I guess I am wondering how these women can “stand” having sex with their husbands when their sexual needs are not met by them (I am not talking about the extreme cases of cuck-couples where the husband’s role is reduced to a sex-starved slave whose sole purpose is to provide for his wife and her offspring that somebody else fathered). Are not these women just enduring sex with their husbands as a form of necessary evil for the sake of domestic peace? Do they not view sex with their husbands as something to keep them (the wives) occupied until their next BBC-encounter?
Sure, the husband gets some kind of kick out of being mentally raped, as well as finding satisfaction in his wife’s pleasure even though he is not the one providing it (maybe he can distance himself from the fact that his wife is not satisfied by him and just focus on the fact that she is satisfied, period).
There was a case where a guy’s wife turned around after 13-14 years of marriage and told him that he simply did not satisfy her sexually and that he never had. He was given a period during which he was supposed to “up his game”. Needless to say, he failed to do so. At the then time of writing, he had not had sex with his wife in over 27 months (that is more than two years!) while she had been ****ing other, better-endowed men. He (the husband) considered that a small price to pay seeing as how his wife had been “enduring” all of this sexual dissatisfaction for all those years.
Looking past the fact that your wife’s sexual needs are met by somebody else, I myself would not be able to stand knowing that the woman I married saw sex with me as a chore. I would not be able to stand being somebody’s second choice when, for me, that person is my first choice.
Perhaps if the pleasure she received from both guys (husband and lover) was equally intense then I would be more accepting of it. However, being in a situation where my wife and I are friends with benefits with somebody else ripping all the benefits, effectively leaving me only with the friendship, is just too hard to take. Maybe I belong to the group of people who do not separate between love and sex?

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