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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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From a woman in a moment of passion, yes. Cold and out of a cup, no thanks. Just as I suspect many women who swallow from a man, wouldnt touch the cup. Ive dated squirters, and I didnt mind one bit (though changing the sheets daily gets old), but I think any man going down on a woman will swallow some of her juices, irregardless of her squirting or not.Comment
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I do not care whether a woman swallows. There is no connection between whether she swallows and how she feels about a man. She can be totally in love with a man yet refuse to swallow. She might be FWB with another and love to swallow.
Some men will grab a woman's head an hold it still, not because he want's her to swallow but because his penis has become too sensitive for her to continue.
Some girls let if flow from their mouths back down over a penis and use it to jack it off. If she knows what she's doing she can keep it hard until he cums again.
But no man should ever make any relationship conditional upon whether she swallows. Ladies, if ever confronted with such a demand and you don't like to swallow, find a more mature man. A mature man will respect your wishes, not ask you to compromise them.
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I have done, and found it rather sweet (i eat very well) but she stills thinks that she'll do it some day..what ever that day comes...in the mean time she let me finish in her mouth and swallows a bit each time.....she says that we had to be happy with comprimising...since she makes sense, i have to keep waiting for that day,,,I have a proposal for all men who demand their partner lets them come in their mouth. Next time you masturbate, ejaculate into a cup and then drink it down. I'm not kidding.
If you refuse to do it outright, why should she do it? If you try it but can't stand the texture or taste, why should she do it? If you try it and you don't mind, then remember that everyone has a different opinion, and it might make her uncomfortable after all, just like you might not be comfortable with absolutely everything she wants.Comment
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Haha awesome... Fact of the matter is some guys just taste/smell evil! And it can be chunky! I'm literally gagging right now!I have a proposal for all men who demand their partner lets them come in their mouth. Next time you masturbate, ejaculate into a cup and then drink it down. I'm not kidding.
If you refuse to do it outright, why should she do it? If you try it but can't stand the texture or taste, why should she do it? If you try it and you don't mind, then remember that everyone has a different opinion, and it might make her uncomfortable after all, just like you might not be comfortable with absolutely everything she wants.
That said if it tastes nice and smells nice and isn't too thick I'm all over it but it's rare to find. I'll usually take it into my mouth but can't bring myself to swallow that's when I get all gaggy lol just let it drip out while my bfs recovering I think he likes that, it's visual you lick your lips a few times etc, it's there but it hasn't always been swollowed etc.If I knew where I was going I would already be there
I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)
"I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" MorisseyComment
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From what I have read on this forum pretty much everyone has great thoughts and great points. As a married guy I have to say my wife's refusal to swallow or even give oral for that matter is a major source of frustration and dissatisfaction for me, but I fully agree it is her choice. Problem is if I do the unthinkable (with someone else) I am the villain.
What a treat it would be if she would give me the pleasure! For all of you ladies out there, just know it may mean a tremendous amount to your significant other...and I mean tremendous! Not just from a 'brute' sexual perpective, but from the perspective of deep down happiness, contentment, and appreciation.Comment
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yeah well I'D be annoyed if i was with someone who didnt go down on ME!!! WTF. i know men shouldnt expect women to do this or that, but jeebus! that would suck. i think alot of guys who take it for granted should be more appreciative! does she let u go down on her?From what I have read on this forum pretty much everyone has great thoughts and great points. As a married guy I have to say my wife's refusal to swallow or even give oral for that matter is a major source of frustration and dissatisfaction for me, but I fully agree it is her choice. Problem is if I do the unthinkable (with someone else) I am the villain.
What a treat it would be if she would give me the pleasure! For all of you ladies out there, just know it may mean a tremendous amount to your significant other...and I mean tremendous! Not just from a 'brute' sexual perpective, but from the perspective of deep down happiness, contentment, and appreciation.
yes unfortunatly (*laughs*) if u did go elsewhere for a BJ you would be the villan. so tell her that. u need to open up the communication a bit. if a guy said to me, im sorry i dont do that, id tell him i would find someone who did, and be with them. so i didnt have to worry about being the villan
why is it that some people favour cheating over leaving full stop??? if your unhappy u leave! u dont cheat!
ps there is a big difference between going down on a guy and swallowing the potentially chunky or smelly, (or both) bleach tasting deposit at the end maybe she would blow you if she knew you would pull away for her? has she ever done it for you? maybe she had a bad experienceIf I knew where I was going I would already be there
I wish I had more time. Judicious, beautiful, augmented, whatever.
I've always been afraid to die, but I think I'm more afraid to live. (BC, SP)
"I would go out tonight, but i havent got a stitch to wear!" MorisseyComment
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I have to agree to every part of this post! Well said.yeah well I'D be annoyed if i was with someone who didnt go down on ME!!! WTF. i know men shouldnt expect women to do this or that, but jeebus! that would suck. i think alot of guys who take it for granted should be more appreciative! does she let u go down on her?
yes unfortunatly (*laughs*) if u did go elsewhere for a BJ you would be the villan. so tell her that. u need to open up the communication a bit. if a guy said to me, im sorry i dont do that, id tell him i would find someone who did, and be with them. so i didnt have to worry about being the villan
why is it that some people favour cheating over leaving full stop??? if your unhappy u leave! u dont cheat!
ps there is a big difference between going down on a guy and swallowing the potentially chunky or smelly, (or both) bleach tasting deposit at the end maybe she would blow you if she knew you would pull away for her? has she ever done it for you? maybe she had a bad experienceComment
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