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  • hot amy
    Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 42

    Originally posted by effy2014
    I'll go with: it's just plain icky.

    Doesn't matter -- the OP is long gone. He didn't like that the men here were grossed out as well as the women. Of course, my suspicious brain wonders if it happened at all . . . .
    Do you know effy I read the post and in my believing nature I thought it was all true but you could have a point

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    • hot amy
      Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 42

      Originally posted by Claret
      First of all HotAmy, I wasn't the the first one to suggest that this was incest, please go back an re-read the posts.
      I sincerely apologise if I caused you any bad feelings. You are absolutely correct many said all such things. I did not mean to offend you.

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      • Claret
        Assistant Admin
        • Jan 2011
        • 1823

        Originally posted by hot amy
        Do you know effy I read the post and in my believing nature I thought it was all true but you could have a point

        Which was why my reference to Mid Summer's Night Dream. . . and hot amy I wasn't offended, I was just pointing out that the statement wasn't originally from me.

        I will back up for a minute here and say that this possibly is all true. There are many different types of people in this world with many different experiences. However, I do think the OP was looking for something other than the advise he got on this forum and wasn't what he expected. When you state something for shock value, and there is no real reaction, it loses it's shock value.
        That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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        • effy2014
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 1777

          Originally posted by Claret
          I will back up for a minute here and say that this possibly is all true. There are many different types of people in this world with many different experiences. However, I do think the OP was looking for something other than the advise he got on this forum and wasn't what he expected. When you state something for shock value, and there is no real reaction, it loses it's shock value.
          As a MAN back from my self imposed exile, I think that we treated the OP's posting as legitimate and gave him our sound advice. His immediate offense to having men answer his post could certainly have been as Claret suggests or that his game was over. In any event, I tried, without success, to picture what it would have been like to masterbate in front of any of my four Aunts . . . .
          "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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          • Stillness
            WH Poster of the Month April 2017
            • Feb 2012
            • 3679

            Originally posted by effy2014
            In any event, I tried, without success, to picture what it would have been like to masterbate in front of any of my four Aunts . . . .
            Were you "a bashful 18 year old" in your imagination?
            "Those sowing seed with tears
            Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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            • Claret
              Assistant Admin
              • Jan 2011
              • 1823

              Originally posted by effy2014
              As a MAN back from my self imposed exile, I think that we treated the OP's posting as legitimate and gave him our sound advice. His immediate offense to having men answer his post could certainly have been as Claret suggests or that his game was over. In any event, I tried, without success, to picture what it would have been like to masterbate in front of any of my four Aunts . . . .
              OMG, I'm getting a visual of the look on the 4 Aunts faces. . .See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil, and the 4th one with a gleam in her eye.
              That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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              • effy2014
                Veteran Member
                • Apr 2014
                • 1777

                Originally posted by Stillness
                Were you "a bashful 18 year old" in your imagination?
                Couldn't even get that far. Just ran down the list in my head (two are now deceased) and just shook my head. I couldn't even imagine any if them being sexual at all, which made the scenario rather preposterous.
                "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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                • effy2014
                  Veteran Member
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 1777

                  Originally posted by Claret
                  OMG, I'm getting a visual of the look on the 4 Aunts faces. . .See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil, and the 4th one with a gleam in her eye.
                  Oh, they are all in the room together in this scenario? I now have to go throw up . . . excuse me for a moment.
                  "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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                  • bootsie
                    Senior Member
                    • May 2013
                    • 154

                    Originally posted by roy james
                    Hi I always have felt guilty of masturbating after my mother walked into my bedroom when I was 13. I can remember her saying sorry and leaving the room. I was embarrassed to look her in the eye for several days. After about a week passed and she told I was doing nothing wrong as all boys do it around that age. She said she had seen me throughout my life washing or bathing me so was not too embarrassed, although she admitted that she had never seen me stiff. All was forgotten and life carried on for the past few years. To cut a long story short I found out she had told her sister, (my aunt) not at the time but about last year in passing conversation. About a month ago my aunt brought up the episode and asked me straight out if I still masturbate. One thing leads to another and she asked me to do it in front of her whilst she rubbed between her thighs, which I did. She did not remove her pants and no sex took place. She said that she got great pleasure in seeing me toss off. As a bashful 18 year old do you think that I should be doing this in front of her? Remember it was her who initiated it.
                    roy james,
                    I can totally relate to feeling guilty for mastrubating after getting caught by your mother.I was caught by my mom and aunt when I was much younger and I think my guilt was because I was taught that it was wrong to do that and even to look at girls naked.See I grew up in a house hold where anything about sex,a girl's and a woman's period was taboo(wasn't talked about).I was told that that kind of thing wasn't talked about until you was married.It was a long time before the guilt went away plus it took a couple of people to really let me know that it was ok and that boy and girls did it.They even told me that even married couples did it.One of the female that hope the other one explained it to me proof it to me by doing it in front of me on the next time we met and from then on.I never had any guilt about mastrubating.

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                    • jns
                      Assistant Admin
                      • Mar 2010
                      • 8398

                      Originally posted by Echo7
                      Couldn't find it Jns. Your 'about me' just has post stats..
                      I don't know why it isn't showing for you. I put the info up so others would have some background on me. I don't need it for myself. Maybe it was broken over the last few years. Anyway, here it is:

                      Basic Information
                      About jns

                      Biography:
                      55, male, married 24 years to Thai lady

                      Location:
                      LA, CA

                      Interests:
                      travel, SE Asia, languages

                      Occupation:
                      EE
                      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                      ...
                      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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