[Girl_Gymnast]

I didnt mean i had read in his post that he was 6, what i ment was yes he's 42 but the way his mother as brought him up, in his head in hes still a little boy and not the mind of a mature male if that makes sence.

Reason i said maybe he should tell Louise that he wants to be numb, is what if he hurts a child as he still can and he still as sexual feelings, yes he may not get sexualy aroused as much as he did before the castration, but end of day he still as sexual feelings and he can still hurt someone, there is a reason why he was castrated and thats why they class him as a sex offender as thats what he is.

And for my he needs to be put in care away from his mother.

[Guest]

Dont want to go into care i dont, i love my mommy

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I didnt mean i had read in his post that he was 6, what i ment was yes he's 42 but the way his mother as brought him up, in his head in hes still a little boy and not the mind of a mature male if that makes sence.

Reason i said maybe he should tell Louise that he wants to be numb, is what if he hurts a child as he still can and he still as sexual feelings, yes he may not get sexualy aroused as much as he did before the castration, but end of day he still as sexual feelings and he can still hurt someone, there is a reason why he was castrated and thats why they class him as a sex offender as thats what he is.

And for my he needs to be put in care away from his mother.

Good "Opinions" Just funny, as what he remembers is from when he was 6... He has only told a couple of people that, privately, that's all, funny as i said, just a coincidence. And actually, he feels he is a little girl, but yes that does make sense.

Yes, agreed as well on that "statement"..There are lots of "what if's aren't there in life?" Isn't it just as "smart" to take one step at a time? View all options even a few weeks in "observation" away from his "home"... Away from things that love to add into the scheme of things... I don't think all of those have been mentioned here, like locked inside a room, driven to those toilets by someone, other things un-mentionable... So, perhaps as i said, there may be , may be , other forces so trying before you buying rule is just the same i think... Test all first and see, the last resort, for the last....

His Mother signed the forms suggested it, of course from what he has stated, just to add to the picture for you.

Yep, there are certainly reasons, that's for sure. Have a read through the last few pages...

Hope that helps, as your thoughts and advise as i said has some simular thoughts...

Just not, cut and dried so to speak.

CW

[Girl_Gymnast]

He Needs To Be Put Down And Put In Jail Hes A Paedohpile And Should Kill Him Self And Dont Ing Bad Me Again.

Steelbutterfly

Carl Your Ed In The Head Kill Yourself Today

[Girl_Gymnast]

Paedophiles Need To Be Shot Dead.

[Guest]

Stop it.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Ignore her.

People who put a capital letter at the beginning of every word need to be shot dead ...

[maz33]

girl gymnast, you 'sound' very familiar. Have we 'spoken' before by any chance??

[Girl_Gymnast]

No you dont know me maz33, well i think you dont maybe you do though not sure.

[harlow]

Tried that suggestion ILuvHim, way back at the beginning of the posts...

Bit difficult seeing as he has just had casteration as well, and infected.

The real issues are based at the moment of depression and feeling down...

Perhaps you can offer your thoughts in that direction, as he sure needs a few friends at the moment.

CW

I have been reading these posts for the past week or two, and I have to add my two cents...

The immediate issues seem to be depression and feeling down as stated above, but the broader issue needs to be addressed: The trauma that Carl has endured both by the school kids that abused him as well as what his mother has/is putting him through.

Carl, it is SO imperitive that you be honest with your therapist and tell her everything. It sounds like you love and care about your mother, and that she cares about you, but the relationship is an unhealthy one with no appropriate boundaries. You really need to work through the trauma you endured by your school mates, and you need to do that with a trained professional. That way you can begin to heal. She needs to know about your relationship with your mother too! The therapist cannot help you if she doesn't know all the factors involved in your relationship.

By the way, for what its worth, you are very brave to go through with the operation. You need to do whatever it takes to keep children and other potential victims safe from what you could do to harm them. Now, you need to continue to work on your psychological issues. So you can be healthy and improve your life.