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    pls understand every member have helped me in someway or other, i really appreciate it, whoever it is u must ve had more worse words to shout at than just saying" how ll u feel if ur wife.........."( it felt like a slap)

    im realy sorry , its was not meant to hurt anyone even to a slightest degree

    she is ok with my fetishes. yes i guess , just high heel sandals . lingeries only ,

    have nt thought of hand cuffs or other stuff

    even with this fetishes i get deep scratch in my back either with the heels or nails
    and everyday when i jog i sweat n it burns n reminds me of the act

    today morn we jus had 10 min 2 discuss n i ve told her to take up a light job n she said she ll think about it.....

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    • Rhonda14
      Senior Member
      • Jan 2013
      • 186

      Originally posted by jns
      CW, I know that long hours can make for tiredness that makes many people push sex further down the priority of things. It can become very convenient to not have it. However I saw with my parents, that they made time to have fun fooling around together. Not that I saw everything or even close. But the fact that I have a brother that is 12 years younger is proof that things didn't stop. My mother had her tubes tied after that as he was the fourth and not truly expected. In the summertime the work days for both were more than all of the hours of light long with time out for eating, maybe 16 - 18 hours. We did live on a farm after all.

      When you are truly in love no matter how tired you are or how busy and hectic your day/schedule is you make time for your significant other. I know that my day starts at 4:15 when my alarm goes off and I head to the gym, come home get ready for work (I work from home) and work from 7 until 6PM then help the youngest daughter with her home work and feed her dinner, get her to her activities and come home make sure she gets bathed and clothes picked out for school the next day, make sure the house is picked up and things are ready for the next day for myself. Greet hubby when he gets home from work and spend time with him and trust me we make time for each other. Our kids have always told us to get a room and that is good. Kids should know that their parents love each other because if all they see is two people living together without any love or affection they will grow up thinking that is normal. Not saying I have the perfect marriage but we do show each other lots of affection.

      JNS I totally hear you about your parents and the much younger sibling. Our kids are 24, 20, 19 and the oopsie is fixing to be 9.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        tt, it is good that you are working toward reducing some of the work your wife does. Continue helping out and working together. Never expect anything from doing it, but be happy if you get what might be misconstrued as rewarded. Having your wife happier about the situation is reward enough.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • Guest

          thanks for the nice words Rhonda n jns, we are sorting things out

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          • Guest

            but week days r killing me

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            • Guest

              my wife's friend called me

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              • time2discover
                Veteran Member
                • Feb 2013
                • 323

                Think about the consequences of your actions!

                You can choose left or right, but each side will bring a different result.

                It's up to you!

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                • Bladyn'smommy16
                  Veteran Member
                  • Feb 2013
                  • 618

                  Oh no what did she say?

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                  • CHANDLERS WISH
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 22440

                    JNS, I'm tired .................... and you made me more tired just reading that, 16-18 hrs ....................ahhhh.

                    I hear you though and isn't that what constitutes a GOOD relationship? Ensuring that the intimacy remains somewhat, therefore the bond...

                    TT, definately pleased that you acknowledge that a little more "me" time, for your wife is important...

                    As, for her friend calling you... There is one word you only need to remember and that is 'NO'
                    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                    • Guest

                      sorry guys im on call tonight, just finished, she called n there was nothing more than like, hi hows life kinda talk for a minute, thats all, no dirty talk or emotional outburst i swear, pls believe, don't worry i m gonna be with my wife for ever

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