LB - Well, we don't talk about sex outside of when we are doing it. I don't think we ever did, but we do talk sometimes in bed, usually at my instigation. She might comment she came twice and did I notice or my feels extra hard morning, but it's just comments not like a conversation.
She has never expressed a wish to do anything new, yet will occasionaly clamber into a new position, or one we haven't used for a long time without saying anything. Less common these days as we have tried most and know what we like by now. As an example, the first time she wanted it doggie she just rolled over on all fours and stuck her butt in the air. It was obvious what she wanted, but she didn't say a word and as I remember hadn't wanted to try it when I suggested it before. Other times if I have gone down on her she will be really into it and say after "how did you know that was what I wanted right then?" But I can't remember her ever asking me to go down on her. I guess you could say she's more action than words - if our sex life hit the buffers it would be a problem but we seem to manage ok. She enjoys sex when we're doing it, but I don't believe she gives it much of a thought outside of that situation.
I have made a game of it, but I always loose! She will give me a handjob, rubbing me around her nipples but always points me away at the last moment so I
cum on my self or the sheets. Her timing is faultless! After I will pull her towards me for a hug and she'll wriggle and squeal to keep out of the wet patch. Sometimes she will catch a few drops, and I'll clean her up or once we've settled down she'll go to the bathroom and wash her hands. But as far as deliberatly directing the shot onto herself, no way!
Maybe she just knows what she wants to do, and since it's 90% of what I want to do and 0% of what I don't want to do it works for us.
Anyway, reading what some couples are going through in relationships nowhere near as long lasting as ours, I feel we are lucky with what we have. Probably one day she will just do it when I least expect it!
She has never expressed a wish to do anything new, yet will occasionaly clamber into a new position, or one we haven't used for a long time without saying anything. Less common these days as we have tried most and know what we like by now. As an example, the first time she wanted it doggie she just rolled over on all fours and stuck her butt in the air. It was obvious what she wanted, but she didn't say a word and as I remember hadn't wanted to try it when I suggested it before. Other times if I have gone down on her she will be really into it and say after "how did you know that was what I wanted right then?" But I can't remember her ever asking me to go down on her. I guess you could say she's more action than words - if our sex life hit the buffers it would be a problem but we seem to manage ok. She enjoys sex when we're doing it, but I don't believe she gives it much of a thought outside of that situation.
I have made a game of it, but I always loose! She will give me a handjob, rubbing me around her nipples but always points me away at the last moment so I
cum on my self or the sheets. Her timing is faultless! After I will pull her towards me for a hug and she'll wriggle and squeal to keep out of the wet patch. Sometimes she will catch a few drops, and I'll clean her up or once we've settled down she'll go to the bathroom and wash her hands. But as far as deliberatly directing the shot onto herself, no way!
Maybe she just knows what she wants to do, and since it's 90% of what I want to do and 0% of what I don't want to do it works for us.
Anyway, reading what some couples are going through in relationships nowhere near as long lasting as ours, I feel we are lucky with what we have. Probably one day she will just do it when I least expect it!
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