[Harmony]

Since this is about penis size: there is a persistent rumor that if a guy has a really large penis, so much blood flows into it when he gets an erection that he ends up dropping IQ points. At what size does this effect start taking place? Speculation is encouraged.

Also I have heard that most problems arise when a guy starts thinking with his small head instead of his big head (I heard this from women). Is this partially related to penis size? Inquiring minds want to know.

Re the IQ points I cannot answer that question, but heard a girl say she met a guy who penis would so big it couldn't stand erect because it was so heavy with blood; so instead of kind of self-levitating for want of a better expression it would hang down. She didn't mention anything about him becoming dizzy or forgetting his personal details.

I think men who not only think with their little heads but act upon these urges too (they say an erect penis has no conscience) are more being guided by their moral compass than by the penis, the size of which in these instances would be - in my opinion - irrelevant.

I know that isn't really a comprehensive and precise answer to your question, but it's the best I can offer.

[caster]

here is another reason for men's perceived inadequate penis size. porn is often free and widely available. as has been pointed out, most porn stars have larger to much larger than average penises. think about this, how many ERECT penises have heterosexual men seen that were not in porn? myself, i haven't seen any. my only reference for comparison is porn stars and they appear to be making those women feel GREAT . so if our erect penis does not measure up to the only other erect penises we've seen, the more we see them the more we may feel inadequate.

Good point Bubba, that's where women have the advantage in real life comparision. Probably why men keep coming here asking the same old question.

[bubba29]

Good point Bubba, that's where women have the advantage in real life comparision. Probably why men keep coming here asking the same old question.

is it possible gay men feel more confident in their penis size than straight men?

[Stillness]

The term "Size Queen" comes from the homosexual community. My guess would be that it counts more there. In general, men care about penis size. Since the only one we care about is our own, the focus is on that. But for dudes who like other dudes, I'd guess they run into a fair amount who like 'em big.

Logically, I'd think you'd want the smallest thing possible. My doctor stuck his finger in my butt a few years back and I still feel violated. I reckon that sexual attraction is not an entirely logical affair though.

[bubba29]

The term "Size Queen" comes from the homosexual community. My guess would be that it counts more there. In general, men care about penis size. Since the only one we care about is our own, the focus is on that. But for dudes who like other dudes, I'd guess they run into a fair amount who like 'em big.

Logically, I'd think you'd want the smallest thing possible. My doctor stuck his finger in my butt a few years back and I still feel violated. I reckon that sexual attraction is not an entirely logical affair though.

my thought was gay men would have seen MANY more average and even below average size erect penises than hetero men. thus they would realize that their size is normal and just fine as opposed to heteros who can only compare themselves to porn stars.

[Harmony]

A lot of gay men don't let other men penetrate them either.

[chaya]

Since this is about penis size: there is a persistent rumor that if a guy has a really large penis, so much blood flows into it when he gets an erection that he ends up dropping IQ points.

I can tell you from experience (with my husband), that this is a fact.

[jns]

She didn't mention anything about him becoming dizzy or forgetting his personal details.

I doubt she pulled out an IQ test to administer at that time and she may have had tunnel vision (either from fear, revulsion, excitement, etc.) so she may have not noticed he was dizzy.

[momofthree]

Strictly my own opinion, it's not the size that counts. It's what you do with it that counts.

[Harmony]

I doubt she pulled out an IQ test to administer at that time and she may have had tunnel vision (either from fear, revulsion, excitement, etc.) so she may have not noticed he was dizzy.

Maybe this topic warrants another penis thread, or at least a 2.0?