[maleview]

Surely you realize that for some people with extra weight you are not going to achieve full penetration, there fore only 3 out of 5 gets in or whatever. I think you can see by the threads listed that women only have a problem with size when it is too big or small. Most women have men af average size and therefore report that they don't care about size. If they are trying to work with 2" or 9" they care and look for advice on how to deal with it.

Penis size for woman is the same as breast size for men, it doesn't really matter how big the size, you till get the job done. Some men rather a woman to have big breasts bc they are fun to play with and visually a turn on. Same for women and a large penis. Visually a turn on but really has nothing to do with the sex. Just bc a man knows what cup size their girl/wife has doesn't mean he really cares how big or small they are? Geezzz

Penis size has nothing to do with, nor should an analog be made to, breast size. Penis size should only be related to vagina size/tightness. Both equate to a physical sensation and response, and are not solely visual. Sensation does not imply better or worse, but physical differences. Kegels can be done to improve strength and enhance sensation of tightness when the muscles are used to clench, but do not result in a change in size.

[Darling]

Penis size for woman is the same as breast size for men, it doesn't really matter how big the size, you till get the job done. Some men rather a woman to have big breasts bc they are fun to play with and visually a turn on. Same for women and a large penis. Visually a turn on but really has nothing to do with the sex. Just bc a man knows what cup size their girl/wife has doesn't mean he really cares how big or small they are? Geezzz

[lizzardb63]

My fiance's (only because he told me and i didn't believe but when i look at it, ITS TRUE) has a little over 9 inch penis. It's possible.

Anatomy 101, human anatomical size can vary thanks to the due cell division process until a "stop" programming signal is given, that is how each and every single one of our body parts is made. It is possible to be 10 or 11 inches, it is not common but it is entirely possible. Just because you have not seen it does not mean it does not occur.
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Scientific study after study oulines that this view of a 10-11 inch penis is mythical. Really large would be more like 8 inches, possibole 9 at the most. Scientific studies randomyl select people and have outside experts measure. I suppose there could be like a one in a million change -- there is also the possiblility that the moon could crash into the Earth. It is not that because I have not seen it, it does not mean it does not occur. Being that I am a heteorsexual male, I have only seen a handful of erect penises. I have only watch pornogrpahy a few times -- like 20 years ago, but study after study in media education outline how pornography (in all venues, including online) creates fake images. I beleive it mythical because study after study report in medical and health journals -- where medical researchers actually measure it -- reports that its almost impossible to have that type of size in controlled measures (not some boyfrined telling a girlfried who then tells others)

I think that it may come across as a mixed message because for women size does matter, but that doesn't necessarily mean they think bigger is better. There is an ideal size for all women and in the best case scenario the man they love will be around that size. I don't think it is ever a dealbreaker as long as it is in the ballpark and any guy of average size should be in the ballpark, therefore they see it as a non-issue. There are the rare occasions when a guy is either real large or small, in these cases there may be a problem. I also think that there is a disconnect with penis size and depth of penetration. I often hear it cited that the g-spot is only 2-3 inches in and accessible for all, but if one or both have afew extra pounds, even a 5"-6" penis may have trouble reaching that depth in a lot of positions.

Two thoughts. First, where are you getting your information regarding your last senetence?

Second, most women have comment in scientific surveys that size does not matter, even when a male is not in the ballpark.

[ItsASecret]

When you read some of the post at this website, such as “It hurts so good” there is a discussion between Raina and Purplegirl997, in which Raina states her new boyfriend is “large downstairs” and that it makes we “wild” and “wiggle” with purplegirl997 remarking that the same thing happens to her (with a larger guy) and she “loves it.” Likewise, in other posts there is a similar pattern and even some of the women who claim size is not a big deal still communicates how large their men are to the half inch.

This reasoning for "hurts so good" can be picked apart in a second by simply stating "it is hitting the cervix"...and practically any size can hit the cervix. Many women do not know that the cervix is being hit and completely attribute the 'pleasure pain' to his size and not something that is easily explainable by other women who have experienced the same pain sensation with average sized men.

In regard to your comment that I could look up a 10 or 11 inch penis online, my view is that online can’t be trusted because there are so many ways to create fake images online or on TV – such as manipulating size via digital wizardry – I think that almost no men can be this size.

Anatomy 101, human anatomical size can vary thanks to the due cell division process until a "stop" programming signal is given, that is how each and every single one of our body parts is made. It is possible to be 10 or 11 inches, it is not common but it is entirely possible. Just because you have not seen it does not mean it does not occur.

I find a woman saying that penis size is not important, but can also outline that her boyfriend is larger to the tenth degree (9.5 inches) to be a mixed message – if size is not important, why do they communicate exact sizes ?

I think you over-thinking this to a huge degree. Maybe it is just me but you seem to continually try to find a different opinion on everything to say "but but no this cannot be true because ____ said this ______ and now this means there are different messages which does not make sense". If a woman says a number, say because she was taught in school how to visually size things, then she is saying the number...because that number is representative of what that object is and she knows what that number is. If someone asks "how big is that?" and the correct answer to the size of whatever object is 9.5 inches you say 9.5 inches. If a woman answers a number she is saying a number simply because she knows it (again say because her SO said the number to her already) and not always deriving some complex meaning behind it. If she does not care about numbers but is fully capable of repeating a sentence her SO said then it should be left at that, she knows what that number is and that's that. Just like Fallen says, I also know my exact height...but because I know my exact height I do not place anymore value on it other than to be able to say I am 5'1".

[maleview]

I think that it may come across as a mixed message because for women size does matter, but that doesn't necessarily mean they think bigger is better. There is an ideal size for all women and in the best case scenario the man they love will be around that size. I don't think it is ever a dealbreaker as long as it is in the ballpark and any guy of average size should be in the ballpark, therefore they see it as a non-issue. There are the rare occasions when a guy is either real large or small, in these cases there may be a problem. I also think that there is a disconnect with penis size and depth of penetration. I often hear it cited that the g-spot is only 2-3 inches in and accessible for all, but if one or both have afew extra pounds, even a 5"-6" penis may have trouble reaching that depth in a lot of positions.

[lizzardb63]

WAIT WAIT WAIT....yes I have pulled a ruler out and measured my ex's penis, but I would have NEVER done so, if it wasn't for him bringing it up or suggesting it. Do you think i'd be like..."HEy Hunny, Come here, let me measure your penis with this ruler" ...no, lol

[Fallen1]

I am also trying to underscore how our language can outline mixed messages. I find a woman saying that penis size is not important, but can also outline that her boyfriend is larger to the tenth degree (9.5 inches) to be a mixed message – if size is not important, why do they communicate exact sizes ? So maybe some of the women here (and obviously men) need to stop staying exact sizes and only use vague language related to issue related to size.

The same can be said about anything and everything. Just because you know doesn't mean it's an issue with you - maybe to some, but definitely not all. Like I mentioned in one of my posts I know my exact height. Because I know it does it mean it's important and I feel anyone shorter is "less than"? No, I just know it.