[Futureboy]

Check this is money (money week)

ThisIsMoney: Lenders prepare to hike mortgages rates'Lenders are doing little new mortgage business compared with previous years and they have no choice but to offset some of the low margin business they have written in the past by hiking up their standard variable rates.' Well, they have to make money somewhere ...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yes, I know Mine didn't work "at all" in my business, but always told me how I should run it, and how I wasn't running it, 2.5yrs later I am still in business and as you know separated,but can't Divorce it seems, as I just learnt today from the banks that they will need signatures from him, this year and in a years time, so I have to play it cool.

Sucks, big time but the main thing I can tell you is "once your FREE", you really can breathe and just be yourself and that's worth every single breathe you'll take each day, with a smile.

Good luck and let us know....

[MzLynnie]

I am glad you got out! I have been through a physically abusive relationship and I got out, my life was too important to me and I had to be there for my children. Don't feel guilty but know that he has some underlying issue he needs to deal with and seek help for but don't make it your problem to figure out, just move on.
Just pray he get himself together before he end up hurting or killing someone or someone hurt or kill him. A man is not a man in my book when he put his hands on a woman and love does not hurt you like that. My son's father admitted years later, he had a drinking problem and I did not know it or cared to find out when I left. He told me years later, I was the best thing that ever happened I just said I know but time heals all wounds and when I put him out, I never looked back for a second. And that was 17 years ago.
My prayers are with you and I pray God give you strength to keep moving forward.