[Caussie]

I have never really got what all the concern is over penis size. I am a man, I have an average penis according to the stats however a little over on the girth number. I have been with women who said it was big, who have said it was thick, who said it was average size and who said they wish it was longer. Whatever, it is what it is. I understand the concern if you are 3 inches and a half inch thick, but from what I read here most guys are average and a lot may even mistake inches for centimetres with their over inflated figures. If you can give oral like a god and have good hands then she aint gonna care about an inch here or there.

Just my two cents worth

[jns]

Like Caussie, I have never had a problem being average in penis size.

[Element]

Element your a good woman because that is one thing I can't do. Not that we haven't tried it just isn't happening.

Well I thank you, and my man knows how lucky he is. haha.


My man is my only experience in the sexual department, but from what I have heard; 5 inches is the average penis size of men in the U.S. So for a woman to be with a man who is bigger than that, it's just luck of the draw.

If the worry of the size of a man's penis is about enjoying sex; how he can work what he has counts the most. If a man is willing to learn what each woman likes, be open to communicate and try new things; then things have a better chance to go well.

Length doesn't assure absolute pleasure from start to finish. I honestly believe that not all men and woman realize that.

[Harmony]

My girlfriend keeps pressurizing me to have penis surgery.

I keep telling her that when medical science advances to the stage where a penis reduction can safely be performed I will have one.

[Stillness]

My man is my only experience in the sexual department, but from what I have heard; 5 inches is the average penis size of men in the U.S. So for a woman to be with a man who is bigger than that, it's just luck of the draw.

Element, Do you mean to say that you appreciate the fact that he's larger than average? It would be cool if someone with intelligence could speak on this. There have been a few women who have said indicated that they like large penises, but I discounted them because of what their posts said about their maturity level, or in some cases their sanity.

Is it the length, the width? Is it visual or sensation? All of the above?

[caster]

The old joke is; women can't measure anything by sight since men have convinced then that this _______ and not this _________________ is 6 inches.

[time2discover]

Thought I should pitch in a little!

I have never thought of picking my man based on his penis. If size were to become a factor
on our pleasure, stick out the measuring tape. Wanna confirm tongue length, finger size and
maybe nose length to make sure it doesn't get in the way. See where we're going?

Men if you make your girl happy by being you and you're willing to try different things to
please her sexually. Believe me that's what counts not the package.

[caster]

Men compare as well. A buddy of mine was at my pool last summer, I never wear a suit so he skipped his. I'm a hanger, it may get fuller during erection but it's sometimes 6" flaccid and only a little longer erect. But being full length flaccid it appears I must be "hung" even though what you see is pretty much what you get.
My buddy even made a comment about it, and then said his wife called him the suprise package, only 2-3" flaccid, but about 6" erect.
I never though much about it but hangers seem to be in the minority, I started taking notice at the nude beach and gym after my buddy made the comment.

Most people know that Flaccid has nothing to do with erect length, but I bet some men think women sum up a guy before he's even erect, I think that leads to some male insecurities.

[Element]

Element, Do you mean to say that you appreciate the fact that he's larger than average? It would be cool if someone with intelligence could speak on this. There have been a few women who have said indicated that they like large penises, but I discounted them because of what their posts said about their maturity level, or in some cases their sanity.

Is it the length, the width? Is it visual or sensation? All of the above?

I gave my man my virginity, so when he told me his dimensions, I pulled out a tape measure to get a sense of what I was dealing with. My response to him was "And you wanna put that WHERE?" It freaked me out a bit. It's a given with sex that being a female; something is going inside of you. But to have dimensions right in front of you that this is going in one place, and with curiosity and comfort with a partner; multiple places, it can knock your brain around. So with oral and anal; we waited a while.

When I first saw his penis up close, (and his being the first one I had ever seen) I was shocked as to of how long and thick it was. My mind knew that the vagina can open up to get it to fit, but the mere fact of something like that was going up in me, it did knock my nerves around. Now, I enjoy seeing his penis, I enjoy the thought and anticipation of being with him. But I also know the pleasures that it can give, so seeing him hard does help to start my engines, as it were.

Now that we've had a sex life for a year as of this month, I do appreciate his size. But we have also learned a few positions that are off the list because too much pain occurs. I guess the saying "every gift is a curse" can be applied here as well.

The visual sensation is nice now that we have been together for some time, I'm comfortable with him, I know him, I know what enticing things I can do to him, and his penis, to get him going, to make things exciting. I do enjoy his God given equipment. My guy also came with experience, he enjoys giving a woman pleasure, so he does know how to use it, he knows how to read me, what line of things to try that he believes that I will enjoy. So many of amazing sensations are given, but he also knows how to give them. Just because he's above average doesn't mean that he and I don't have to work to make sex enjoyable, pleasurable and memorable.

[Harmony]

Element, Do you mean to say that you appreciate the fact that he's larger than average? It would be cool if someone with intelligence could speak on this. There have been a few women who have said indicated that they like large penises, but I discounted them because of what their posts said about their maturity level, or in some cases their sanity.

Is it the length, the width? Is it visual or sensation? All of the above?

Stillness, another thing to consider is that women - not all of them but many, enough to warrant discussion - are guilty of having big sexual egos just like some men. That is to say that plenty of women will claim to like a huge penis and will exaggerate about the sizes they like, and the sizes they want and have had.

Like most things is life, as our dear anonymous interlocutor Element has pointed out - like most things in life - there appears to be a benefit and a detriment to the presence of a large penis when it comes to sex.

From what I can gather a woman may be able to enjoy certain positions more with an average penis (which could be her favorite position) whereas it may not be a comfortable option with a bigger man.

And that's without getting started on the point you made about women being different sizes - which they are.

And finally, something I meant to include in my original post: IT"S ALL RELATIVE! If you put a 5" penis on a 150LB man - the taller he is the greater the illusion - it will appear much bigger than it would if the guy gained weight and ended up 230LBs :-( I know, because I've done this. The smaller the 'backdrop' the the bigger the penis appears ;-)