[Stillness]

Do you get a kick out of doing things that you think are dirty, perverse, or forbidden? Or do you prefer a clean, pure, or holy relationship? Do you understand why you have the preference you have?

[Baboy]

Do you get a kick out of doing things that you think are dirty, perverse, or forbidden?

Since your second sentence refers to "relationship", I take it that the first sentence (quoted) may be read: "Do you get a kick out of doing things that you think are dirty, perverse, or forbidden in a relationship?"

For me, I think the choices offered are rather stark. I do not see myself or my relationship as "dirty, perverse or forbidden", but also not altogether "clean, pure or holy". I probably occupy a middle ground, if such a place exists.

[Stillness]

Since your second sentence refers to "relationship", I take it that the first sentence (quoted) may be read: "Do you get a kick out of doing things that you think are dirty, perverse, or forbidden in a relationship?"

That is my bias shining through.

Make it "sexual relationship." I want this to be as broad as possible. Someone may feel that having a string of one night stands are perfectly moral, but that certain types of sex are unclean. I want their opinion on this.

I probably occupy a middle ground, if such a place exists.

If it exists in your mind, then it exists.

[Motorguy]

I think many people in a normal relationship like some times there sex to be kinky or dirty to add spice to there sex life. Some times vanilla sex can get boring and can lead to the someone in the relationship to wander off to find something new and exciting in there relationship in the bedroom.

[DreamP346]

Dirty is a matter of perspective. Someone may say having intercourse for pleasure and not procreation is dirty.

Personally, a sexual act doesn't become more desirable just because it is considered taboo. That's not so say I haven't done things just to break social norms.

[Stillness]

Yes, sp. I'm not really asking about what is or isn't dirty in an absolute sense. I'm more so curious about individual perception of what's dirty and whether or not that repulses a person or excites them.

Motorguy mentioned "kinky" and "dirty" together. But these are different. For me, pretty much anything my wife and I do together is clean, regardless of whether or not it's kinky. Social norms don't affect my pleasure. I would like to understand why they would for some people or why being dirty excites them. I don't get that. I think a lot of people don't.

[Motorguy]

Yes, sp. I'm not really asking about what is or isn't dirty in an absolute sense. I'm more so curious about individual perception of what's dirty and whether or not that repulses a person or excites them.

Motorguy mentioned "kinky" and "dirty" together. But these are different. For me, pretty much anything my wife and I do together is clean, regardless of whether or not it's kinky. Social norms don't affect my pleasure. I would like to understand why they would for some people or why being dirty excites them. I don't get that. I think a lot of people don't.

Well Stillness some people would consider kinky and dirty being the same. The word dirty comes to mind faster to some then thinking and saying kinky.Most people who I believe on this site are more open minded would use the term Kinky instead of dirty.

[Stillness]

Well Stillness some people would consider kinky and dirty being the same. The word dirty comes to mind faster to some then thinking and saying kinky.Most people who I believe on this site are more open minded would use the term Kinky instead of dirty.

Interesting. I didn't think to define. I had in mind the dictionary definition. What does "dirty" mean to you?

[jilljames8184]

Depends on your personal perspective. What some people would consider dirty or kinky is part of the normal routine for others.

[Stillness]

Depends on your personal perspective.

I'm asking if things that are dirty from your perspective turn you on.

For example, maybe a person thinks that being called a "filthy dog" is the height of disrespect, but for some reason they like their wife to call them that.