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    It is something that you could easily regret later in life. My husband probably regrets me cumming on his face and practically drowning him but that's all he talked about for a week leading up to it. Don't do it! Sanctity of marriage!!! A fun alternative fetish might be to tie him to a chair with his **** out and his hands tied back and then get yourself a dildo/vibrator. Do a strip tease for him and then pleasure yourself, making sure he gets a good view of you **********ing yourself.

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    • MDM
      Member
      • Feb 2013
      • 14

      Hi Sion,

      from my ex prince , your husband like me never thought to have sex with other women and will never do.
      But, I enjoy this fantasy to some extent but not to have the sex course with other men.

      My fantasy is that when I talk during sex and let her imagine that she is with some body who is very handsome.

      I my go to the extant that I bring in a man and have him expose his penis and let her touch it but not beyond that although it is a joy.

      Now: I have to admit that only husbands who love their wives so much have this type of fantasy.
      Also, if they are sure it does not turns on the wife they won't do it trust me.

      Thanks

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      • Silkypurse
        Junior Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 1

        My Husband has asked me to cuckold him, talk about being shocked. I automatically said No, my Husband showed me a website where they talk openly about the subject, to say the least I am now warming to the idea.......

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        • Palerider
          Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 40

          My husband and I fantasize about it right now. During sex, I tell him how much I loved getting screwed by my fantasy lover. As he's thrusting into me, I imagine that it's another man on top of me, ejaculating into my fertile womb...

          Try that first and see if you like it.

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          • papamoose
            Junior Member
            • Aug 2013
            • 2

            Kinda judgmemental

            Originally posted by SpankedWife
            My opinion: Don't do it. No matter how confident he thinks he is, how secure in your relationship he says he is, how sure he is that this wouldn't ruin your marriage, is NO guarantee. Nor is it a guarantee of how you feel about yourself after. Recipe for disaster. You two have committed to each other. Tell him to keep this one a fantasy.

            My husband and I have a very old fashioned marriage and he would never allow this, nor is it something I would ever consider.




            Wow. You have a very old-fashioned marriage, but your name is spanked wife. One could probably analyze that one for a while. My point is that while this idea may not be good for some, for others it is a great marriage enhancer. I used to think that my idea of marriage was the only valid one, but over the years I have become much more tolerant for the thoughts of others.

            In fact, my wife and I are discussing taking this plunge ourselves. I am not submissive, but actually enjoy being the dominant partner. I am happy with my penis size, and am confident that I am all that my wife needs.

            Having said that, all the body needs is water, food, and oxygen. How boring to eat the same meal everyday for your entire life, though. While the flesh doesn't NEED desert, it is a mighty fine pleasure to have once in a while.

            Why do I want to watch my wife **** another man? Because I love her and the biggest turn on for me is to hear her moan. Can't I do that myself? Sure, but what an erotic thought to watching it be done to her.

            I love my wife more than my own life, and have never been more in love with her.

            I simply want her to have MORE. Period.

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            • BambooEarrings
              Member
              • Aug 2013
              • 23

              I'm sorry if I'm about to sound harsh or narrow minded, but

              Don't even think about doing this!!! If my husband suggested this and was serious, I would kick him out without a moment's hesitation and tell him he better go to marriage counseling and see a priest, rabbi, imam and lawyer before he ever thought about coming home.

              I'm not out to condemn people for their fantasies, but this is a dangerous one for many reasons. First of all you are married, and assuming your marriage vows were similar to most, this would be an obvious dumping of your vows into the trash. Second, sex is an intimate act, and even though many will claim "it's just sex, it didn't mean anything" well, it can mean a lot especially if it messes up your relationship to someone you supposedly love. I HOPE your husband loves you and this is just some weird glitch in his normal character... some kind of late night weird horny thing that he kept thinking about or a mid-life crisis or something.

              If you knew how many marriages have ended because of things like this, you wouldn't do it. There is really nothing good that can come out of it except a temporary sexual high for your husband (or maybe not-- maybe if it actually happened he would become jealous and flip out). Not to mention the possibility of diseases (you can't test for everything!!!)

              I love my husband and would do just about anything for him, but there's no way in a trillion years I would ever do that. In fact, the day he asked me this would be the last day he would see my face because I don't see how he could possibly love me if he did.
              This is just my own opinion.

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              • BambooEarrings
                Member
                • Aug 2013
                • 23

                "You have a very old-fashioned marriage, but your name is spanked wife. One could probably analyze that one for a while."

