[Stillness]

She said that she'd be open to trying some new positions and techniques...she said "well I was thinking more like 3 times a week if we had the time"...She also said I should never feel like I can't talk to her about things.

Dude, this is awesome! This is some of the best stuff I've read on this site! It's rare that someone comes here looking for help, comes up with a resolve, and comes back with a report this good.

Thank you. This made my morning. I'm thinking......spooning?!?!

[ItsASecret]

This is a good reaction from her. However do not do not do not get in over your head. You stopped yourself with this first conversation which is perfect as well as acknowledging that this was just a simple conversation about sex and nothing more but do not get over excited and just start throwing out things that could choke everything up. There is truth in her saying it is going to take time so always be aware of that but these small talks can help get you there faster rather than later. Keep it up Joe. Ask her next if you can just have a night about your bodies just like you said, focus on just touching no sex but just the gentle touching and simply feeling relaxed. Make it about being relaxed and not sex, who knows it could lead to sex lol but just make it known you are wanting this type of step without going out of control.

[Joe77]

This is a good reaction from her. However do not do not do not get in over your head. You stopped yourself with this first conversation which is perfect as well as acknowledging that this was just a simple conversation about sex and nothing more but do not get over excited and just start throwing out things that could choke everything up. There is truth in her saying it is going to take time so always be aware of that but these small talks can help get you there faster rather than later. Keep it up Joe. Ask her next if you can just have a night about your bodies just like you said, focus on just touching no sex but just the gentle touching and simply feeling relaxed. Make it about being relaxed and not sex, who knows it could lead to sex lol but just make it known you are wanting this type of step without going out of control.

That's the plan!!! I wanted to simply crack the door open...not blast it off the hinges...if that makes sense.

What did make me feel better is knowing that she obviously does think about sex, if she could see herself having/wanting it three times a week, even if that isn't the case at the moment.