[HisGirl]

So I’ve read through many pages of old threads on this site and I’ve learned a lot. Holy cow, I learned some stuff I didn’t even know I didn’t know!

A topic that seems to have been beat to death is penis size. Why are men so insecure about it? I’m reading about all these guys who are wondering if their 6 inches is good enough. Are they serious? In my opinion,

Anything between 5-6 inches is perfection! Think about it. It’s still too big to fit entirely in the mouth, but it can get almost all the way in if its driven to the back of the throat. Yet, you don’t have to actually do a deep throat to get the deep throat effect. Also us girls are not going to tire out or break our jaws sucking you off. We’re able to suck longer due to less fatigue of the jaw muscles. And because girls don’t like broken jaws, we’re more likely to agree to suck you off in the first place. In addition, there’s more room for the tongue to move about and do wonderful things for you. Not to mention, we can ride you better without getting impaled. Impaling is bad. And if you ever wanted to try anal and she’s up for it, you got it made in the shade.

If there are any ladies out there who want to add to this list, please feel free!

Please don't flame me, I just have a sick sense of humor!

[EricNYU]

I don't know how many women you'll get to agree with you on that, but I sure as hell will.

Sick humor? Naw.
A little naughty? Maybe.

[HisGirl]

I'm really being completely serious, just saying it in my own awkward likely-to-be-taken-the-wrong-way way. I think too many men worry about this too much just because some girl somewhere once said they weren't good enough. I can think of a dozen reasons why I wouldn't want a guy with a huge penis. I know not every woman will agree with me but I bet there are a lot that do. I hope that some of them chime in.

[rcoreyus]

A lot of people of both genders are insecure - I don't know if its natural or if we have been convinced by advertisers that we are somehow inadequate without the appropriate: car, handbag, watch, shoes, or sports drink, and that we need to enlarge or shrink various parts of our anatomy.

So many nice attractive people whos only serious flaw is that they are so insecure that they don't recognize when someone is attracted to them.

[jns]

As a guy with an average sized penis, I've never been insecure about length or girth. I've never had an objection from a woman about it.

I think the reason so many guys are insecure is mostly due to pornography. Guys compare themselves to male porn stars and they feel inadequate. Then they see the female porn stars acting like bigger is better and they feel even more inadequate.

Fortunately I grew up before the golden age of pornography. Therefore I learned about sex from actually having sex with real live girls, not from looking at pornography. I think that would be a good approach for the guys of today.

[LisaW1991]

I think a lot personal filtering need to take place when reading a lot posts on penis size topic (and many other sex topics). I have been very skeptical about the authenticity of many of the posts based on how they are constructed. IMHO, teenage trolls have a particular pattern, especially when they are pretending to be the opposite sex with a major problem. Adults with real problem are unlikely to talk so graphically about their problem such as: "My C-O-C-K is tiny, girls refuse to suck my C-O-C-K because it too small, what do I do?". or "I am virgin that is 10 inch long, I want to marry a girl with a huge P-U-S-S-Y and big huge boobs like you see in porn videos. How do I find one?". Those are just the obvious ones, but others tend to be more coy about it, yet they fall into a pattern that raises a lot of red flags, just less obvious. The authentic ones really stand out, and tend to be less common as you would expect. My experience having sex with guys is that they not obsessed with their penis size, its only those who seems post message in forums that have unrealistic problems (and lack a lot maturity); I personally suspect they are just teenagers who have very little sexual experience, in which case I ignore such posts\question I conclude are just horny teenagers looking to get a reaction to some made up horny story.... Sometimes, I do make an exception when I feel I can make a point, indirectly.

[HisGirl]

So you're saying that men aren't insecure, boys are. Makes sense if I understood it right.

My husband is in this category and I've told him countless times how perfect he is and gone down my whole list that I mentioned above. Although he's not unhappy with himself, he still unenthusiastically refers to himself as average when instead he should be thrilled to be his size! I don't know where guys get the idea they need to be more. I agree with jns, it probably comes from porn.

[LisaW1991]

I think you know what I mean, insecurity is not a B&W issue. Nobody is perfect.

I guess I need to date a guy who has a problem with his penis, so far I have not. My experience has been they are far more interested in having sex than anything else, and even afterwards, they don't pause and ask "What do you think of my erection? Is it OK, should it be bigger\smaller? What should I do to make it better?".... maybe gay men are different, and they do focus on size and whatever, and I am sure there some hetersexual guys too (like those in the porn business), IMHO I don't think most guys are obsessing over the size of their penis.

[Duke be]

I think you know what I mean, insecurity is not a B&W issue. Nobody is perfect.

I guess I need to date a guy who has a problem with his penis, so far I have not. My experience has been they are far more interested in having sex than anything else, and even afterwards, they don't pause and ask "What do you think of my erection? Is it OK, should it be bigger\smaller? What should I do to make it better?".... maybe gay men are different, and they do focus on size and whatever, and I am sure there some hetersexual guys too (like those in the porn business), IMHO I don't think most guys are not obsessing over the size of their penis.

LisaW I can share a guys point of view and you are spot on. I thought your comment about "is it okay?" Was funny. It has it has never crossed my mind, not for any other reason than my mind is focused elsewhere. The latter I suspect is heightened by hormones.

[HussyOrNot]

I agree totally. I once slept with a guy whose penis was so long that it was difficult to manage orally & vaginally - OUCH. Anal...FORGET IT.