[Guest]

CW hi
The one person who can give us completeness..............Is, in-fact...............the one person who loves us......................... ????

[ItalianSweetie]

You said you and your wife are in a healthy relationship. I'm sorry but if you are hardly ever having sex with your wife, and talking and fantasizing about her friend, something is wrong. How would you feel if she was flirting with one of your friends?

[Guest]

IS (italian sweetie), pls understand im not neglecting my wife, for instance every time she wants sex 95% i do but every time i need she is not ready for some reasons like (1.the kids have school on week days so weekends but friday night she's tired or 2. the house is not clean or 3. im not clean or 4. the kids might get up sleep or 5. doing pending office work or checking mails or etc etc and sunday night we cant have because monday school etc etc) so the only option left is saturdy night and what is the probability???
i m not justifying

[Bladyn'smommy16]

See you are trying to justify it even if you don't know it read your excuses you just wrote down I'm not being mean but read all those excuses and you'll see you are trying to make it okay when its clearly not!

[Guest]

so yesterday i saw her really tired after of n i gave my wife feet, legs, back n neck massage, i thought things might fire up but she went to sleep (dont laugh, see things from my angle), then i thought of giving a treat to myself but even that didn't happen coz i had to attend a patient who had chest pain n brought to a hospital where i was on call yesterday ( IM EMERGENCY PHYSICIAN ) n psychology/psychiatry/neurology is my passion subjects.
it could happen to anyone
now i ve realised what i ve done is wrong, i ve not talked or text to her friend since i discussed with people in WH (and she never called too, thank god), i think i should get peace from my kids, i really love them, and from my profession
Usually i send my assistants to attend emergency calls but yesterday i personally went after a long time, staffs were wondering, i spent 2 hours he was stabilized now he is safe, im happy
Now im clear that this is not gonna work n i (my kids) shudn't get into trouble
So i should make my peace with that
i once questioned is it 100% my fault or 99.999999% my fault , somebody responded 100%
So i should make my peace with that

[Guest]

Ok BM 16 it might seem im justifying but that is not my intention

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Like I said it may not be your intention but you are trying to explain why this happened which means you are trying to justify it.

[Guest]

BS16 im really sorry i accept that im justifying
but what i expect it for eg.
instead of saying 'we cant have sex i ve to clean the house'
she could say 'we can have sex and clean the house together'
why not ?

[Guest]

and IS to ur Q
How would you feel if she was flirting with one of your friends?
if she s not satisfied with my performance n flirts with my friends, i would think i ve to improve in some areas where she likes n accept the fact.
im not asking for a change or a variety
but my WIFE to satisfy my basic biological need
thats all

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ok, why do I think you are from India? I am known to be a witch here, so it would be "ok" if you confirmed that.

See, here is the thing.

She loves you.

She accepts who you are.

She and you have history.

She and you have children together.

You have a long and stressful job but I suspect YOU LOVE IT, you love the challenge and success, it gives you drive and that drive makes you want to let go, un-wind and that is sexual.

She on the other accord can not cope. 12hrs kids and so gets you to help, accepts your fetish, tries, but can't be ".....d" stuffed. Often, which effects you.

K..

What does she do for a living.

Why does she need to work 12hrs a day.

Do you not realise you are creating the intimacy falling 100% You asked.

It's time to give her a break, you don't need all of this money, give her, "me" time, to get her nails done, something, time out, something, give her flowers, something, not stuff that relates to you..............

This woman is still married to you, and sleeps with you...................she loves you.