[CHANDLERS WISH]

Tom Cruise is short and he ended up always with taller women, smart ones too

Some women thrive on penetration alone, others don't. Some women are bad lovers so are some men.

Sexless marriages are usually due to his/her make up, non emotional, non loving, non giving, no help, no communication and the list goes on. At some point the person in front of you doesn't look appealing any more and the desire goes away from that person...

Nothing to do with his penis. Rather everything leading up to it.

Imagine. If a man simply did his deed for himself. Always. Yet, never bought a rose, never laughed, took her out for dinner, helped with chores, just did his deed and lived in the house. Why would a woman want sex with him? But does this mean that she has lost it, no. She then starts fantasizing about other men, for the will and desire to be intimate, loved, on the outside of sex and within sex..

Same goes for man. Whether they act on it or not is a different story. Some just dream. Others walk. Others cheat.

Way beyond the penis itself. There are a lot of selfish lovers in this world. Men and Women. To deprive a person of intimacy, sensuality, lust, and to deprive a person of love, feeling loved "not a chore" or "sex" will always lead to the other person not wanting that person and looking elsewhere in their minds or reality. For a woman, sex is bonding always has been and the dream of falling in love and being in love.

[Obelisk]

Yes, because who ever bothers about the size of breasts?

Your obsession is not representative even of men who have been worried that they are too short. I think a few of us have told you that already. If you've lost any battle, it's in your mind.

I really hope you don't hurt yourself fooling around with nature. In my experience, that's almost always a bad move. I wish you well with this, though.

Thanks man. Being short sucks, but you can do something about it in a way, you can search for women shorter than you. You can't do anything about your penis size because every woman has has 8"+ no matter what size they are.

And seeing that I'm actually seeing gains, I think my goal of 7" is achievable in a year, maybe less. And screw nature, it was very unkind to me.

[Stillness]

Even the size of vaginas (or breasts for that matter) isn't as scrutinized.

Yes, because who ever bothers about the size of breasts?

Your obsession is not representative even of men who have been worried that they are too short. I think a few of us have told you that already. If you've lost any battle, it's in your mind.

I really hope you don't hurt yourself fooling around with nature. In my experience, that's almost always a bad move. I wish you well with this, though.

[Obelisk]

You don't get married or be with someone in a relationship based solely off of their physical attributes. If it were that, then no one would stay with anyone because there isn't a perfect person in this world.

Look, I'll leave it at this:

Men that have been damaged with the notion that our size matters (even if it doesn't) can't really recover unless we can find a way to ignore that fact and somehow go back to being blissfully ignorant. It's unfortunate how society has really made a big deal about it and made us smaller guys feel inadequate. I wish it really was as simple as treating the penis as the size of your hands or your feet, where most people don't care. Even the size of vaginas (or breasts for that matter) isn't as scrutinized. If a woman is hurt by intercourse, it's our fault, we're too big. If she can't feel it, it's our fault, we're too small. If she is disappointed that we're not as large as their previous men, it's also our fault, even though she was the one with the other guys, not us.

So yeah it's a situation where guys can't win. If we're small, we've already lost the battle.

[lizzardb63]

Yeah we need to be happy and accept that the women we potentially meet have had better guys than us physically, but they "chose" to be with us because we're "nicer". I don't think that's going to work for me anymore. Nice never got me anywhere.

You don't get married or be with someone in a relationship based solely off of their physical attributes. If it were that, then no one would stay with anyone because there isn't a perfect person in this world.

[Obelisk]

There are lots of people (men and women) in sexless marriages. I am convinced that it is rarely about penis size. In fact I think the percentage of relationship issues due to women worrying about penis size is tiny. It may seem like a good excuse, but anyone who is having trouble with their relationships with women needs to look somewhere else for the source of the problem.

Yeah we need to be happy and accept that the women we potentially meet have had better guys than us physically, but they "chose" to be with us because we're "nicer". I don't think that's going to work for me anymore. Nice never got me anywhere.

[rcoreyus]

There are lots of people (men and women) in sexless marriages. I am convinced that it is rarely about penis size. In fact I think the percentage of relationship issues due to women worrying about penis size is tiny. It may seem like a good excuse, but anyone who is having trouble with their relationships with women needs to look somewhere else for the source of the problem.

[Obelisk]

I don't know anything about cuckholding so I'll stay out of that.

I also don't place any value on scientific studies, when it seems that most women admit to having been with a really large guy. I think a lot of them liked it and can't get used to a smaller guy, at least psychologically. I've seen the scenario of the guy who has a sexless marriage in real life several times, so I don't think it's strictly something in pornographic films.

There's not really much to do about it. I decided to try and increase my length, and doing it the safest way possible. That's really the only thing I can do to compete in a world where women can have a 9" penis inside them at the drop of a hat.

[Obelisk]

Oh no! not another one!!

[Stillness]

By titling this "Another Thread about Penis Size" it implies that you've read others of the countless, repetitive questions that are posted on this site by men who feel inadequate or who are concerned about this. If so, what do you think about what you've read from women or the scientific studies on this? Are you asking for help with your own experience, or are you just looking from the outside in on someone else's relationship that you read about or saw in a pornographic video?