Last night my husband and I were having sex to celebrate Valentine's Day. During intercourse he confided to me that he fantasizes about me having sex with another man. Is this weird?
As he told me this, he seemed rather embarrassed and asked me if I thought he was weird. I told him I didn't. I even played along with his fantasy. As he continued thrusting into me, he asked me how much I enjoyed having sex with my [fictional] "boyfriend" and I proceeded to tell him that it was great. He ejaculated right after that.
He said it was one of the best orgasms he's had in awhile. He also told me that his fantasy is such that he's trying to "win" me back from other men. Sometimes when I'm wetter than usual, he says he pretends that he's having my "boyfriend's" sloppy seconds. He gets really turned on by the idea of another man trying to impregnate me too. Is this normal?
Personally, I'm not terribly bothered by it. I'm glad that he's being open with me. Communication is good. I must admit too that I'm a bit turned on by it. Last night he masturbated in front of me before intercourse, something which definitely turns me on...and he doesn't do that often. I think this is because we mutually agreed to stop masturbating and he's just hornier.
After intercourse, he was the dutiful husband and went down on me to "clean up" after himself.
That was wonderful...he's the best at eating me out of all the guys I've ever been with, but I digress. We're both redheads, so maybe that's why we both have such high sex drives. :P
I'm just wondering if you all think there's something wrong with his fantasy. Thank you for your opinions!
As he told me this, he seemed rather embarrassed and asked me if I thought he was weird. I told him I didn't. I even played along with his fantasy. As he continued thrusting into me, he asked me how much I enjoyed having sex with my [fictional] "boyfriend" and I proceeded to tell him that it was great. He ejaculated right after that.
He said it was one of the best orgasms he's had in awhile. He also told me that his fantasy is such that he's trying to "win" me back from other men. Sometimes when I'm wetter than usual, he says he pretends that he's having my "boyfriend's" sloppy seconds. He gets really turned on by the idea of another man trying to impregnate me too. Is this normal?
Personally, I'm not terribly bothered by it. I'm glad that he's being open with me. Communication is good. I must admit too that I'm a bit turned on by it. Last night he masturbated in front of me before intercourse, something which definitely turns me on...and he doesn't do that often. I think this is because we mutually agreed to stop masturbating and he's just hornier.
After intercourse, he was the dutiful husband and went down on me to "clean up" after himself.
That was wonderful...he's the best at eating me out of all the guys I've ever been with, but I digress. We're both redheads, so maybe that's why we both have such high sex drives. :P I'm just wondering if you all think there's something wrong with his fantasy. Thank you for your opinions!
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