[Harmony]

I discounted them because of what their posts said about their maturity level, or in some cases their sanity

This made me LOL

[Stillness]

Dude, if you search around you will find somebody insisting that she needs something like a 2'-3' long penis and how she can take the whole thing. She goes back and forth with community over multiple threads on how she was measuring, units of measure, human physiology, scientific studies, racial differences, and what every woman really wants.

At first I thought she was trolling. Then I started to get the feeling that she wasn't. I don't know what she was doing, but I do know that I was entertained. She creates this whole world in which men are walking around with penises as big as small children and have stuffed the entirety of them into her. She feels genuinely sorry for any woman that hasn't had one of these men and has to settle for small men with a foot or less. She only stays with a man until she can find someone bigger...and she's always looking for someone bigger.

[bubba29]

here is another reason for men's perceived inadequate penis size. porn is often free and widely available. as has been pointed out, most porn stars have larger to much larger than average penises. think about this, how many ERECT penises have heterosexual men seen that were not in porn? myself, i haven't seen any. my only reference for comparison is porn stars and they appear to be making those women feel GREAT . so if our erect penis does not measure up to the only other erect penises we've seen, the more we see them the more we may feel inadequate.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Great thread Harmony

Written in such a different way, you "want" to read it....

Strangely, last night I shared a "past" situation with my fiance.... And, he's above average however, he was of the impression also that bigger is better for women, pfttttttttttttt.... Not to be rude but what is the point if it can't all go in?

[time2discover]

Bubba29, remember these women feel GREAT because of the paycheck they get
and not the sex. Good acting pays well, but does not reflect reality. Look at one
of those movies again, forget the penis and observe the woman's facial reaction.
You'll definitely see her reaction is mainly to the camera and not the guy!

[bubba29]

Bubba29, remember these women feel GREAT because of the paycheck they get
and not the sex. Good acting pays well, but does not reflect reality. Look at one
of those movies again, forget the penis and observe the woman's facial reaction.
You'll definitely see her reaction is mainly to the camera and not the guy!

i agree 100%. guess "" wasn't enough to indicate i was being sarcastic.

[time2discover]

Sorry about that! I guess I'm not very perspective right now.
Will think twice about it next time!

Pleasure to discuss with you!

[bubba29]

Sorry about that! I guess I'm not very perspective right now.
Will think twice about it next time!

Pleasure to discuss with you!

no problem. i was just thinking out loud. i am not saying i am right. but the only erect penises i have to compare to are porn star penises.

it would be like if the only ab muscles i ever saw were those of bodybuilders. i would be pretty envious if that was my only point of reference. but my abs are **** good compared to 98% of the male population even though they pale in comparison to a bodybuilder. believe me, i've seen thousands naked men's stomachs as opposed only seeing naked erections from porn.

[Harmony]

Thanks for all of the interesting and informative responses everyone who has contributed.

After reading peoples' post on here for a while I sometimes do sense a real undertone of helplessness and despair from some posters. These posts are of course on a wide range of subjects but it really does appear that some men are defined by their (and often it is only theirs; the problem is rife in their own mind and no-where else) genuinely held belief that their penis is too small. That's quite sad really and the sense of helplessness is, I suppose exacerbated by the fact nothing can be done to increase size (unlike fat which can be lost, muscle which can be built, or other self perceived physical abnormalities which can be altered by cosmetic surgery). So I hope this has helped at least someone realize that women aren't completely size obsessed.

Since I've been sexually active my penis has been described as average, large, and small, so I suppose size is also relative? (Does it count that I was the one who described it as large?)

[jns]

Since this is about penis size: there is a persistent rumor that if a guy has a really large penis, so much blood flows into it when he gets an erection that he ends up dropping IQ points. At what size does this effect start taking place? Speculation is encouraged.

Also I have heard that most problems arise when a guy starts thinking with his small head instead of his big head (I heard this from women). Is this partially related to penis size? Inquiring minds want to know.