[Harmony]

The other thing is people measure in different ways. Is it from the front or the back. That can make a difference.

I measure from the butt crack to the tip. As men we usually measure from the side since it's the angle which gives the most flattering measurement.

[Harmony]

Also, I disagree with the claim that men on the smaller side need to somehow make up for it with hands and mouths. That implies that they're somehow inadequate or that bigger men don't need to do as much. Every man needs to be a good lover for his wife. The size of the penis doesn't change that. Unless it can't be felt or it's too big to fit, it really doesn't matter.

I believe you are referring to the comments in the 3-5 inches section ("be great at oral... master foreplay and technique...), I did intend this to be directed at all size group and did stress elsewhere that women will (nearly always) choose technique over size when given the choice.

[Harmony]

I think that the ladies whose husbands have a complex about this (even if it's just the minor one that most men have unless we're hurting someone with our units) might be well served from the confidence it would instill in their man's heart to not just hear how much they please them, but to have an actual visible comparison.

This, men are just as sensitive as women IMO, just about different things. I think many women underestimate just how important reassurance about certain things is for men.

Has anyone seen that film with Cameron Diaz and Drew Barrymore, 'The Sweetest Thing'? There's this great scene where the girls are having lunch?

I wont bother writing it up, go to Youtube and search 'Cameron Diaz,Christina Applegate,Selma Blair-You're Too Big'

[Element]

Guys never get that a woman has to mentally accept shoving something of length and girth into their orifices, before even actually doing the act. Before I attempted anal with my man, it took me months to get past the math of what would be in my hiny.

What's most important is the feeling, connection, of sex. It's about how you both move, communication, giving each other pleasure. That takes work.

[Rhonda14]

This, men are just as sensitive as women IMO, just about different things. I think many women underestimate just how important reassurance about certain things is for men.

Has anyone seen that film with Cameron Diaz and Drew Barrymore, 'The Sweetest Thing'? There's this great scene where the girls are having lunch?

I wont bother writing it up, go to Youtube and search 'Cameron Diaz,Christina Applegate,Selma Blair-You're Too Big'

I try to reassure my husband as much as he does me. It is a give and take relationship. Also appreciate what you have or someone else will.

[Rhonda14]

Guys never get that a woman has to mentally accept shoving something of length and girth into their orifices, before even actually doing the act. Before I attempted anal with my man, it took me months to get past the math of what would be in my hiny.

What's most important is the feeling, connection, of sex. It's about how you both move, communication, giving each other pleasure. That takes work.

Element your a good woman because that is one thing I can't do. Not that we haven't tried it just isn't happening.

[bubba29]

But all the men in porn are big, that must be what women want, surely?

Most men in porn are big, and most women in porn are very, very petite so it makes the men look even bigger.

I have often wondered about this. As the obesity rate in America increases, it seems that men's obsession with having a big penis is also increasing. Is it possible that relative to a man's body and their mates body, there penises look downright tiny compared to how they looked maybe 40 years ago. Or is it just the popularity of porn that makes men want to have penises that look big like the porn stars.

Count me as a man who wishes I had a bigger penis even though I am average.

[bubba29]

I have often wondered about this. As the obesity rate in America increases, it seems that men's obsession with having a big penis is also increasing. Is it possible that relative to a man's body and their mates body, there penises look downright tiny compared to how they looked maybe 40 years ago. Or is it just the popularity of porn that makes men want to have penises that look big like the porn stars.

Count me as a man who wishes I had a bigger penis even though I am average.

Edit:

Count me as a man who wishes I had a bigger penis even though I am slightly bigger than average. My wife has put on 35#s since we married. I am not blaming her. I don't know why I am obsessed having a bigger penis. She says she is happy. Somehow I feel like she would be happier. Is it just possible my penis doesn't APPEAR as bigin realtion to her as it did 15 years ago? I haven't gained fat. In fact I weigh less than I did in college.

Bottom line is I need to stop wishing for it because she isn't.

[Harmony]

Edit:

Count me as a man who wishes I had a bigger penis even though I am slightly bigger than average. My wife has put on 35#s since we married. I am not blaming her. I don't know why I am obsessed having a bigger penis. She says she is happy. Somehow I feel like she would be happier. Is it just possible my penis doesn't APPEAR as bigin realtion to her as it did 15 years ago? I haven't gained fat. In fact I weigh less than I did in college.



Bottom line is I need to stop wishing for it because she isn't.

Trim your pubic hair, I'll bet you're hairier than you were 15 years ago ;-)

[bubba29]

Trim your pubic hair, I'll bet you're hairier than you were 15 years ago ;-)

funny thing is i now trim as opposed to not doing it years ago.