[jen1447]

It sounds like she already went forward with this lifestyle, MG.

[Motorguy]

It sounds like she already went forward with this lifestyle, MG.

Oh OK that what happens when I don't put my glass on thanks for that Jenn duh. No wonder i was having a hard time reading it lol.

[ReneeDay]

Your correct Jen I thought it was clear that this started years ago Motorguy. I also wrote this was something my husband asked me to do. I had never thought about something like this before that. Like I also said my husband told me he knew it would feel better and wanted me to enjoy it being better. That's part of why I agreed to doing it the other part of agreeing to do it was it also had become a desire when we would talk about it. It went fine and we still get together for fun MFM when we have time. My husband never fells threatened he just finds it fun. I don't think its for everyone its not the way our society relates relationships to be open like this.

[Motorguy]

Your correct Jen I thought it was clear that this started years ago Motorguy. I also wrote this was something my husband asked me to do. I had never thought about something like this before that. Like I also said my husband told me he knew it would feel better and wanted me to enjoy it being better. That's part of why I agreed to doing it the other part of agreeing to do it was it also had become a desire when we would talk about it. It went fine and we still get together for fun MFM when we have time. My husband never fells threatened he just finds it fun. I don't think its for everyone its not the way our society relates relationships to be open like this.

I know just reading and responding to the post without my glasses me bad sorry about that Renee.

[ReneeDay]

No problem Motörhead

[sweet_peaa]

I agree with Jon doe only because it goes 2 ways what if later he wants to have sex with all these random women are you going to be OK with it I know I wouldnt be

[Motorguy]

I agree with Jon doe only because it goes 2 ways what if later he wants to have sex with all these random women are you going to be OK with it I know I wouldnt be

That was my same question Sweet Pea fair is fair right or no on that if it's the husband want's to be with another women. Is this one a one way street it's only OK for the wife to enjoy another partner.

[JackbNimble]

This topic always creates a lot of varying responses. I always imagined it was a couples decision to add new partners. Of course there should not be any pressure from either party to do something they do not want to do. My former wife enjoyed both swapping with other couples and having FWBs. I was fine with both and liked seeing her enjoy herself. It certainly was easier for her to set up a meeting with her friend than trying to schedule with other couples.

[jen1447]

I'm pretty sure that the specific kink in this type of scenario doesn't allow for men to sleep with others, just women. Meaning that if a husband broaches the subject of his wife sleeping with other men, for both of their pleasure, the 'rules' will likely be that only she will be allowed to do it. That seems to imply that there will be much less risk of a "what's good for the goose ...." type thing happening to women who participate.

[305]

Hi there!
My fiancé had also suggested that idea and I was curious about it...and we discussed it in length and we tried it. It was not as bad as I thought. Exciting and naughty!