" lover after our first relationship. Regrettably, the sex took a turn for the worst towards the end of the relationship, leading to the lapse in judgment that led me to my last sexual partner, but it was certainly not due to my boyfriends penis size.

Moving on to my last sexual partner the circumstances were quite different. First off we didn't share any type of deep emotional connection, the sex was based entirely on lust that seemingly appeared out of nowhere. Maybe it was hidden somewhere down within me? I can't be sure I'm not a psychiatrist, but I know that I was not expecting to have sex the night I did.

The second difference was the size of my partner, he was 8 inches. Now I realize this may seem difficult to believe because 8 inches is apparently very rare, and girls have been known to exaggerate the size of the men they've been with in both directions. However, I noticed this guy was bigger than normal when we started undressing each other. When we were both naked he could see that I was fixated how how large he was. I was a little afraid of how sex would feel with someone that large, but mostly just excited and incredibly turned on thinking of how awesome it might feel. I had to ask him how large he was and when he told me 8 inches I didn't believe him. He insisted upon it and said I could measure him after sex. I did out of curiosity and he was indeed every inch of 8 inches.

size does matter from my perspective. While it may not be impossible to get a girl to climax with a smaller penis, the intensity of the orgasm caused by a large penis has, so far in my life, been unable to be recreated, even by people with whom I've had much stronger emotional ties.

With all this being said I think their is definitely a difference, and the decision of how much this issue really means to a women is hers and hers alone . I imagine most women don't ever have to experience this issue considering their aren't many "above average" men walking around that are between 7-9 inches. If you've never experienced someone of that size then you "don't know what you're missing" as the expression goes so it doesn't matter anyways, but that doesn't mean that's a bad thing, nor do I encourage going out looking for "what you're missing" if you're perfectly content in your current relationship. It may in many ways be detrimental, because in the event you experience a large man, and it turns out he's a complete jerk, as with my experience, you may end up being destined comparing all your subsequent sexual experiences to "that guy". I really hope that's not the case for myself.

[jns]

I'll post what happened in my old thread later if anyone is interested in hearing about what happened and possibly suggesting advice/council.

Nice to see you posting again.

I think that women come in a variety of sizes, also, which is the reason there is variation in the chart you Googled. Amongst the women, there are some that would be certain that 5 inches is ideal and anything over 6 inches is a problem as their cervix keeps getting hit. Then there are others that 8 inches or more is not a problem. This is typical variation amongst biological beings.

What happens is that some people spend an inordinate amount of time worrying about what they got instead of spending time finding someone they are compatible with. I also think that for some, the loving the one that they are with is much more important than the mechanics of intercourse itself. Since the greatest sex organ is the brain, they can be perfectly happy with someone that others may say got shortchanged.

[WildChild]

Moving on to my last sexual partner the circumstances were quite different. First off we didn't share any type of deep emotional connection, the sex was based entirely on lust that seemingly appeared out of nowhere. Maybe it was hidden somewhere down within me? I can't be sure I'm not a psychiatrist, but I know that I was not expecting to have sex the night I did.

The second difference was the size of my partner, he was 8 inches. Now I realize this may seem difficult to believe because 8 inches is apparently very rare, and girls have been known to exaggerate the size of the men they've been with in both directions. However, I noticed this guy was bigger than normal when we started undressing each other. When we were both naked he could see that I was fixated how how large he was. I was a little afraid of how sex would feel with someone that large, but mostly just excited and incredibly turned on thinking of how awesome it might feel. I had to ask him how large he was and when he told me 8 inches I didn't believe him. He insisted upon it and said I could measure him after sex. I did out of curiosity and he was indeed every inch of 8 inches.

Anyways, as for the sex? It was absolutely earth-shattering. I regret every minute of it in hindsight, due to the circumstances under which it occurred.

In otherwords, size does matter from my perspective. While it may not be impossible to get a girl to climax with a smaller penis, the intensity of the orgasm caused by a large penis has, so far in my life, been unable to be recreated, even by people with whom I've had much stronger emotional ties.

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I'm confused. This is the guy whom you offered to pay to throw the fight with your bf and who told you, you should blow him or something. Then he beat the snot out of your bf and later showed up at your door, knowing that your bf was off on a retreat? He was appolgetic and then you, not knowing how, ended up naked with him and even had anal sex for the first time with him? Then he told you that you were a lousy lay and called you a ho? So when was it in this progression that you measured him?

Then you got in to that bizarre progression in the ring later with some woman fingering you to orgasm while she had you pinned and used a strap on on you? Then because she won, she did your bf in front of you right there in the ring? Including anal?

Sounds something they would put in the old Penthouse Forum on an off day.

[kristalyn_04]

Yeah... Chloe, I'm not touching that one. Your particular situation, that is... that's a conversation for another thread.

As far as the penis size comment, I agree with what jns said. If people just had sex with no emotional attachment whatsoever, and had sex the same way all the time, then yeah maybe then size would matter. It's true that differing sizes will feel different inside a woman. But, a guy that knows how to please a woman, has good communication and pays attention to her pleasure, will be a great lover no matter his size. If he is on the large side along with skill, then yeah for many woman the experience could be "earth shattering". However, there is another component to sex that makes it a mind-blowing experience... love. Sex between two people that love each other is very different than between two people who barely know each other and just want to get laid. With the person you love, every touch, every kiss, every movement FEELS different, you can feel those emotions running through you like electricity and brings the experience to a whole new level that can't be explained with words. That, IMO, is a truly earth-shattering experience that can't be matched by any guy with a big penis. When you love someone, you love every part of them, no matter their size, shape, or anything else on their body.

Rant over.