[BabyGirl]

Hi tulipX2 Sorry your nick is too long or hard to reply to .
Similar to Bladyns Mom .

=tuliptulip;342322]BG hi,,, do u know why i struggle so much? i ve done every thing u suggested n listed. i used to do her pedicure, paint her nails ( every thing to her feet ) and i ve bougt her ateast 20 pairs of sexy high heels in the last 1or 2 years. she loves wearing it , she loves my foot fetish thing , she goes crazy when it happens ,,,,,,, pls understand it not happening now only

Hi back at you Tulip X 2

Some things do change after years of marriage.
So you Learn to Adjust to them. Bodies age ,weight will change.

It's time that you NOT HAVE AN AFFAIR, with anyone but your Wife.

You haven't given much info on your ages, hers and yours, how old the kids are, how hard your job or hers is , who works, who cleans ,who shares the Chores and Peace time.
But since your post got cut off .. ( Prolly a Smart Phone ) lol

You say you used to ?
So why not now, Why not still doing it ?
Can you give us something that may help us help you ?

You seem very willing to share with us your Problem ,but unwilling to do much other than respond quickly to some posted statement .Though it may be on one of those newer phones, that your communications does get cut off in the middle .

So on to the hopefully not "Broken Entries " that our members can respond to .
We cannot tell you how to feel or what to do or what choice you should make.

Most of us will say ..
NO AFFAIR !!

Fix or try to fix the problems at Home.
Sex is only Part of it, Shoes are only Part of it, Feet are only Part of it .. If you simply cannot fix it . Do not live in turmoil, Do not live in Indecision. Make a decision.. There is No Maybe or If's box when you come to WH .
It's Honest people saying Honest answers .


It seems that it is time to use the Word " Love" in so much a different way.
Tell your Child to Love and then tell then Sex may not be so good ..
Is that before or After they fall in Lust or Out of it or when they get hurt by thinking they are In Love Forever ?
Your " Love her Madly " is a bit strange.

But then again it is St. Valentines Day ..
Go give her a Foot Rub ..

[Guest]

Alex even if u chat with some women over phone thats also cheating. i asked her to take a 3 or 6 months break coz money is not an issue now n even for today valentines day i had bought her lingeries as usual and high heels i bought r waiting for her to wear not only that anklets, toe rings, feet cream, nail color, artificial nails, etc anythg pertaining to feet it is in abundance. pls understand

[Guest]

Baby girl im 39, she 33, i use PC, i dont ve a smartphone, my kids r 6 n 4 very nice guys n naughty, my job is 2-3 times harder than hers but i ve been tuned for it so im always with energy coz i get up at 5 everyday run for 30 - 40 min, i come back n do some help in preparing breakfast for kids or give one kid brushing bath etc. i work for 16-18 hrs a day but a little flexible than hers. she gets up at 6-7,
i'm packed with so much energy i compete with 25 or 30 in sports, i guess thats the problem
and there's no place to keep if i buy her high heels already 10-15 pairs waiting
if i dont run or play i cant do my job( it s very tough)
i dont know what to say
pls understand im not justifying

[CHANDLERS WISH]

easy 2 say t2d,,,, pls understand there is a war between love n testosterone ( donot see things from my wife's angle or legal angle) pls see things from my eyes n tell how to do and not what to do

I think we need to see it from "both" angles actually.

The situation is. This is your wife's friend. Can she really call herself a friend? She is emotionally and verbally cheating with you...

You have a fetish, there is nothing wrong with that. You can google it, view it in books, along the streets, what ever you want..

To masterbate to your wife's "friend" in thought. No.. To me that is no good.

Take away the friend. Never, ever, get close to someone that is within your circle, you will get found out. I can guarantee that.

Why is your wife working 12hrs a day and taking care of children?

What do you do?

[Guest]

Chandlers Wsh (CW herafter) i work 16-18 hrs a day, sometimes 12 hrs, sometime 24 hrs,
To masterbate to your wife's "friend" in thought. No, i agree
i do take care of my kids, i love the so much pls understand....
im not justifing im struggling

[Guest]

ok guys its valentines day , you all gave me such comfort n support i assure i ll take care of my wife well in good faith n honesty. i ll come back with good news

[Rhonda14]

Tulip what you are doing is cheating plain and simple and it doesn't feel good to be the wife of a cheater. If you love your wife half as much as you say you do then you will stop this affair with her friend. You can call it what you want but it is still cheating. What you do is first call this woman and I use that term loosely and tell her the gig if up and it is OVER. Then you go home and beg for your wives forgiveness and tell her everything or risk her finding out and throwing you out. Also think about this....would you like your wife having an affair with one of your friends? I highly doubt it so stop thinking with your lower brain and start thinking with your upper brain.

[Guest]

hi R14 thanks,

[Guest]

i think i spent 2-3 hrs in WH having discussions, lost 200 dollars coz i didn't attend a fone call, thats my job, but its ok...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

i think i spent 2-3 hrs in WH having discussions, lost 200 dollars coz i didn't attend a fone call, thats my job, but its ok...

Tulip.... How is your job 2 - 3 times harder than hers if a large component of your job is to take telephone calls? I'm curious.

i had bought her lingeries as usual and high heels i bought r waiting for her to wear not only that anklets, toe rings, feet cream, nail color, artificial nails, etc anythg pertaining to feet it is in abundance.

Tulip You have given her 10 -15 pairs of high heels. For Valentines Day did you buy her something for her? Or for her to wear for you?

You do realise that now you are coming across quite well... selfish to say the lease.. "anything pertaning to feet" is what you bought her.... For a day of togetherness.

That also is not ok.

What does she do for a living?