[rcoreyus]

Sally - you are in a long term relationship, so what matters most is if your partner is attracted to you. He says he is. Has he done or said anything to indicate that he isn't? If he is watching TV and you walk into the room naked, does he pay attention to you?

[sallyskellington]

it's not about my husband or what he thinks of me, and he's my husband he has to act like he's attracted. Like I said when you saty with someone they become attracted to you b/c of your personality and I don't want that. I want people attracted me b/c I'm hot. IMO we tell ugly people looks don't matter it's your personality to make them feel better. And I don't get naked in front of him I'm gross I have no breasts it's disgusting, and unfeminine. I honestly feel any guy attracted to me is secretly gay

[sallyskellington]

I just tried to edit last post b/c I'm reading it and it's honestly how I feel and it's not right I deserve to feel better then this. So looks like that therapist is gonna have to work for their money.

[Ashlee T.]

Who says because you stay with someone you have to be attracted to them? haha...girl you read the posts on here, and you know good and well that ALL kinds of people are in unhappy sexless marriages with no chemistry and attraction whatsoever. So no....you don't have to pretend to be attracted just cause you're with someone. Your husband is attracted to you because he finds you beautiful. Im' sure you keep trying to talk him out of it, telling him all the reasons why you don't believe he's attracted to you....even to the point that he must be secretely gay in order to find you attractive. And eventually, he'll tire of it, tire of dealing with the craziness (because that is definitely what it is), tire of not being allowed to find his own wife attracted......and he'll leave.

You're up, you're down, you're reasonable, you're irrational. One minute to the next it changes. And there is nothing ANY of us can do about it. Seek help from someone trained to give you help, at least TRY to save your marriage, or sit down, shrivel up and be prepared for a unfilled, unhappy life.

[Mes T]

Sally dear you've reached some kind of low that is honestly pretty scary. I'm also feeling a little insulted - I'm small-breasted myself but happen to love the way I look, and I know that random people in the street find me attractive, and I also know that my boyfriend finds me VERY attractive, my small boobies being his absolute favorite part of me.

There's no reason why you can't feel the same way about yourself right now.

Feeling like you feel is no way to live, darlin'.

[sallyskellington]

I never realized but your right I am up and down.. And I wanna get fixed I hate feeling this way all the time. I don't know whats happen to me that I feel like the only way I can be hot is to look like a pin up. I just I have always felt like the ugly duckling and always wanted to be the chick when she walks in a room every guy drools. And I just have always equated that with playmates. I'm just so sick of hating myself and so sick of wanting to die b/c I hate myself so much.

[rcoreyus]

Lots of women who don't look like pin-ups are hot.

[jns]

Sally, from your picture, you look like a beautiful young woman to me. I like small busts as opposed to large busts. You also look about the right weight. Does your job cause you to be depressed?

[sallyskellington]

Lots of women who don't look like pin-ups are hot.

Part of me realizes that somewhere inside, but then another part fights it.
Aren't pin-ups supposed to be like the supreme hot? And like a class all to there self? (honestly asking for a guys perspective b/c I honestly don't know.)

[sallyskellington]

I'm really not, I'm a fatty I just get all my fat in my butt, hips and thighs. I'm not proportionate. I got an AA/ A cup and fat butt, I'm gross. In some ways my job does, I mean I like helping people but I get depressed about it b/c I'm not smart enough to do anything but grunt work. I barely graduated highschool so not like I could get some kind of prestigious respected job. I'll be grunt worker till I die.