[sourpuss]

Even with all the work and make up, yadda yadda, I still don't think she's pretty at all. I have tons of friends who are prettier than her, Sally included. I suppose it all comes down to personal preference and if your husband thought that was the type of woman who was beautiful, then he'd have married a fake looking blond chic. But he didn't he married you because he finds you beautiful.

This is exhausting.

[Olympia]

Sally,
We are each of us a combination of a male and female. Most of us have had some if not all of our childhood to develop some of their wisdom, mannerisims, customs, language.... and so on. What i am trying to say is, each of us is different. We are not meant to all be the same. I do not wish to imagine a world of less imagination, stagnation, repetition, dull...dull... dull.
We carry outwardly and within us a mother and father, and their's as well and on and on... Enhance your natural beauty. Smile, carry yourself with pride, dignity, femininity, and above all feel sexy beautiful!

[WildChild]

She looks plastic, not like a real person.
YOU look infinitely better!!!!

[sourpuss]

She looks plastic, not like a real person.
YOU look infinitely better!!!!

I agree!

[rcoreyus]

Agreed - looks like plastic, and her face is in my opinion sub standard. I swear I'm not lying - if you looked like her you would be less beautiful not more. Maybe she was beautiful once, but not now.

There isn't one standard for beauty - there are many many ways to be beautiful.

Also, beauty is over-rated. Whatever someone looks like at 20, in 30 years they won't look as good. If the person they are with thinks they are beautiful because they love them, then they will always be beautiful. I first saw my wife 30 years ago and thought she was beautiful. I still think she is beautiful - my judgment may be impaired because I love her - but I think that's fine.

[Mes T]

And think of it this way too (I know it helps me if I ever start feeling down about my looks compared to a celeb):

A lot of men don't like these plastic women, just like a lot of WOMEN don't like plastic MEN. Think about it - would you choose that guy on TV with peck implants and a nose job and colored eye contacts and body make-up over your husband? If you were single, would you choose that Ken doll over regular Joe next door?

No, you wouldn't, and I think you need to give the male species a break because they wouldn't choose a woman like that either.

Lastly it's NOT all about looks. I have a VERY attractive acquaintance who is basically brain dead inside, and my best friend is not traditionally beautiful but guys flock to her like flies to light, seriously.

[sallyskellington]

Aside from not knowing who this is, what is it about her that is so beautiful.

Is it the fact that this is a picture (that is probably airbrushed) in which someone has had her makeup done, her hair done, and is wearing underwear that makes her any more beautiful than you are?

Guess what, you can do the same thing and have a professional picture taken and I'll bet you ten to one your husband would salivate over your picture more than he would this one.

I would never get a pic like that done though b/c I'm so flat I look like a little boy trying on his mom's lingerie. I'm not kidding either I have no it's disgusting actually

[sallyskellington]

Thank you guys, I think your all little nutty but thank you

[Ashlee T.]

I would never get a pic like that done though b/c I'm so flat I look like a little boy trying on his mom's lingerie. I'm not kidding either I have no it's disgusting actually

Then back to what I said in the beginning. You have a problem that is going to require much more than we here can give you. There is nothing uglier to a man than a woman who is insecure. Ironically, you're this beautiful girl who is working overtime to convince people that she's ugly. But funny how everyone was literally raving over the photo of yourself you posted on that one thread. You have a distorted perception of yourself. You will inevitably, ruin your marriage, ruin other relationships, and ruin yourself until you decide to get help. People will get tired of trying to make you feel better about yourself, when really you don't want to feel better about yourself. You want to look like someone you're not, someone who was born from totally different parents, and someone who has undergone YEARS of plastic surgery. What happens if you get in an accident that distorts your face? Are you even more worthless then? Is your sole existance based on physical appearance? What you see and what is reality, are two totally different things.

[sallyskellington]

I'm trying to see what you do I really am seriously. I just can't.