[Guest]

Another way to think about this is in terms of visiting your neighbor's house... through the back door. The proper approach is to knock at the door, announce your presence, wait for an answer, and then enter slowly. But you certainly don't want to arrive unannounced, kick down the back door, and then barge right in. That's a good way to get shot.

Lolx!!
where were u Tex??? got it all..

[Ashlee T.]

Soooo....did you do it?

[Guest]

Soooo....did you do it?

meeting up tomorrow..pray for me..im so nervous..after the meeting in which i lost my virginity,this is my first meeting with him..i want it to b so perfect,coz i kinda messed up last time coz it was hurting so much,despite all his care and patience..im a little more than sensitive when it comes to bearing any physical pain.....

[Guest]

Soooo....did you do it?

meeting up tomorrow..pray for me..im so nervous..after the meeting in which i lost my virginity,this is my first meeting with him..i want it to b so perfect,coz i kinda messed up last time coz it was hurting so much,despite all his care and patience..im a little more than sensitive when it comes to bearing any physical pain.....

[Texinator]

You didn't mess up the experience by being in pain. Most people are very nervous the first few times they have sex, and that tension leads to muscle tightening, which in turn can lead to pain when you're trying to have intercourse. Pain is not uncommon but it is also not what you're supposed to be feeling, so be sure to be careful and take things slowly. That means if your last time with him was also your first time having sex, then you might not necessarily want to jump to anal right away. Work on making intercourse more pleasurable and improving your skills, especially in regard to communicating what feels good to you and what doesn't.

[Guest]

You didn't mess up the experience by being in pain. Most people are very nervous the first few times they have sex, and that tension leads to muscle tightening, which in turn can lead to pain when you're trying to have intercourse. Pain is not uncommon but it is also not what you're supposed to be feeling, so be sure to be careful and take things slowly. That means if your last time with him was also your first time having sex, then you might not necessarily want to jump to anal right away. Work on making intercourse more pleasurable and improving your skills, especially in regard to communicating what feels good to you and what doesn't.

Yeah i was nervous like ..not exactly pain,but i had this piercing feeling..
i dont want to jump ryt away =(..i guess ill have to say NO this time,atleast until and unless i feel comfortable about it..thnx..

[Texinator]

Yeah i was nervous like ..not exactly pain,but i had this piercing feeling..
i dont want to jump ryt away =(..i guess ill have to say NO this time,atleast until and unless i feel comfortable about it..thnx..

There's no need to rush. Sex won't be going out of style any time soon, and if he's a good guy, he'll be willing to show some patience and not try to perform every act and position in one single session. So go with a pace that feels comfortable for you. After all, it's supposed to be an enjoyable experience.

[Guest]

we dont meet up much..its just the fone or internet most of the times =(...mybe thats the reason we rush and rushed things so fastly..and it was an enjoyable experience,except 'that' part of it..

[WildChild]

meeting up tomorrow..pray for me..im so nervous..after the meeting in which i lost my virginity,this is my first meeting with him..i want it to b so perfect,coz i kinda messed up last time coz it was hurting so much,despite all his care and patience..im a little more than sensitive when it comes to bearing any physical pain.....

Wait a minute, this isn't the second time you are actually having sex is it?

[LanaBear]

Wait a minute, this isn't the second time you are actually having sex is it?

I was just wondering the same thing.

You've had sex with him once? And he's pushing for anal? Is this right?