The reason I know my fiances penis size is because he told me, which is probably a similar case for a lot of women. Men take pride in how large their penis is and love to share it with their lover. It gives them a self-esteem boost to hear them say "wow...you're big" or they say it out loud because they KNOW their penis is big. Because the topic is so popular, I also feel women measure for ****z and giggles. Hey, if you had a vagina, wouldnt you examine it too? I think it's more of a curiousity thing, at least it is for me. If I had a penis, I'd measure than baby in a heart beat! LOL. If it was big, of course I'll brag about it. Only because that's what society has made people think is what all women want.

true true and that's not always the case I ain't gonna lie I measured mine quite a few times and I actually thought I was small because of porn but just about every female who ask my penis size said I was good with the exception of 3 and 2 of those woman were bragging about how they were with 11 and 12 inches respectively and watching that on x rated vids makes u feel like if u don't have a 10 inches at least ur small but then I read some porn star confessions where they were complaining about over endowed men and on the net I read some forums where some of the men were like 2-3 times smaller than what im packing so I don't sweat my penis size as much anymore although I would like more girth

[a_dub]

lol having that does not mean you are definitely going to be able to give a woman a G-spot orgasm. It just means technically speaking it could help more.

Small moral victories and baby steps, lol. I'm still looking for a receptive woman...once I find that, I can work on actually polishing that technique!

It means do not just assume that size equates pleasure, since many guys think it does. When women say "how he uses it" they are referring to his technique, vary speed, vary the depth you penetrate, certain positions will change how it feels and so forth, some men will use manual finger stimulation while also doing vaginal penetration...just doing more than simply pumping away. Whatever technique he comes up with does not mean it is an absolute working method or technique for all women as all women will react differently to each different action. Basically it is referring to not assuming that size alone does the job and simply pumping away....it does not work like a handbook manual of "do this ____ and this ____ will result".

Thank you so much. I've actually asked this in a whole lotta different places and never really got a straight answer. You don't know how valuable this information would be to the vast majority of inexperienced guys who otherwise only have porn videos to go off.

[ItsASecret]

3 inches - check
penis curve upward - check

I guess I'm good for the job!

lol having that does not mean you are definitely going to be able to give a woman a G-spot orgasm. It just means technically speaking it could help more.

Always have heard this, but maybe its my relative experience here...what does "use" mean exactly? During sex, the penis only really does one thing: thrusts in and out of the vagina. Is there a particular methodology that is referred to as "use"? For example, two deep thrusts for every shallow one perhaps.

It means do not just assume that size equates pleasure, since many guys think it does. When women say "how he uses it" they are referring to his technique, vary speed, vary the depth you penetrate, certain positions will change how it feels and so forth, some men will use manual finger stimulation while also doing vaginal penetration...just doing more than simply pumping away. Whatever technique he comes up with does not mean it is an absolute working method or technique for all women as all women will react differently to each different action. Basically it is referring to not assuming that size alone does the job and simply pumping away....it does not work like a handbook manual of "do this ____ and this ____ will result".

[a_dub]

Actually the G-spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall of the vagina so technically size means nothing as long as he is more than 2-3 inches in size to have a possible G-spot orgasm lol. What may help for G-spot orgasms is a penis that curves slightly upward. But regardless it is how a man uses his penis not his size that makes a difference.

Always have heard this, but maybe its my relative experience here...what does "use" mean exactly? During sex, the penis only really does one thing: thrusts in and out of the vagina. Is there a particular methodology that is referred to as "use"? For example, two deep thrusts for every shallow one perhaps.

[a_dub]

Actually the G-spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall of the vagina so technically size means nothing as long as he is more than 2-3 inches in size to have a possible G-spot orgasm lol. What may help for G-spot orgasms is a penis that curves slightly upward. But regardless it is how a man uses his penis not his size that makes a difference.

3 inches - check
penis curve upward - check

I guess I'm good for the job!

[ItsASecret]

I think size only might matter from an orgasmic standpoint for women who have g-spot vaginal orgasms on a frequent basis, but for many women there is a "too big" point, in the sense that he would hit her cervix too easily.

Actually the G-spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall of the vagina so technically size means nothing as long as he is more than 2-3 inches in size to have a possible G-spot orgasm lol. What may help for G-spot orgasms is a penis that curves slightly upward. But regardless it is how a man uses his penis not his size that makes a difference.

[Joe77]

Guy's $0.02 here. I believe based on measurements, etc that I am just about exactly average sized. That said, I think 90% of guys fall within less than an inch in length and a half inch in circumference of one another. It's only the outliers at each end that are all that different, i.e., micropenis, vs. Ron Jeremy, etc.

From my perspective, I think size only might matter from an orgasmic standpoint for women who have g-spot vaginal orgasms on a frequent basis, but for many women there is a "too big" point, in the sense that he would hit her cervix too easily.

[chaya]

I don't know how long my husband's.. is but judging by how much is still on the outside when I'm already in pain, I'd say it's about 2-3 inches too long.

[GoLeftThenRight]

Look up the cervix pain comments...that's what I meant, sorry..

[jns]

It only took a few females in for a girl to wisely say, "there is such a thing as too big."

I am having trouble finding this quote. Will you kindly point me to it's source?