[Motorguy]

Obviously I didnt read this whole thread. My husband is african american.

I don't really get the whole meaning on this thread?

Let me be the first to say my husband is well endowed but the stereotype of all black men being large is false.

Thank you Pinkysweet my point a exactly Amen to you.

[PinkySweet]

Obviously I didnt read this whole thread. My husband is african american.

I don't really get the whole meaning on this thread?

Let me be the first to say my husband is well endowed but the stereotype of all black men being large is false.

[Patti-here]

Birds of a feather...

You and your friends fantasies are yours to fantasize about. No need to "break it to" me. We have had some guys around in the past that had complexes, but the fellas hanging around here nowadays don't seem to care much about that kind of stuff. In my experience, most women don't either.

Amen.

[Baboy]

I'll go with Stillness on this one. You don't have to hate breaking any startling revelations to me or anyone else hereabouts, I don't expect.

Maybe there's a bunch of white guys out there fantasizing about black women. I'd hate to break that one to you.

Come to think of it, my wife is Asian, anything you'd care to break to me on that score? Some dark fantasies of which I am blissfully unaware and which I'll find deeply disturbing?

[Stillness]

i hate to break it to some of you guys posting here but every white woman i know has thought about it. most of my friends have jungle fever

Birds of a feather...

You and your friends fantasies are yours to fantasize about. No need to "break it to" me. We have had some guys around in the past that had complexes, but the fellas hanging around here nowadays don't seem to care much about that kind of stuff. In my experience, most women don't either.

[circus]

penis size and race is like sprinting at the olympics. Not all black guys are fast and not all white guys are slow. But the fastest are always black and even the fastest white guy can't compete.

i hate to break it to some of you guys posting here but every white woman i know has thought about it. most of my friends have jungle fever

[rcoreyus]

BTW, I wish they would stop calling it someone's "manhood". It suggests that penis size is somehow the key to being a man. If so, then a donkey is more man any any man....

[Motorguy]

Unless he has a micropenis, he has nothing to worry about. The women on this thread that are into size are not representative of womankind. You have to consider the nature of the this thread and the type of women who would get a kick out of this.

From what I've seen, women's feelings about penises are mostly like ours with vaginas. Most men aren't obsessing over the size of a women's vagina. If we like the woman, we like the equipment she comes with, unless there's a problem. You'll hear some guys who like them loose or very tight, but most of us don't care as long as it works. The vagina adjusts to some extent anyway.

The actual science shows the same with women. We care much more than them about penis size. A minority likes them big. To the extent that size does matter it's more circumference than length. Most don't have a strong preference. If you look elsewhere on these boards, you'll find women commenting about what they like and you'll find at least as many women, if not more, complaining about their man's large size as there are women who enjoy it. Most don't care as long as it's not too big or micro small. Many will say that the best lovers they've had were smaller. And if you think about it, it makes sense that if vaginas come in all sizes, there are many smaller women for whom a small penis is ideal. You'll see quite a few posts from them. Use the search function. You might even show your buddy the posts you find. These women are anonymous, so they tell it like it is.

Well you don't measure up in that department you always have a tongue with oral skills to make up for the lack of size in the manhood area.

[Stillness]

I tried to tell the dude its no big deal, and that it's porn that has distorted his perception of reality, but then a discussion about size comes up where the female majority admits that size matters, and, well, it makes me feel like I am being dishonest with the guy... pretty sad...

Unless he has a micropenis, he has nothing to worry about. The women on this thread that are into size are not representative of womankind. You have to consider the nature of the this thread and the type of women who would get a kick out of this.

From what I've seen, women's feelings about penises are mostly like ours with vaginas. Most men aren't obsessing over the size of a women's vagina. If we like the woman, we like the equipment she comes with, unless there's a problem. You'll hear some guys who like them loose or very tight, but most of us don't care as long as it works. The vagina adjusts to some extent anyway.

The actual science shows the same with women. We care much more than them about penis size. A minority likes them big. To the extent that size does matter it's more circumference than length. Most don't have a strong preference. If you look elsewhere on these boards, you'll find women commenting about what they like and you'll find at least as many women, if not more, complaining about their man's large size as there are women who enjoy it. Most don't care as long as it's not too big or micro small. Many will say that the best lovers they've had were smaller. And if you think about it, it makes sense that if vaginas come in all sizes, there are many smaller women for whom a small penis is ideal. You'll see quite a few posts from them. Use the search function. You might even show your buddy the posts you find. These women are anonymous, so they tell it like it is.

[Stillness]

I also think there is this hidden image of the strong, violent, barbaric black man ravaging "our" women with his huge penis. The image is wrong, racist and horribly offensive, so any part of that image can also be seen as offensive...The whole concept of race is very fuzzy, and pretty unscientific

Is this directed at me? I feel like you're trying to make me love you more. This kind of talk is music to the ears of a post-racialist (I think I just coined this term) like me.

Race is not a natural thing so tying physical attributes to it is definitely problematic. Jen is sort of correct about there being differences, but they're better described as being between ethnicities, not races. "Black" is not an ethnicity. Like "white," it's a socio-cultural construct, not a natural one.

And even the science that has been done on this stuff doesn't show any noticeable difference between "black" and "white." What we're left with is anecdotal evidence based on excited women's perceptions. It's extremely flawed stuff, because I've observed it happen in my own mind with women's butts. I thought I was standing behind a "black" woman with a nice round behind and watched it shrivel up when I came around and perceived her as "white." The mind is a crazy thing.