                How in the heck are spanking and adultery on the same level??? Why even get married if you aren't going to keep your vows? Are you just married on a piece of paper and not in your heart? I don't get it. If people want to sleep around and sleep with other people when married, that's their business, they are free to do so. But why get married? I seriously don't understand unless it's for some weird reason like to get citizenship or to get a tax credit?

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                • BambooEarrings
                  Member
                  • Aug 2013
                  • 23

                  Also,

                  Have you ever considered making a porn of you and your husband so your husb. can watch it? He could dress up like someone else-- put on a fake mustache and stuff. lol Make it high def 3D and there you go.

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                  • ReneeDay
                    Junior Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 4

                    My husband and I was cuddling one night after sex and he brought up about his friend having a huge ****. He described how back in high school they measured his 5 3/4" long and 5" around penis to his friends huge 8 1/2" long and 6 3/4" around penis. I started to use my fingers to look his much longer it was, my husband teased that I liked the thought of a bigger **** inside of me. I felt embarrassed and said I was just imagining how it looked. He said he would let me enjoy his friend ****ing me with his bigger ****. I felt like it was some kind of trick when he said that I didn't believe he was serious. I told him to shut up and stop it, he said no Im serious, I asked you could actually watch another man have sex with me seriously. He was so adamant saying he had been imagining it for along time, we talked about his this had been something he fantasized about for years. Still mixed with this is a trick and I'm not going to ruin my marriage I decline his offer. My husband pestered me for weeks about it and I began to talk and ask question. I realized my husband had thought about this for a long time and wanted to so this really bad. I'm not going to lie the thought of having sex with his friend sounded fun. The good part was out of all his friends he was the best looking so I was attracted to him. I wouldn't had done it if I wasn't attracted to him that would be a must I can't just have sex if I'm not attracted. But I was having my own fantasy about enjoying his friend. We talked and my husband made me confident this would never effect our relationship. What made me feel very confident was my husband telling me he knew it would feel better than him. He wanted me to let go and enjoy his friend not holding back. Our own sex life had increased over this time as well having sex at least once a day. When I finally said yes my husband was over joyed and so was I. The hardest part was the wait till we could make it happen around our schedules. But I think the wait only made it all the more exciting!

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                    • Motorguy
                      Veteran Member
                      • Mar 2014
                      • 3921

                      Originally posted by ReneeDay
                      My husband and I was cuddling one night after sex and he brought up about his friend having a huge ********. He described how back in high school they measured his 5 3/4" long and 5" around penis to his friends huge 8 1/2" long and 6 3/4" around penis. I started to use my fingers to look his much longer it was, my husband teased that I liked the thought of a bigger ******** inside of me. I felt embarrassed and said I was just imagining how it looked. He said he would let me enjoy his friend ********ing me with his bigger ********. I felt like it was some kind of trick when he said that I didn't believe he was serious. I told him to shut up and stop it, he said no Im serious, I asked you could actually watch another man have sex with me seriously. He was so adamant saying he had been imagining it for along time, we talked about his this had been something he fantasized about for years. Still mixed with this is a trick and I'm not going to ruin my marriage I decline his offer. My husband pestered me for weeks about it and I began to talk and ask question. I realized my husband had thought about this for a long time and wanted to so this really bad. I'm not going to lie the thought of having sex with his friend sounded fun. The good part was out of all his friends he was the best looking so I was attracted to him. I wouldn't had done it if I wasn't attracted to him that would be a must I can't just have sex if I'm not attracted. But I was having my own fantasy about enjoying his friend. We talked and my husband made me confident this would never effect our relationship. What made me feel very confident was my husband telling me he knew it would feel better than him. He wanted me to let go and enjoy his friend not holding back. Our own sex life had increased over this time as well having sex at least once a day. When I finally said yes my husband was over joyed and so was I. The hardest part was the wait till we could make it happen around our schedules. But I think the wait only made it all the more exciting!
                      Well Renee, I seen a few marriage break up over this type of behavior. I want you to be prepare the hubby maybe all for watching his best friend. Having his way with you but if he see you having a good old time maybe having many orgasm with his friend he could start to get jealous why don't you get this really turn on with him during sex.Has there been talk of your hubby enjoying a women while you watch or is this more of his kink seeing, only you with another man. Will this be a only one time thing of many times after this those are question you need to resolve before deciding to go forward with this life style.
                      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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