[rhiannon34]

I am a fairly sexual person and orgasms are a important part of my life. If I couldn't have orgasms anymore I would be pretty devastated. I have never had a purely g-spot orgasm and I really, really wish I could. I think it would be amazingly intimate to have an orgasm just by him being inside me. If there was a way I could make that happen I would do it.

[cocoa]

What they may both fail to grasp is that connectedness and quality rather than quantity is what will win the day.

Exactly.

You got it!
Scientist and science fiction writer Robert Heinlein brought this up in some of his books, that women are horniest when they just had sex (one orgasm creates a desire for more).
No matter how attracted I am to a man, my attraction to him can carry it only so far. If he is not a good and interested lover, I will start to lose interest in sex with him - not in sex but with him. Too many men (and women) seem to define being "good" at sex as getting him off.

Unless he defines it in this way. Some guys do judge whether she is good by his orgasm. And they're quite unhappy with the experience if that doesn't happy.

I've been trying to figure out how to describe what my good orgasms feel like but all I can really seem to describe is my reaction to the feelings. So, here goes. It starts when the body overrides the brain's chatter. I either can't think of anything other than my lover and what I feel or can't form real thoughts at all. Intensity is the only way I can describe it. My hips are reacting to what he's doing, my feet go a little crazy lol, and I have to be careful not to hurt him with my hands or teeth. (See? Told ya, intensity.) When I'm just about to go over the edge it's like my body is pleading and reaching for something, to draw him in and be as close to him as possible. Then it seems like every part of my body is overwhelmed and I either draw in completely or push the energy all the way out (physically folding around him and myself or arching neck and back, barely able to breathe either way.) I can't make noise or move during this interminable amount of time. Every cell feels alive and electric. Then I'm like a puppet with her strings cut, no will to move at all for a while. After my brain comes back online I struggle to make my body obey me enough to touch him and try to show him some of what I'm feeling by caressing his face and/or holding him close. Hmm, now that I've written this I can sort of describe the feeling. It's like a wildfire rushing through my body and leaving just as abruptly.

Umm, yeah, great description.

[waya]

I tried

[cocoa]

I am a fairly sexual person and orgasms are a important part of my life. If I couldn't have orgasms anymore I would be pretty devastated. I have never had a purely g-spot orgasm and I really, really wish I could. I think it would be amazingly intimate to have an orgasm just by him being inside me. If there was a way I could make that happen I would do it.

There's nothing like it.