porn really is no big deal!
i would say 99% of men use porn, i was in the army and all the guys i knew used porn. most men admit to using porn, all my husbands friends use porn, i know because they buy porn dvds from my husbands brother.
using porn is purely for masterbation purposes, basically it is the lazy option to engaging in intercourse, intercourse takes effort, and more time. people can be and are lazy at times.
also men do not look at porn because they are not happy with there woman, you could be miss world and your hubby would still look at porn (LAZY OPTION) to engaging in sex.
has long has your partner meets your sexual needs and loves you, their really is nothing to worry about.
frankly i would be more worried if my hubby did not look at porn because he might be into something worse, IE, he might be gay or into hookers or heaven forbid kids.
i have watched all the porno dvds that are in my house and they are no big deal.
ladies if you discover your man has a secret porn stash! firstly so do 99% of all men. also it no way reflects on you or how you look.
i would say 99% of men use porn, i was in the army and all the guys i knew used porn. most men admit to using porn, all my husbands friends use porn, i know because they buy porn dvds from my husbands brother.
using porn is purely for masterbation purposes, basically it is the lazy option to engaging in intercourse, intercourse takes effort, and more time. people can be and are lazy at times.
also men do not look at porn because they are not happy with there woman, you could be miss world and your hubby would still look at porn (LAZY OPTION) to engaging in sex.
has long has your partner meets your sexual needs and loves you, their really is nothing to worry about.
frankly i would be more worried if my hubby did not look at porn because he might be into something worse, IE, he might be gay or into hookers or heaven forbid kids.
i have watched all the porno dvds that are in my house and they are no big deal.
ladies if you discover your man has a secret porn stash! firstly so do 99% of all men. also it no way reflects on you or how you look.
ffice" />then what the big deal is ?
if Porn is a way to test your husband's sexuality,
then you need to test your brain first.
....downs ranging from financial difficulties to a year and a half ago i found out my husband had an affair with a "good friend" that lasted for over 3 years
. He claims the affair is over, and i believe it is...as the other woman has moved away and i have not found anything AT ALL suspisios of him doing so. I am grateful that we worked through it (at least i am conned (again) to believe its over)
, but we discussed in therapy how if he were to be lying about something elese and not being up front with me, it would kill me all over, and he awknowledged and assured myself, himself and the therapist he was not/would not do that and if he did he would be upfront. Overtime, as devestating and hard this has been, i have learned to accept that he did this to "us" and go on with my life. It actually made our relationship stronger (i thought). Well i work nights and came home 2 days ago and went on the internet cookies and found that he deleted the stuff he was hiding and kept the stuff he wanted me to think he was seeing, like football guys.com and ESPN stuff, not Paris hiltona dn pamela andersons ****. It was porn...again, like a year and a half ago i was devestated...he says he likes porn and feels ashamed that he does...i try to let him know...that it hurts more to lie that the fact he likes porn.....I am not very comfortable about it, but i can accept it, if it is not sick and crazy porn (like childen pornography), but i did wish it was more tasteful and a bit softer than that. I can live with the fact that he likes porn, and it almost turns me on for some sick strange reason....but then again...it makes me feel ugly and dirty at times.....
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