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Oh - who would be honest about it though.
If we asked all guys to come out of the woodwork on this forum and tell us length and girth, I have a hard time believing we would get honest answers...
I think men and women tend to bloviate about what they have or what they have had. Again, with the old adage that ginormous is awesome, right.
I think if you asked women about their current SO's size, you would get a different answer than asking the SO himself.Comment
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I honestly think that size doesn't matter as long as you know how to use it. even a 8 or 9 incher can be really bad, yet a 4 inch can be really good. I've been there. There are alot of women out there the cant get past the size but really it doesn't matter.
Plust its really not hard to be able to tell who has what. no questions asked. I've noted just by hanging with friends that most men who are smaller will rant and rave about there big penis. Just today, one of my ex's post on face book about how big his is but I know for a fact that he's berely got 5inches. yet the larger guys will normally shy away from a converstion like that. Not saying its true here, we are all just being honest, but out in the world is hwat i mean
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I'm not sure how it is with all guys but I asked my DH this question after I saw this post and he said he thinks most guys stretch the truth (pun intended
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Thats a very good point, my toys have always been 4 to 5 inches and I rarely put them all the way in... 2, 3 inches in gets my spot. If women were all about size those big mega dildo's would be flying off the shelf... they aren't. When women have pick of the litter on size in a sex shop... they stick to reality - 4-6 inch sized toys generally.I'm not sure how it is with all guys but I asked my DH this question after I saw this post and he said he thinks most guys stretch the truth (pun intended
) about their penis sizes. From my experience though I agree with Kallygirlie that size doesn't matter that much. I have a little 4" vibrator that's fantastic!
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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I think penis size only becomes a factor if the guy is not that good in bed. If a guy can please a woman with his fingers and mouth and get in there and get to business with his penis... size isn't a factor to the woman on the receiving end in most cases.
Now if he DOESN'T do all of the above and is just a pump and quit... yeah... size will become an issue... a bigger pump and quit might accidently hit some spots than a smaller pump and quit.
All things being equal... I'd rather have an orgasm from a considerate lover than a big penis stabbing away for his own.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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You hit it on the head!I think penis size only becomes a factor if the guy is not that good in bed. If a guy can please a woman with his fingers and mouth and get in there and get to business with his penis... size isn't a factor to the woman on the receiving end in most cases.
Now if he DOESN'T do all of the above and is just a pump and quit... yeah... size will become an issue... a bigger pump and quit might accidently hit some spots than a smaller pump and quit.
All things being equal... I'd rather have an orgasm from a considerate lover than a big penis stabbing away for his own.
I was really worried when DH and I first started having sex. He was smaller than my 2 previous BF's. Also the first 2 times we had sex it had been a LONG time for him so he did not last long. Well long story not short enough I had nothing to worry about. He is wonderful at pleasing me in every way. If he wants he can bring me to an O in 5 mins with just hands and tongue. 1st BF never gave me an O and he was at least 7 inches with good girth. Sex was good but never got me over the edge (he sure was a good kisser though! LOL) 2nd BF also 6" + did give me my first O but I always felt like a play thing, I never had the trust that I have now. Dh is 5 maybee 6" when super excited. It works for me! Also there are some positions (missionary with legs straight up/ holding your ankles that can shorten up a womans vagina and give alot more sensations.Comment
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