[ItsASecret]

I think size only might matter from an orgasmic standpoint for women who have g-spot vaginal orgasms on a frequent basis, but for many women there is a "too big" point, in the sense that he would hit her cervix too easily.

Actually the G-spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall of the vagina so technically size means nothing as long as he is more than 2-3 inches in size to have a possible G-spot orgasm lol. What may help for G-spot orgasms is a penis that curves slightly upward. But regardless it is how a man uses his penis not his size that makes a difference.

[a_dub]

Actually the G-spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall of the vagina so technically size means nothing as long as he is more than 2-3 inches in size to have a possible G-spot orgasm lol. What may help for G-spot orgasms is a penis that curves slightly upward. But regardless it is how a man uses his penis not his size that makes a difference.

3 inches - check
penis curve upward - check

I guess I'm good for the job!

[a_dub]

Actually the G-spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper wall of the vagina so technically size means nothing as long as he is more than 2-3 inches in size to have a possible G-spot orgasm lol. What may help for G-spot orgasms is a penis that curves slightly upward. But regardless it is how a man uses his penis not his size that makes a difference.

Always have heard this, but maybe its my relative experience here...what does "use" mean exactly? During sex, the penis only really does one thing: thrusts in and out of the vagina. Is there a particular methodology that is referred to as "use"? For example, two deep thrusts for every shallow one perhaps.

[ItsASecret]

3 inches - check
penis curve upward - check

I guess I'm good for the job!

lol having that does not mean you are definitely going to be able to give a woman a G-spot orgasm. It just means technically speaking it could help more.

Always have heard this, but maybe its my relative experience here...what does "use" mean exactly? During sex, the penis only really does one thing: thrusts in and out of the vagina. Is there a particular methodology that is referred to as "use"? For example, two deep thrusts for every shallow one perhaps.

It means do not just assume that size equates pleasure, since many guys think it does. When women say "how he uses it" they are referring to his technique, vary speed, vary the depth you penetrate, certain positions will change how it feels and so forth, some men will use manual finger stimulation while also doing vaginal penetration...just doing more than simply pumping away. Whatever technique he comes up with does not mean it is an absolute working method or technique for all women as all women will react differently to each different action. Basically it is referring to not assuming that size alone does the job and simply pumping away....it does not work like a handbook manual of "do this ____ and this ____ will result".

[a_dub]

lol having that does not mean you are definitely going to be able to give a woman a G-spot orgasm. It just means technically speaking it could help more.

Small moral victories and baby steps, lol. I'm still looking for a receptive woman...once I find that, I can work on actually polishing that technique!

It means do not just assume that size equates pleasure, since many guys think it does. When women say "how he uses it" they are referring to his technique, vary speed, vary the depth you penetrate, certain positions will change how it feels and so forth, some men will use manual finger stimulation while also doing vaginal penetration...just doing more than simply pumping away. Whatever technique he comes up with does not mean it is an absolute working method or technique for all women as all women will react differently to each different action. Basically it is referring to not assuming that size alone does the job and simply pumping away....it does not work like a handbook manual of "do this ____ and this ____ will result".

Thank you so much. I've actually asked this in a whole lotta different places and never really got a straight answer. You don't know how valuable this information would be to the vast majority of inexperienced guys who otherwise only have porn videos to go off.

[Guest]

The reason I know my fiances penis size is because he told me, which is probably a similar case for a lot of women. Men take pride in how large their penis is and love to share it with their lover. It gives them a self-esteem boost to hear them say "wow...you're big" or they say it out loud because they KNOW their penis is big. Because the topic is so popular, I also feel women measure for ****z and giggles. Hey, if you had a vagina, wouldnt you examine it too? I think it's more of a curiousity thing, at least it is for me. If I had a penis, I'd measure than baby in a heart beat! LOL. If it was big, of course I'll brag about it. Only because that's what society has made people think is what all women want.

true true and that's not always the case I ain't gonna lie I measured mine quite a few times and I actually thought I was small because of porn but just about every female who ask my penis size said I was good with the exception of 3 and 2 of those woman were bragging about how they were with 11 and 12 inches respectively and watching that on x rated vids makes u feel like if u don't have a 10 inches at least ur small but then I read some porn star confessions where they were complaining about over endowed men and on the net I read some forums where some of the men were like 2-3 times smaller than what im packing so I don't sweat my penis size as much anymore although I would like more girth

[Guest]

If one woman likes huge penises because she enjoys the pain inflicted by them, good for her. I don't mind. There are plenty other women who prefer a more average size because it doesn't cause the pain. It's very little different than a guy who see's a girl with a large chest versus one with a smaller chest.

ur kinda right the depth of most vaginas are like 4 inches and I have heard numerous complaints from woman as some bottom out at like 6-7 inches and when you go deeper than that you hit the cervix and some women don't like being hit in the cervix like that and when I read some of those female porn confessions they ended up with prolapsed uterus's, anus and forced to have a hysterectomy and not have kids anymore due to the overlarge penis but us men need to realize different strokes for different folks and a female told me once that some men can be too big

[Guest]

I've had several negative experiences when it comes to women and my size, that have proven to me that size does matter. At a very minimum, a vast majority of women want average and I don't even come close.

I feel bad for u if u really want a bigger one save up 10g's and hit up dr elist

[Guest]

All this being said, I'll respond to one of Little's comments:

Having bedded over 50+ women, I'll say that few were afraid to have frank discussions about penis size. Most told me entirely more than I wanted to hear, either about me or about their previous boyfriends. Oh well.

One in particular stuck out. I hooked up with a girl that was engaged to another guy. I knew the guy, he was at least 6'4, 250+. I'm under 6ft and 200lbs. I wasn't aware they were engaged, but she was shallow and looking for a reason to get out of the deal, and I just happened to be there at the right time. After we had sex, she told me she had several orgasms and that she wasn't having orgasms with the fiance because he was simply too big. Went on and on about how big it was. Pretty much telling me I was smaller and at least by an inch. Granted, it might have been more reasons than that, but the point was, there is something to be said for FIT, rather than size, because it was mine that gave her an orgasm. Bottom Line: If you're too big, she simply may not enjoy it.

That graph is spot on. in my experience, most things boil down to bell curves. I do that for a living. z-score, t-score, probability. Standard Deviation. I firmly believe that average is about right. I've had women complain and I've had women I thought, "****, this is loose." It cuts both ways. But I'm pretty confident I'm close enough to average that it shouldn't matter. It's what else I'm doing that will make her happy.

Every male alive should understand the definition of tactile stimulation. For example, if you can tease a woman appropriately and make her WANT your penis, it's far better than having nine inches. It's all about how your penis makes her feel, men. If you don't know how to stimulate her with it, it won't matter how big it is. End of discussion.

thats what im trying to convey hows life as a statistician I done some standard deviation in p-chem using calc that **** was interesting

[Lady Syrinx]

I might be in the minority here. I don't know my man's size. I've asked to measure him in the past but he said "You'll be disappointed." So I let the subject drop.. He

I'm very good friends with my hubby's best friend. He recently told me that he saw my hubby's penis briefly briefly and in his opinion, I was a very lucky woman. That got me curious again. I've though about asking again but I figure I'll get the same old answer.I might be in the minority here. I don't know my man's size. I've asked to measure him in the past but he said "You'll be disappointed." So I let the subject drop.. He

I'm very good friends with my hubby's best friend. He recently told me that he saw my hubby's penis briefly briefly and in his opinion, I was a very lucky woman. That got me curious again. I've though about asking again but I figure I'll get the same old answer.