[Something_Awesome]

I would love to be enlightened by her technique. She probably won't be able to be specific with what she does as I am sure she has to feel the woman out first. Maybe I am being idealistic... but my GF called me her soul mate a couple days ago... How could you leave your soul mate behind to sleep with another woman?

Also, I can't expect her to like going down on a woman because I can't kiss her on the lips after I go down on her. She did let me do it once very recently, but that was because we had a special "moment" and I just went in for the kiss (I knew She wasn't going to push me away this time) hoping that maybe she won't mind the taste so that I can kiss her after oral moving forward.

The kissing part is really my only gripe, and it's in no way a deal breaker for me. But if Jen knows something I don't know, or something I could say, then I'd like to hear it. I'd like to be able to kiss her on the lips at any time during sex and not just before I give oral (which happens early on, giving me small windows of opportunity to scam with her).

[Patti-here]

I would love to be enlightened by her technique. She probably won't be able to be specific with what she does as I am sure she has to feel the woman out first. Maybe I am being idealistic... but my GF called me her soul mate a couple days ago... How could you leave your soul mate behind to sleep with another woman?

Also, I can't expect her to like going down on a woman because I can't kiss her on the lips after I go down on her. She did let me do it once very recently, but that was because we had a special "moment" and I just went in for the kiss (I knew She wasn't going to push me away this time) hoping that maybe she won't mind the taste so that I can kiss her after oral moving forward.

The kissing part is really my only gripe, and it's in no way a deal breaker for me. But if Jen knows something I don't know, or something I could say, then I'd like to hear it. I'd like to be able to kiss her on the lips at any time during sex and not just before I give oral (which happens early on, giving me small windows of opportunity to scam with her).

I can't speak for jen Something, I'd have to look, but I don't think she'll be back till Tuesday,, but let me try and answer your question with a question..

You love going down on your G/F right ? And you enjoy her taste right ? So why do you think she wouldn't enjoy her own taste or the taste of another woman ?

[Something_Awesome]

Yea I love the taste. And I knew I would before I even tried it for the first time.

I mentioned above, that she does not let me kiss her on the lips after I go down on her. That one time I did kiss her, she was able to taste it and while she said it wasn't as bad as she imagined, she still did not like it. She turns her head away if I go in for a kiss.

I don't feel discouraged or turned off when she turns away, but I think it would make the experience a little better. Though I will admit I never pushed the issue on the kissing. If I expressed how important it really is to me, she may let me do it after giving oral. If there is something she does not like, I won't try to pressure her into doing it.

We generally don't like the same things, like BJ's and anal. Neither of us have ever had anal.

[Something_Awesome]

I get what you are saying with your question. Sort of like, who could resist mint chocolate chip ice cream (mmmm it's been too long)? I think it has something to do with what Jen alluded to in another topic. Jen said something like she preferred guys simply for the romantic component? Like the romance between a man and a woman was better? I don't remember how she worded it, and I should have asked her to elaborate, but I think my GF is the same way.

I got her the Iris vibrator and she loves it. She uses it a lot. But she even said one time as we were doing it that "she" (my GF refers to the Iris as "she") just can't compete with "this." By "this" she meant the oral I was giving her. I am only guessing that the vibrator can stimulate her better than I can but she still prefers me because of the romantic connection.

I will say that it's totally hot to go down while the vibrator is inside her. Such a worthwhile purchase.

[Patti-here]

I'm not sure I understand her aversion to her own taste, truthfully it shouldn't be bad at all,, it could be she's like some guys are, any guy I've ever known wouldn't even think of tasting his own sperm..

[Patti-here]

I get what you are saying with your question. Sort of like, who could resist mint chocolate chip ice cream (mmmm it's been too long)? I think it has something to do with what Jen alluded to in another topic. Jen said something like she preferred guys simply for the romantic component? Like the romance between a man and a woman was better? I don't remember how she worded it, and I should have asked her to elaborate, but I think my GF is the same way.

I got her the Iris vibrator and she loves it. She uses it a lot. But she even said one time as we were doing it that "she" (my GF refers to the Iris as "she") just can't compete with "this." By "this" she meant the oral I was giving her. I am only guessing that the vibrator can stimulate her better than I can but she still prefers me because of the romantic connection.

I will say that it's totally hot to go down while the vibrator is inside her. Such a worthwhile purchase.

Haha of course it was a worthwhile purchase, you can have hours of fun with one

[Patti-here]

I would love to be enlightened by her technique. She probably won't be able to be specific with what she does as I am sure she has to feel the woman out first. Maybe I am being idealistic... but my GF called me her soul mate a couple days ago... How could you leave your soul mate behind to sleep with another woman?

Also, I can't expect her to like going down on a woman because I can't kiss her on the lips after I go down on her. She did let me do it once very recently, but that was because we had a special "moment" and I just went in for the kiss (I knew She wasn't going to push me away this time) hoping that maybe she won't mind the taste so that I can kiss her after oral moving forward.

The kissing part is really my only gripe, and it's in no way a deal breaker for me. But if Jen knows something I don't know, or something I could say, then I'd like to hear it. I'd like to be able to kiss her on the lips at any time during sex and not just before I give oral (which happens early on, giving me small windows of opportunity to scam with her).

I can tell you one thing about her technique Something,, It's nothing that she has say or do right away.. It's in her eyes, have you noticed her eyes,, very dark and mysterious almost haunting, once they latch onto you, you'll never forget those eyes...

[Something_Awesome]

Are you referring to Jen? I would wager it has less to do with the eyes and more to do with presence.

But I guess we all visualize things we don't know about differently. I have a picture with my GF from a wedding we went to recently and omg the eyes. They looked demonic in the picture (but in a sexy way). I told her "babe, this is your demon picture."

I vote presence/aura.

[Patti-here]

Are you referring to Jen? I would wager it has less to do with the eyes and more to do with presence.

But I guess we all visualize things we don't know about differently. I have a picture with my GF from a wedding we went to recently and omg the eyes. They looked demonic in the picture (but in a sexy way). I told her "babe, this is your demon picture."

I vote presence/aura.

Yea I was referring to jen hon, and for me it had everything to do with her eyes, they're almost exactly the same shape and color as my G/F eyes, I didn't know anything about her presence, all I knew was I needed to meet her, and she didn't disappoint my expectations,, BTW my G/F is a red head, and doesn't look much like jen except for her eyes...

[Patti-here]

Oh, BTW I forgot to mention that Romy has very pretty eyes too, I just don't know her anywhere near as well as I know jen.