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Guest repliedur probably right there's this doctor in la that does that surgery at $10,000 a pop and of course they will skew the graphs because they have to make $ so in a way it can be big business one thing i learned from this thread is that women care about a lot of other things in men besides what they're packing downstairs and the ones that are overly concerned with that in a man are shallow -
Guest repliedTrue true I still think a lot of men compare themselves to porno dudes (i'm guilty of that one) but come to find out Im bout 2'' above avg in length and average girth and i've been told by a few women how some men can be too big like your story earlier as for me i'm starting not 2 care 2 much about my size anymore because there are some men who i'm larger than when im limp so i feel fortunate that im not in that boat(i even talked to a couple of females where they were saying they were with dudes that had 2 inchers) but everything in your post seems logical to meYou certainly got it. I'm biased, but I tend to see bell curves in everything. In layman's terms, that means a some small, some large, but a lot in the middle. I think the average between 5-6 is about right and there are certainly outliers. But even with a population of outliers, there are likely 'outlier' women. So ladies and gentleman, if you don't fit, go find someone with who you do fit.
Natural selection has something to do with it, as well. We didn't just wake up and a certain percentage of the male populace grew 9 inche penises. If a male is too big, and it kills the enjoyment because he loses a lot of DIRECT contact with the vagina, then his motivation to pro-create decreases. If he has less children(male), then the population of oversized men just dipped. Same with his partner. A female who doesn't enjoy sex isn't going to have 9 children.
I've discussed this with the most reliable, informed group I can imagine, ER doctors at a major research hospital. Granted, their stories were grotesque, but they agreed that it was amazing the degree of variation in vagina size. It's just a flexible organ. And sure,there is variation in penis size as well, but few men have 12 inche penises.
p.s me and an old friend always felt like some of those dudes in porn got surgery and there's this doctor called dr. elist who does it i guess for a guy with a 2 incher he may want to go that route u only die once so u better make life good for yourself while ur here I'd still like to be more thicker than i am but I'll live I can work around thatLeave a comment:
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There is and always will be a normal distribution in penis size unless for some reason there is a genetic mutation in the general population that skews the data to larger or smaller penises in future males or males begin to get surgery done to enlarge or decrease the size of their penis lol. If neither of those types of outcomes happen then the normal distribution will remain.Leave a comment:
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You certainly got it. I'm biased, but I tend to see bell curves in everything. In layman's terms, that means a some small, some large, but a lot in the middle. I think the average between 5-6 is about right and there are certainly outliers. But even with a population of outliers, there are likely 'outlier' women. So ladies and gentleman, if you don't fit, go find someone with who you do fit.thats what im trying to convey hows life as a statistician I done some standard deviation in p-chem using calc that **** was interesting
Natural selection has something to do with it, as well. We didn't just wake up and a certain percentage of the male populace grew 9 inche penises. If a male is too big, and it kills the enjoyment because he loses a lot of DIRECT contact with the vagina, then his motivation to pro-create decreases. If he has less children(male), then the population of oversized men just dipped. Same with his partner. A female who doesn't enjoy sex isn't going to have 9 children.
I've discussed this with the most reliable, informed group I can imagine, ER doctors at a major research hospital. Granted, their stories were grotesque, but they agreed that it was amazing the degree of variation in vagina size. It's just a flexible organ. And sure,there is variation in penis size as well, but few men have 12 inche penises.Leave a comment:
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Curiosity I guess. I know everything else about him. The truth is that I hadn't thought about it at all for years prior to that comment. We've been together quite a while (since we were both 17, it'll be 20 years next March 22). I am quite satisfied NOW, but that had nothing to with him, size or otherwise.Leave a comment:
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Are you happy? Do you wish he were bigger smaller? If not, why should the actual measurement matter to you?Leave a comment:
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I might be in the minority here. I don't know my man's size. I've asked to measure him in the past but he said "You'll be disappointed." So I let the subject drop.. He
I'm very good friends with my hubby's best friend. He recently told me that he saw my hubby's penis briefly briefly and in his opinion, I was a very lucky woman. That got me curious again. I've though about asking again but I figure I'll get the same old answer.I might be in the minority here. I don't know my man's size. I've asked to measure him in the past but he said "You'll be disappointed." So I let the subject drop.. He
I'm very good friends with my hubby's best friend. He recently told me that he saw my hubby's penis briefly briefly and in his opinion, I was a very lucky woman. That got me curious again. I've though about asking again but I figure I'll get the same old answer.Leave a comment:
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Guest repliedthats what im trying to convey hows life as a statistician I done some standard deviation in p-chem using calc that **** was interestingAll this being said, I'll respond to one of Little's comments:
Having bedded over 50+ women, I'll say that few were afraid to have frank discussions about penis size. Most told me entirely more than I wanted to hear, either about me or about their previous boyfriends. Oh well.
One in particular stuck out. I hooked up with a girl that was engaged to another guy. I knew the guy, he was at least 6'4, 250+. I'm under 6ft and 200lbs. I wasn't aware they were engaged, but she was shallow and looking for a reason to get out of the deal, and I just happened to be there at the right time. After we had sex, she told me she had several orgasms and that she wasn't having orgasms with the fiance because he was simply too big. Went on and on about how big it was. Pretty much telling me I was smaller and at least by an inch. Granted, it might have been more reasons than that, but the point was, there is something to be said for FIT, rather than size, because it was mine that gave her an orgasm. Bottom Line: If you're too big, she simply may not enjoy it.
That graph is spot on. in my experience, most things boil down to bell curves. I do that for a living. z-score, t-score, probability. Standard Deviation. I firmly believe that average is about right. I've had women complain and I've had women I thought, "****, this is loose." It cuts both ways. But I'm pretty confident I'm close enough to average that it shouldn't matter. It's what else I'm doing that will make her happy.
Every male alive should understand the definition of tactile stimulation. For example, if you can tease a woman appropriately and make her WANT your penis, it's far better than having nine inches. It's all about how your penis makes her feel, men. If you don't know how to stimulate her with it, it won't matter how big it is. End of discussion.Leave a comment:
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Guest repliedI feel bad for u if u really want a bigger one save up 10g's and hit up dr elistLeave a comment:
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Guest repliedur kinda right the depth of most vaginas are like 4 inches and I have heard numerous complaints from woman as some bottom out at like 6-7 inches and when you go deeper than that you hit the cervix and some women don't like being hit in the cervix like that and when I read some of those female porn confessions they ended up with prolapsed uterus's, anus and forced to have a hysterectomy and not have kids anymore due to the overlarge penis but us men need to realize different strokes for different folks and a female told me once that some men can be too bigIf one woman likes huge penises because she enjoys the pain inflicted by them, good for her. I don't mind. There are plenty other women who prefer a more average size because it doesn't cause the pain. It's very little different than a guy who see's a girl with a large chest versus one with a smaller chest.Leave a comment:
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