[hotdogg]

porn really is no big deal!

i would say 99% of men use porn, i was in the army and all the guys i knew used porn. most men admit to using porn, all my husbands friends use porn, i know because they buy porn dvds from my husbands brother.

using porn is purely for masterbation purposes, basically it is the lazy option to engaging in intercourse, intercourse takes effort, and more time. people can be and are lazy at times.

also men do not look at porn because they are not happy with there woman, you could be miss world and your hubby would still look at porn (LAZY OPTION) to engaging in sex.

has long has your partner meets your sexual needs and loves you, their really is nothing to worry about.

frankly i would be more worried if my hubby did not look at porn because he might be into something worse, IE, he might be gay or into hookers or heaven forbid kids.

i have watched all the porno dvds that are in my house and they are no big deal.

ladies if you discover your man has a secret porn stash! firstly so do 99% of all men. also it no way reflects on you or how you look.

[Guest]

also it no way reflects on you or how you look.

girls, this is the only shred of truth in this post.

please do yourselves and the men you care about a favor: ignore the hotdog's worthless advice. porn is insidious and dangerous. it's exciting, sure.

and so is meth.

[SuzetteV]

girls, this is the only shred of truth in this post.

please do yourselves and the men you care about a favor: ignore the hotdog's worthless advice. porn is insidious and dangerous. it's exciting, sure.

and so is meth.

100% true. Porn is not only insidious, it is dangerous. Where do you (accepting women) draw the line? Your man can look at porn as long as it's just women? What if that turns into children? Is that okay too? Or animal porn? What if their 'curiosities' turn to realities. ALL of this is very possible. Prohibit porn in all situations. It is unacceptable.
Do a little research on the criminal mind. See how many convicted molesters, rapists, etc,... started out 'just viewing porn'.

[Guest]

Everyone makes porn sound like it's straight from the devil himself.

[Guest]

not sure about everyone - but i certainly believe that.

[patricias213]

Pornography is big business. It is evil. It is contagious. It is addicting. It is estimated that there are 4.2 million porn Web sites ? 12 percent of the total amount of sites ? allowing access to 72 million worldwide visitors annually. One-quarter of total daily search engine requests, or 68 million, are for pornographic material, where 40 million Americans are regular visitors.

People pay more money for pornography in America in a year than they do on movie and performing arts tickets. There were 11,000 porn video titles released last year verses 400 movie releases from Hollywood. The porn industry employs over 12,000 people in California and pays over $36 million in taxes every year. According to Websense, a company that tracks Internet content, the number of porn sites is 17 times greater than it was four years ago, growing from about 88,000 sites in 2000 to nearly 1.6 million in 2004.

Porn is a pandemic that is spreading across America fatally weakening the population. Men are losing their families and jobs. Wives are totally devastated and in shock their husbands of twenty years are addicted to porn. Women addicted to porn are having adulterous affairs and catching STD's. Teenagers are learning sexuality from porn and practicing oral sex on each other. Young girls dream of becoming porn stars and living the "glamorous" life. But the truth is...

Porn is Not Glamorous.

[Guest]

no, it's not.

that comment about young people learning sexuality from porn can't be overstated. most porn is tailored for guys & the girls are treated like ****s. nothing wrong with being a little ****ty with your husband - but the girls in porn are treated like objects. it is absolutely lacking anything that would be fulfilling for a woman.

this is what young girls & boys are learning is normal.

[hotdogg]

my word you people have serious issues!

firsty 99% of all men view porn, that is a fact.

so if you think you are going to find a man that never looks at porn, never finds other women attractive, never thinks about having sex with another women apart from you for the rest of their lives, you need to wake up and smell the coffee!

porn will always be around that is a fact!

[Guest]

porn, like murder and crack, will always be around. you're right about that.

but if you believe you will never find a man who will get his sole sexual fulfillment from you & you alone - if you believe that is impossible - you've bought the biggest lie being fed to women today.

folks might be interested to check this out:

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she's been in tons of videos recently. in fact, some of you guys who use porn to spice things up may very well have seen her.

[hotdogg]

(but if you believe you will never find a man who will get his sole sexual fulfillment from you & you alone - if you believe that is impossible - you've bought the biggest lie being fed to women today.)

no i have not bought the biggest lie! i am realistic, just because you are in a relationship it does not mean the rest of the world stops! people still find other people attractive, people still have fantasies, and just because you watch a porn dvd does not mean you are cheating on your partner or want too cheat on them.


you sound like an insecure person to me, however someone who is confident about the way the look and their relationship would not feel threatened by porn.