[JackbNimble]

Palerider: any updates on acting on his fantasy?

[Palerider]

Palerider: any updates on acting on his fantasy?

No, we don't have definite plans to bring in another man at this point, if that's what you're asking about. However, I must confess that I've been tempted here recently to find another man on the side..."friends with benefits" kind of thing. My husband is gone so long during the day and I get so frustrated.

Interesting thing...my desire for extramarital sex usually comes around my fertile time of the month. Nature is telling me something. Of course we're TTC right now, so that throws a monkey-wrench into the equation.

[JackbNimble]

Would you tell your husband about it afterwards or keep it a secret? Or bring him home a surprise and let him find it. Years ago my ex-wife enjoyed going out with FWB and surprising me when she came home. It was a bit of a turn on.

[Palerider]

Would you tell your husband about it afterwards or keep it a secret? Or bring him home a surprise and let him find it. Years ago my ex-wife enjoyed going out with FWB and surprising me when she came home. It was a bit of a turn on.

If I'm going to outright cheat, then I'm definitely going to keep it a secret. Ideally, I would want to have a lover--a man both my husband and I know and trust--who I can have sex with when my husband is away. Even if my husband is okay with that, he's not going to be keen on my lover cumming inside me since we're TTC. I hate condoms...not even an option.

[Obelisk]

You know it's interesting that I'm reading this thread.

So you guys that fantasize about another man sleeping with your wife, how would you feel if the other guy had a penis twice as long as yours?

This is a serious question btw, I'm genuinely curious.

[JackbNimble]

My former wife and I had a very open relationship. She had a very high sexual drive and I was fine with her having FWB relationships. We played together at times and she was free to play alone. Never had any issues with her about penis size. If they were much larger than me, she didn't make a big deal about. For me, I was happy she was having fun.

[muffin70]

You know it's interesting that I'm reading this thread.

So you guys that fantasize about another man sleeping with your wife, how would you feel if the other guy had a penis twice as long as yours?

This is a serious question btw, I'm genuinely curious.

wouldn't bother me in the slightest - after all if it only a fantasy right?? As long as my wife is happy in the bedroom, that makes me happy

[Obelisk]

Hey whatever rocks your boats guys.

I'm sure most women dating me wouldn't be happy if I had Catherine Zeta Jones on the side, and they got to watch me doing her. But hey, what do I know?

[wino33]

I think as long as it remains a fantasy & role play amongst both you it's fine. But I wouldn't let it get too out of control...