[jen1447]

I should probably admit that while bi-curious I'd probably make a less than ideal girl FB as I have absolutely no desire to perform oral on a female, I'd be up for just about anything else, but I know no oral is a deal breaker for a lot of women. What's your position on that Jen?

Well if we were sex buddies it would kinda defeat the purpose, yeah, but if I was like totally in love with you I would work around it. (and ....convince you to like oral lol.)

But what's not to love about the vajay Trix?

[Trixareforkids]

Well if we were sex buddies it would kinda defeat the purpose, yeah, but if I was like totally in love with you I would work around it. (and ....convince you to like oral lol.)

But what's not to love about the vajay Trix?

I'm just not that into oral. I'm not sure how much my jaw/gag issues have to do with that but it's no more than an occasional fun power trip for me. It's a good thing that hubby's a take it or leave it guy when it comes to oral.

And I wouldn't lick my own if I could and therefore have no desire to lick anyone else's. Boobs now are a whole different ball game.

[atskitty2]

Boobs are awesome, and women's booties are better too...

[Justice]

I'm just not that into oral. I'm not sure how much my jaw/gag issues have to do with that but it's no more than an occasional fun power trip for me. It's a good thing that hubby's a take it or leave it guy when it comes to oral.

And I wouldn't lick my own if I could and therefore have no desire to lick anyone else's. Boobs now are a whole different ball game.

Trix - this ties to other posts where we were talking about jaw/gag issues. I was pointing out there that I would think that it is much easier when you are licking, kissing, etc an object/part which is not INSIDE your mouth.

Since I am inexperienced, though...I guess I'd ask do you/ others find that not to be true?


With jaw issues and a small mouth (and bad sinuses) I know that it would be worse if not impossible for me. (plus I find those pictures to be extremely unappealing. (When I was posting and mentioned a ball gag, I hit a wiki that totally skeeved me out - the pics looked a lot this the distorted faces when woman are deep throating or "mouth f'ng")

[Trixareforkids]

Trix - this ties to other posts where we were talking about jaw/gag issues. I was pointing out there that I would think that it is much easier when you are licking, kissing, etc an object/part which is not INSIDE your mouth.

Since I am inexperienced, though...I guess I'd ask do you/ others find that not to be true?


With jaw issues and a small mouth (and bad sinuses) I know that it would be worse if not impossible for me. (plus I find those pictures to be extremely unappealing. (When I was posting and mentioned a ball gag, I hit a wiki that totally skeeved me out - the pics looked a lot this the distorted faces when woman are deep throating or "mouth f'ng")

It'd be a different jaw motion, licking makes the jaw go forward whereas opening to receive makes the jaw go down. Having never actually tried oral on a girl I can't say for sure, but I can't chew gum for more than 5 minutes without jaw pain so I think licking and tongue stretching would most likely make my jaw unhappy. No idea if the gagging would come into play, I think if I had my tongue out long enough it would.

And just so we're clear, I cannot deep throat, I can't mouth much below the head so I'll lick and use my hand for the lower portion. Mouth f-ing is possible but has to be VERY controlled which we do by combining with boob f-ing. That was probably TMI, but it seemed like you were asking about the logistics and that the best way I know how to describe it.

Jen would probably be the best one on here to talk about the differences.

[Stillness]

with a guy who is bi my reaction is always to wonder "why would he want to do that?" Again, I don't carry any outward prejudice or judge them, I just don't get it.

Why not? You find men and women attractive, right? Why is it so hard to imagine that from a man?

Incidentally, I feel the exact same way as you, but I'm not bisexual.

[jen1447]

I don't know lol. I guess maybe my attraction for men is more intangible (attracted to 'man-ness'), whereas with women it's more aesthetic, like an admiration for objectively beautiful bodies. In that context, a hookup mentality, which is what bi people often have, doesn't make a lot of sense (as applies to bi men). It would be like being a epicurian and exploring that with tofu.

Trix - this ties to other posts where we were talking about jaw/gag issues. I was pointing out there that I would think that it is much easier when you are licking, kissing, etc an object/part which is not INSIDE your mouth.

Since I am inexperienced, though...I guess I'd ask do you/ others find that not to be true?

I thought the same thing actually when Trix said it and assumed she had some specific reason, but as for me, no, oral on a woman doesn't carry any performance issues. I mean, if you were not used to using your tongue like that it would get tired, but I think that's different than the jaw/gag issues you were talking about. Nothing like that happens I'm happy to say.

Boobs are awesome, and women's booties are better too...

Yes ....and YES!

[Trixareforkids]

Boobs are awesome, and women's booties are better too...

I don't disallow that women's booties are nice, but I disagree with better. I love me a (non-hairy) man butt, not too muscular with just a little bit of love handles at the hips ummm huum!

[Trixareforkids]

I thought the same thing actually when Trix said it and assumed she had some specific reason, but as for me, no, oral on a woman doesn't carry any performance issues. I mean, if you were not used to using your tongue like that it would get tired, but I think that's different than the jaw/gag issues you were talking about. Nothing like that happens I'm happy to say.

Do you or have you had any issues with oral on a man? Gagging, tired or locking jaw?

[jen1447]

Nope. I don't do a whole heck of a lot of it tho. (I guess I should also stress that I'm not a deepthroat expert or anything, so my lack of issues is as applies to 'normal' oral on a guy.)