[Texinator]

No need to blush. There were several acronyms I didn't know about before joining Womes Health. LOML (love/light of my life), DH (dear husband), DW (dear wife), LDR (long distance relationship), LTR (long term relationship), FWB (friends with benefits) and so on..

[Explorer44]

Wow I didn't know LDR either...I learn so much on the forum lol!

[WildChild]

Oh sorry! Thank you for clarifying. Funny I've never encountered that one before...If there is a blushing smilie, >insert here<

As far as I know that one is my own. He is unique and I needed my own way to express that.

[Texasred]

This has been part of the thought process I've been exploring lately. I'm hoping the LOML will start to open up again so we can explore it together more tangibly. If not I will have re-examine sticking around.

I know what it's like to be hopelessly in love with someone with whom I'm totally mis-matched sexually. I broke up with just such a person over 25 years ago, and it's finally gotten to where I can sometimes go a week without thinking about her or seeing her in my dreams.
Our break-up occurred on Valentine's Day, and I'm hard-pressed to explain to the other women who've come into (and gone from) my life why I can't stand that day...

We never could have had a life together unless she had changed dramatically, which is something you can never plan on. She only seemed to enjoy sex if it was (in a play-acting way) "forced upon" her, and that's not a form of role-playing I was comfortable with - it just didn't seem right.
I don't see women that way, and I ESPECIALLY didn't enjoy being that way with her!

But I still miss her...

[WildChild]

That's hard. This could become that kind of situation. The connection goes way beyond attraction. It's rare and I hope we will turn it around but the ball is in his court.

[Explorer44]

There are so many people here who deserve to be so happy...I hope the best for everyone, really. An unmatched drive can be something akin to torture for some people.
TR, wow that sounds like it was an unusual situation. I love a dominant man, but what you describe sounds like it went beyond that...

WC, I'm rootin for you!

[Texinator]

There are so many people here who deserve to be so happy...I hope the best for everyone, really.

Dear Santa,

For this Christmas I wish to meet someone with whom I can connect emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. Please let it be a confident, kind, and loving woman, who shares my goofy sense of humor, and with whom I can grow old.

Thank you,

Tex

PS Can you also make sure that she's a naughty one that likes to have me explore and tease every inch of her body and enjoys deafening, furniture moving sex?

PSS I ran out of milk and cookies so please enjoy the beer and some beef jerky I left out for you.

[WildChild]

I bet Santa gets sick of cookies. You've put it out to the universe, according to the principals of Pronoia the whole world is waiting to shower you with blessings.

[Texinator]

Ooh, that sounds good!

[Explorer44]

PS Can you also make sure that she's a naughty one that likes to have me explore and tease every inch of her body and enjoys deafening, furniture moving sex?

Why Tex, how sweet! Hmmm are you wishing for ME, Explorer? My goodness I didn't know you cared lol