[DesertSkyline66]

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We are both early 30's and have white collar jobs. We have sex about 3 times a week. We even roll play and get into fantasies as well. Lately though, I have been having many thoughts about men with really large penises. My boyfriend is 5.5 inches rock hard. I came across a website that had amateur photos of men showing their penises and I got totally hooked.I had no idea how large some men were. I mean, there are real penises over 10 inches in length! I thought they were fake, but there are not. I found myself masturbating to some of these men. Is this normal or not? Thanx

[rcoreyus]

People can be attracted to all sorts of things. If you want to find out what it would be like, buy yourself a huge toy and find out. Depending on how secure he is, he may even be happy to use a large toy on you.

Most fantasies though are less fun in reality than you might expect. Fortunately the is one that you can easily and safely experience at least the physical sensations.

[lostbutterfly]

Hi

I also must admit to being fascinated and very turned on by exactly the same thing, I myself am male but I am ltrying to live my life as a woman, I have never been with a guy a tall and never wanted to untill 6 months or so ago. I admit I do often look at men and wonder what kind of package they might have lol I would say its normal and healthy asking as it does not effect your relationship in anyway x

[Ratty]

If you enjoy fantasising about huge penises that's entirely up to you. You must never however, belittle your partner over the size of his own penis. 5.5 inches is well within the 'average' category and he has absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. He will be much more accepting of your appreciation of larger penises as long as you reassure him that his penis is the one you really want because it is attached to him.

Just tell him that you fell in love with who he is as a whole and not just his penis, and tell him that having his penis inside you is every bit as good if not better than even the largest of dildo's. That way you should get away with indulging your admiration of larger penises and still get to keep your man. After all, and I speak from a male perspective here, there is nothing we dislike more than a size-queen who will only be satisified with a monster-**** as we always find such women to be as shallow as an ant's bidet! If he feels that his penis can no longer satisfy you he might be tempted to scarper and find someone else who would appreciate his penis more than you. And you wouldn't want that to happen.

[CoolBreeze]

Who doesn't like the big ones so don't worry. Fantasizing is all normal as long as your relationship remains healthy and strong with your partner/spouse. Keep good communication between your selves. I am sure your partner will be open and have an understanding towards your fantasies. Try indulging in them along with him. You will be amazed how pleasurable it can turn out for both of you. Good luck.

[cathy23]

I would never bring up penis size to a future boyfriend.

[Obelisk]

Let me refer you to **this** thread:

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/61252-why-people-so-misinformed-about.html

lol I rest my case.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Read the heading of this thread!

lols I rest my case

[Stillness]

Read the heading of this thread!

lols I rest my case

Oh wow! Great catch, CW. Normally I'm on the details. I missed this one though.

There's nothing wrong with liking what you like. I don't really know if how normal something is matters. Obsession is a problem when it interferes with healthy relationships though. I think that pornography is always harmful. It was in my personal experience. It strained my marriage. I know that some people will disagree with me and say it depends on the individuals, but that's what I believe. I don't think you can have a whole relationship with pornography involved.

I wonder how you'd feel if your boyfriend was looking at pornography of women with huge labia and getting off on that.

[Stillness]

Let me refer you to ****this**** thread:

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/61252-why-people-so-misinformed-about.html

lol I rest my case.

Obelisk, there is probably a place online where men who love extraordinarily large nipples can gather to look at photos and discuss nipples. They can feel a sense of community and get the pleasure social animals experience when they aren't the only ones doing something. Their girlfriends or women who frequent the site and get into this obsession themselves may have feelings of inadequacy or consider stretching their nipples.

What it would be unreasonable for anyone to do is to reckon that being really into something and finding someone like themselves on the internet means that their predilection reflects that of the majority.