[Claret]

Are you happy? Do you wish he were bigger smaller? If not, why should the actual measurement matter to you?

[Lady Syrinx]

Curiosity I guess. I know everything else about him. The truth is that I hadn't thought about it at all for years prior to that comment. We've been together quite a while (since we were both 17, it'll be 20 years next March 22). I am quite satisfied NOW, but that had nothing to with him, size or otherwise.

[GoLeftThenRight]

thats what im trying to convey hows life as a statistician I done some standard deviation in p-chem using calc that **** was interesting

You certainly got it. I'm biased, but I tend to see bell curves in everything. In layman's terms, that means a some small, some large, but a lot in the middle. I think the average between 5-6 is about right and there are certainly outliers. But even with a population of outliers, there are likely 'outlier' women. So ladies and gentleman, if you don't fit, go find someone with who you do fit.

Natural selection has something to do with it, as well. We didn't just wake up and a certain percentage of the male populace grew 9 inche penises. If a male is too big, and it kills the enjoyment because he loses a lot of DIRECT contact with the vagina, then his motivation to pro-create decreases. If he has less children(male), then the population of oversized men just dipped. Same with his partner. A female who doesn't enjoy sex isn't going to have 9 children.

I've discussed this with the most reliable, informed group I can imagine, ER doctors at a major research hospital. Granted, their stories were grotesque, but they agreed that it was amazing the degree of variation in vagina size. It's just a flexible organ. And sure,there is variation in penis size as well, but few men have 12 inche penises.

[ItsASecret]

There is and always will be a normal distribution in penis size unless for some reason there is a genetic mutation in the general population that skews the data to larger or smaller penises in future males or males begin to get surgery done to enlarge or decrease the size of their penis lol. If neither of those types of outcomes happen then the normal distribution will remain.

[Guest]

You certainly got it. I'm biased, but I tend to see bell curves in everything. In layman's terms, that means a some small, some large, but a lot in the middle. I think the average between 5-6 is about right and there are certainly outliers. But even with a population of outliers, there are likely 'outlier' women. So ladies and gentleman, if you don't fit, go find someone with who you do fit.

Natural selection has something to do with it, as well. We didn't just wake up and a certain percentage of the male populace grew 9 inche penises. If a male is too big, and it kills the enjoyment because he loses a lot of DIRECT contact with the vagina, then his motivation to pro-create decreases. If he has less children(male), then the population of oversized men just dipped. Same with his partner. A female who doesn't enjoy sex isn't going to have 9 children.

I've discussed this with the most reliable, informed group I can imagine, ER doctors at a major research hospital. Granted, their stories were grotesque, but they agreed that it was amazing the degree of variation in vagina size. It's just a flexible organ. And sure,there is variation in penis size as well, but few men have 12 inche penises.

True true I still think a lot of men compare themselves to porno dudes (i'm guilty of that one) but come to find out Im bout 2'' above avg in length and average girth and i've been told by a few women how some men can be too big like your story earlier as for me i'm starting not 2 care 2 much about my size anymore because there are some men who i'm larger than when im limp so i feel fortunate that im not in that boat(i even talked to a couple of females where they were saying they were with dudes that had 2 inchers) but everything in your post seems logical to me

p.s me and an old friend always felt like some of those dudes in porn got surgery and there's this doctor called dr. elist who does it i guess for a guy with a 2 incher he may want to go that route u only die once so u better make life good for yourself while ur here I'd still like to be more thicker than i am but I'll live I can work around that

[Guest]

There is and always will be a normal distribution in penis size unless for some reason there is a genetic mutation in the general population that skews the data to larger or smaller penises in future males or males begin to get surgery done to enlarge or decrease the size of their penis lol. If neither of those types of outcomes happen then the normal distribution will remain.

ur probably right there's this doctor in la that does that surgery at $10,000 a pop and of course they will skew the graphs because they have to make $ so in a way it can be big business one thing i learned from this thread is that women care about a lot of other things in men besides what they're packing downstairs and the ones that are overly concerned with that in a man are shallow

[ItsASecret]

one thing i learned from this thread is that women care about a lot of other things in men besides what they're packing downstairs and the ones that are overly concerned with that in a man are shallow

