[Motorguy]

My definition of not dirty is far from most people's definition of clean or pure... I wouldn't call my preferences either one. There are people who do things that would be considered far dirtier than what I do and there are people who would call sex beyond missionary for reproductive purposes not pure. I'm somewhere in the middle of the sliding scale. I don't really care about what society considers normal or taboo. If it's fun I do it and if I find I don't like it then I don't do it.

Very well said Kira, everyone sex life's are going to be different. Some would think that's dirty or taboo even kinky. Where other's would disagree with statement it's pretty much each to it's own. But if you having a good time, behind close doors who are you hurting no one i say.

[Motorguy]

I like the forbidden aspects. I dont know if i care for "perverse" But me and my SO are constantly having public sex.

What is it for you that gets you excited about public sex. For me and wife is the chance of being caught and we are doing something pretty kinky of having sex in a car or out under the stars in the country.In the summer evening in the back of the truck on a futon and so on. Just doing something like this is a thrill rush that adds to the orgasm for both of us.

[sallywi2003]

To me as long as it is acceptable to your partner I do not consider it dirty. In regards to Kinky it is kinda fun to go out of the main stream and try something new like being a dominant female.

[Motorguy]

Well that's good Sally, I can agree with that. When you doing a kinky or dominant role this has to be acceptable for both parties for sure. Because this would not work if either one not all for this life style.