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I know this is probably going to sound like a windup but it's a genuine question. And a warning to fellas: any comment along the lines of "come give me a blowjob if you like it so much" will be completely ignored, I'm mostly interested in the female perspective on this, though I'll also be happy to hear from guys as long as it's to do with their personal experience with female partners. I'm not looking to hook up with anyone, so don't bother.
Whenever I talk about sex with my female friends and the subject of blowjobs comes up, most of them say they just do it for their partners, because they want to give them pleasure, but they'd happily do without. As for swallowing, not one of them says she enjoys it. They either avoid it altogether, or swallow as little as possible. And all of them hate the taste and can't wait to get it out of their mouth afterwards.
Me, I started giving BJs at 14 (I know, early bloomer) and have always loved it. As you can imagine, once I did it to one guy (just because he asked) word spread very quickly round the school and the requests became very frequent and insistent. I wasn't a complete **** so of course I rejected many of them, but I was also very insecure and desperate to be liked so... I did comply probably more than I should have done. Basically if the guy was remotely attractive and managed to corner me alone at a party, it was pretty much guaranteed that I'd end up sucking him off. This caused me all sorts of problems and I was glad to finally leave school at 16 to go to college. By that point I had collected all sorts of nasty nicknames and was despised by just about every girl in the school. But that's all in the past.
My point is: yes, maybe I did it partly out of a need to be liked, but I also really, genuinely liked doing it. And to this day, that hasn't changed. It's my favourite thing to do to my husband and unlike all my friends, I actually love the taste of semen, to the extent that I never want hubby to cum inside me. To me it seems like a waste, I much prefer it if he withdraws and I finish him off with my mouth. I get the impression that he would often quite like to cum inside me, I imagine it must be hard for him to always pull out at the last minute, but he knows that's what I like so he goes along with it. To me, there's nothing like the feeling of warm cum shooting into the back of my throat, then running down it when I swallow. I love how the taste lingers in my mouth for ages, which is exactly what most women hate. I know they all drink water, coffee or whatever as soon as they can to get rid of the taste, but I deliberately avoid drinking because I find it incredibly sexy to keep tasting my husband's seed while I go about my daily life, making dinner, washing up etc.
Sometimes it doesn't even need to be at the end of a sex session. Hubby could be sitting in front of the telly in the evening and suddenly I just get an urge to blow him off, so I'll unzip him and do it there and then. He's never exactly complained, but sometimes I do wonder whether he'd actually prefer to be left alone to watch TV but doesn't want to hurt my feelings. I'm afraid to ask because if he says it's true, I'll feel like I have to cut down on these quickie BJs and I honestly think I'd really miss them. It's a real addiction!
People will just think "good for you, you enjoy it, your husband enjoys it, what's the problem?" and I guess that's the best way to look at it, but I'm just curious to find out if I'm completely alone in this, or there's other women out there who feel the same way.
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