[Guest]

The more i think about this the more it upsets me, and hand on my heart i think the thread should be blocked and so my membership, im sorry i let u all down im sorry to them that asked me the truth and i still lied and im not making excuses to anyone, hand on my heart im truely sorry.

carl

gone forever cheers to them that helped and replied.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

The more i think about this the more it upsets me, and hand on my heart i think the thread should be blocked and so my membership, im sorry i let u all down im sorry to them that asked me the truth and i still lied and im not making excuses to anyone, hand on my heart im truely sorry.

carl

gone forever cheers to them that helped and replied.

You know Carl,

It takes a real brave person and one whom really does have a heart, to do what you did.

I for one are very proud of you.

I know it's hard to understand Carl.. But asking for help also sometimes means realising that people actually will.

And, all that has happened is you felt it and couldn't believe that it was real, so you created who ever, so that in your mind you could dis us all we don't exist.

Bad luck hey cause we do.....

Thanks for being honest, as you were from the beginning.

You didn't lie, you simply vented on your own against yourself.. That's all good.

Take Care for now.

CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh and by the way, I know you'll get this.

I GOT THE LAST WORD IN...

CW

[Joy]

Hey Carl,
I'm glad you admitted that gynastic girl was you cause i really thought they were rude and hoped they were gonna be banned for being down on you.

as i've asked you before please stop hating yourself........... you are seeking help and its one day at a time no one is expecting you to be better in a day. I think everyone is in it for the long haul.


keep going

[damd]

There are some really smart individuals here (I'm not talking about my self) that knew who girlgymnast and Steelbutterfly was. As a computer savvy person as yourself, it should not take you long to figure out why. And there are some people who are even smarter that understand the complications of how the human mind works (again, not talking about me). However, to the not as intelligent people (like myself), you run the risk of indeed sounding like a troll. But that maybe one of your goals. The fact is, you are a complicated person with real emotional and mental issues that needs to be healed. And there are people here that want to help you...

So Carl tell us, why are you here?

Who are you and what is your problems?

What is your issue with women?

What have you lied to us about before and what are you hiding from us now?

[maz33]

Carl

Thank you for owning up to what was really just a small white lie. I did ask you about it and yes you denied it but now you've told EVERYONE the truth and I'm proud of you for that. And don't worry, we do understand why you did that.

We're still your friends whether you like it or not

Some people may think posting here to us is a waste of time because "even the so-called experts can't help you" but don't let comments like that put you off. It's been good for you to get stuff off your chest to people who can't see you, and you've come to realise that although you have a 'serious sexual problem', for which you are getting professional help, there are still people (women included) who care about you as a human being and want you to get better.

You're still as welcome here as any of us

[Guest]

There are some really smart individuals here (I'm not talking about my self) that knew who girlgymnast and Steelbutterfly was. As a computer savvy person as yourself, it should not take you long to figure out why. And there are some people who are even smarter that understand the complications of how the human mind works (again, not talking about me). However, to the not as intelligent people (like myself), you run the risk of indeed sounding like a troll. But that maybe one of your goals. The fact is, you are a complicated person with real emotional and mental issues that needs to be healed. And there are people here that want to help you...

So Carl tell us, why are you here?

Who are you and what is your problems?

What is your issue with women?

What have you lied to us about before and what are you hiding from us now?

I only lied about thats it it is a lie, girl_gymnast and steelbutterfly, i havnt lied about anythink else i promise

SORRY

I will go away if thats what you want me to do !

[damd]

I am not saying for you to go away. That might be what you want to hear. You came here for help and that is what people (including myself) want to give. But we want you to be honest. I understand why you did it, at least I think I do. You are your worst enemy. I just wanted to give you the opportunity to have a clean slate. I want you to be able to tell us everything.

[Guest]

So far i have been 100% honest with you, about what louise, judith and Dr, and whats going, on, the thing i feel really upset about is pretending to be "2" people im not, all i can say about that is sorry nothing else, no1 will ever know how sorry i am after most have been so nice to me since i posted, and i let you all down by doing this.

carl

[damd]

Carl the only person you are letting down is yourself. You want to bash yourself, like your comments as girlgymnast and steelbutterfly. I want you to be honest, but be honest with yourself. I don't understand why you can not have the same compassion for yourself that the people here have for you.

Why are you here? - Answer that. Are you here so that people will hate you and rip you for being sick? Or are you here to seek compassion, or something else?

Who are you and what are your problems? - Are you Carl the malevirgin or are you the Steelbutterfly or the girlgymnast?

What is your issue with women? - ?

What have you lied about before and what are you hidding from us now? - So this was the only lie, ok. What are you hidding from us if anything? Is there anything else that you have not said that you will like to say now?

I'm not attacking you Carl. Just trying to get you to talk about this.