[Guest]

something else -

your marriage analogy is perfect. you said some marriages are abusive, but not all are - so should they all be banned?

great question - great analogy.

marriage is to abusive marriages as sex is to porn.

porn is an abuse of sex. should sex be banned? no.

should porn? absolutely.

great illustration.

[hotdogg]

that statement did not make much sense!

porn might be an abuse to sex in your eyes, it is not in my eyes.

[*~Kira~*]

Porn is one big act. The women and men are acting and half the time you can tell. I really dont understand what the big deal is about porn. The only problem with porn is the women who turn it into a big issue. You can call it evil but that only means your saying sex is evil and you are crazy if your saying that lol. You want your man to come to you everytime he is horny. Sweetheart wake up and realize it aint gonna happen trust me I know. If you have sex everytime he is horny than sex will get boring real fast. That will kill a relationship and it will probably cause a man to cheat. Sex is apart of everyday life. Peoples main desire is to be famous and rich. Actors are famous for acting, Atheletes are famous for their skills in the sport and porn stars are famous for being good at sex. You cant judge these gurls because you dont know them. All women want to be desired, be sexy and recieve attention from men. You can think bad bout all you want of me but I make videos for my boyfriend and I love the fact of him pleasing hisself to it. I'm not a bad person I'm just a women who is confortable with my body and comfortable with letting her man know it, and who loves to please her man. I would rather him home pleasing himself than out having another women do it.

[rachelray]

me and my husband both enjoy porn sometimes we watch it together sometimes by ourselves my husband enjoys looking at it everyday when hes home alone and usually masturbates to it. we've been together about 13 years and still have sex almost everyday he a very big sweetheart to me and were the best of Friends mostly because theres nothing we cant talk about to each other its fun trying some of the things I consider it entertaining and kind of educational especially if you enjoy roll playing. I do believe about 99% of men watch it and think its sad most of them have to hide it because their significant others insecurities

[hotdogg]

"I would rather him home pleasing himself than out having another women do it."

MY HUSBANDS AGREES WITH THAT TOO, HE SAYS HE WOULD SOONER I WATCHED PORN THAN CHEAT ON HIM! NOT THAT I EVER WOULD.

[Guest]

"I would rather him home pleasing himself than out having another women do it."

MY HUSBANDS AGREES WITH THAT TOO, HE SAYS HE WOULD SOONER I WATCHED PORN THAN CHEAT ON HIM! NOT THAT I EVER WOULD.

...I agree.

Okay. I know I'm not married and not experienced like everyone else, but this just sounds better to me.

[Guest]

If you have sex everytime he is horny than sex will get boring real fast. That will kill a relationship and it will probably cause a man to cheat.

this is just, stupid.

"I would rather him home pleasing himself than out having another women do it."

yes, if those are your only two options, then porn may be the better choice.

[*~Kira~*]

After having sex so many times a day or a week can get boring. Every person is some how horny or they think about sex more than once a day. So what everytime you are active your supposed to have sex. NO!!!!! It will seriously get boring. You wil be having sex at least four times everyday. You know what you kind of just proved my point too. Those are the only two options its either he does it himself or he has another woman satisfy he needs and this whole time your setting here bashing porn.

[YummyMummyNat]

My husband does not watch porn. Period. I've got a BIG problem with it and I tell him that I find it uncomfortable and I don't like it (we have sex 1 or 2 times A DAY so he doesn't need it)

[Guest]

After having sex so many times a day or a week can get boring. Every person is some how horny or they think about sex more than once a day. So what everytime you are active your supposed to have sex. NO!!!!! It will seriously get boring. You wil be having sex at least four times everyday. You know what you kind of just proved my point too. Those are the only two options its either he does it himself or he has another woman satisfy he needs and this whole time your setting here bashing porn.

i'm sorry but you're just wrong. these are not the only two options. if they are for you, then i suggest you set some new rules - but that's not my business. your partner does not have to get off every time he gets horny. neither do you.

it's actually the sexual energy that builds when you don't get off every time you want to that makes sex so much fun when you do finally come together with your partner. ideally, your partner would be the only one with whom you release that sexual tension.

and, if anything, you are actually proving my point. if sex with a real live woman gets boring - how much more will sex with a unidemensional computer image get boring! this is exactly why guys look at harder, more extreme stuff when they are into porn.

if a guy has only 2 options when he gets horny - either wack off to porn or be unfaithful, i would say the guy is underestimating his ability to control his appetites.

lets hope none of these types of guys are working for the power company. otherwise we can expect the lights to go out everytime he needs to leave his job to masturbate or cheat on his wife.

back to reality... in all seriousness. sure, things lose their luster. sex can become routine & boring. so can any aspect of a committed relationship. the answer is not porn. you have to work together to solve those problems, whatever they are.

you first get together & everything is a thrill. cooking breakfast together. going to the movies. planting flowers. going out to dinner - whatever.

it all can become stale. porn offers a quick fix imposter alternative to the real thing. it pulls people apart, though it cleverly makes them think they're coming together.

what will you do when you're together 20 years & watching TV together on the couch has become boring?

you have to roll up your sleeves & do the work.

a guy going into a closet to jack off with porn because he's bored with his wife is a very cheap alternative. he & his wife are selling themselves short regarding both what they deserve and what they are capable of.