Good, at least you are seeing this conclusion. The same idea applies to men who focus on a woman's breast size, yes there are men who think bigger is better and that anything below abnormally large porn size silicone balloons is a horrible look on a woman but the majority of men do not care one bit they want the woman for who she is and breast size simply is not important. That is the same idea with women placing emphasis on the man's personality and other qualities and not on penis size. The men who do put such focus going as far as calling a woman less of a woman because of small breasts is a shallow man just like a woman calling a man less of a man because he does not have a large penis is a shallow woman. I do not understand how someone can make fun of another person's body part when that person had no control over the size of that part, it is all genetics so that person is upset because that other man's or woman's bits is genetically small. That is not fair and hence it makes a person shallow for putting such emphasis on something that we have no control over. No control meaning leaving it natural and not forking over $10,000 for surgery.

[Guest]

Good, at least you are seeing this conclusion. The same idea applies to men who focus on a woman's breast size, yes there are men who think bigger is better and that anything below abnormally large porn size silicone balloons is a horrible look on a woman but the majority of men do not care one bit they want the woman for who she is and breast size simply is not important. That is the same idea with women placing emphasis on the man's personality and other qualities and not on penis size. The men who do put such focus going as far as calling a woman less of a woman because of small breasts is a shallow man just like a woman calling a man less of a man because he does not have a large penis is a shallow woman. I do not understand how someone can make fun of another person's body part when that person had no control over the size of that part, it is all genetics so that person is upset because that other man's or woman's bits is genetically small. That is not fair and hence it makes a person shallow for putting such emphasis on something that we have no control over. No control meaning leaving it natural and not forking over $10,000 for surgery.

i think if a dude got like a 2-3 incher than he may want to go that route the way i see it is u only die once so might as well be happy while ur here but I don't feel the same for woman cuz breast aren't as bad as a micro penis to me

[avvie_88]

1.) Curiosity. It's still interesting! I asked my (then) boyfriend (now fiancee) because I was curious what I might be in for if our relationship would progress to that point (which I obviously thought it was already getting there, being I even bothered to ask). It also cuts back on surprise--either way. We want to know if a baseball bat is coming out of your pants just like we'd want know if a pinky finger is. We want to mentally prepare so we don't look/act like an idiot when we finally see "it".

2.) If you're the kind of girl who talks to your girlfriends about that stuff, I'm sure it's like "bragging rights" too. Just like guys always want to be bigger than the next guy, maybe girls like all their friends to know that their man is bigger (and better--skill wise)? I'm not sure. I'm not close enough with any girls to really discuss that...not that I would regardless. That's a bit weird to me.

3.) To make the man feel good about himself. Y'all talk about the size of your boys so much, we sort of feel like we either need to hate on you for it (so you stfu), or reassure you of your size because we love you (even though most of us don't care).

I fully believe the only advantage size has is if you're bigger, you get a smidgen of an "edge"...but it doesn't make you good.
It's an art, so to speak. You have have all the supplies in the world--the best paints, the best canvas, the best pencils...but if you have no skill...it doesn't matter much.

[Hugo-B]

I have this question for women. I hope it is appropriate.

Through this website there are many women who state that penis size is irrelevant. From what I know outside of website, I think most (but not all) women believe that size is irrelevant. As a male, I also think this – but it did take me sometime to truly believe this (20 years ago I thought being larger between the legs was better).

If most women think this, why do they actually know, and share information about their men’s penis size – right to the half inch? There are women where that have stated size does not matter, yet they can provide information on their man’s size. I’m simply curious why? Why not actual just say things like “he is a little larger” rather than he is 9.5 inches or 5.5 inches (although I think, as an aside, that 9.5 inches is more related to mismeasurment than real). And if I may ask, for those women who have measured their men, may I ask why you would measure it - -was it, for example, your men asking you? Where you curious yourself, and if so, why?

I'm just curious and in no way mean to criticism anyone's past posts.

All men have measured their penises, the trick is to do what I do and start the measurement from the *** crack then measure to the tip of the erect penis.

When we ask girls if size matters what we really want to know is, 'tell me I'm bigger than your ex and big enough for you?' don't we? It's no different to a girl casually asking 'is she prettier than me?'.