[Stillness]

Also, I'm just wondering why there are never discussions about the size of men's balls?!

Maybe I'm in the minority on this one, but I actually care more about the size of the balls than the penis.

At the risk of extending the discussions on one of the tedious penis threads, this is one of the most interesting things I've ever read on this site and I'd like to hear more.

I don't understand female attraction to men. My wife has told me that she likes the way they hit her when we make love, so I can understand from that standpoint. But it sounds like you're speaking of visual appreciation?

I've always thought that because the scrotum is masculine that women should be attracted to it. But at the same time I don't necessarily find the labia that attractive and that is the corresponding feminine feature. I really like them, but the enticement is more in the smell and function. It only looks good because of what I know it does, I think. It's not like the female form or facial features which are beautiful from a physical perspective and very attractive to me.

Can you talk about why you care about the size of the balls, please?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Flare 4.7 inches probably without you knowing is 5 which is average, which women prefer as long as you are a good lover and care about the woman you are with, enough to "love her", you're all good, it's cool.

Race, colour, wrong.

You know it's only a superficial woman that is "expecting" and what is she after? To use you When you look at it like that? You are probably a lucky one as you can weed out who wants you or who wants a "fantasy".. You probably are one of the most luckiest because you get to tell her how it is, if, she was there for the "WRONG" reason Go you...

We always see negatives but there are always positives.....

[SFlare]

*chandlers That's why it's nice to read some of the comments on this thread. A little positive reinforcement i guess. Although my member isn't gonna widen any eyes or make too many women go wow, its nice that not all women put such a premium on big penises.

[SFlare]

Nah, its cool. 4.7 inches. Not what a lot of women expect when the pants drop from a black guy. I dunno if its small or average, but its rather unimpressive.

[Obelisk]

**Obelisk Definately sucks being held to such a ridiculous standard as a black guy. It makes one wonder if there's always a ting of disappointment when one doesn't up to the stereotypes.

I'm sure there is some, but I couldn't really tell you except that I know some women specifically look for black guys hoping to get larger.

What's your size if you don't mind me asking?

[Obelisk]

Ok, I'm not saying this just to make anyone feel better...

But I have been with men that had gigantic cocks...one was definitely 9.

Your anecdote didn't help. It just cements the idea in my head that it seems every woman has had a 9" penis. Only makes my wish for 7" even stronger, so I won't be pitiful.

Not sure where all these 9" snakes are coming from, they seem to be common

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Just love the inside, it will show on the outside, confidence is everything and the right woman, wouldn't be going out with you for that reason.. Based on all you are reading here of "women" some may deliberately not go out with you as it's not as good as it's cracked up to be, that being what you men think that we think..

[SFlare]

*Obelisk Definately sucks being held to such a ridiculous standard as a black guy. It makes one wonder if there's always a ting of disappointment when one doesn't up to the stereotypes.

[jns]

I saw some very large balls on monkeys in Thailand. If guys were to feel inadequate about their balls, these monkeys would make them feel that way ten times over.

[BambooEarrings]

Also, I'm just wondering why there are never discussions about the size of men's balls?!

Maybe I'm in the minority on this one, but I actually care more about the size of the balls than the penis.


And one guy made a comparison and said men don't go off to their friends and talk about how the women's breasts were during sex? I don't know about that, but I do know that men will talk that about a woman's ******, and not to be stereotyping here, but I know for a fact that most hispanic men DO care A LOT about the size/shape of a woman's ******, and I hear them talking about it like 200X more than I ever hear women talking about penis size.