There was another study trying to link "larger penis" preference to women who report ability to achieve "vaginal orgasm". Again, serious flaws in the methods. Was a completely self reported, subjective study. No actual penile measurements, no measurement of the actual type or intensity of orgasm, no way to verify any of the information gathered, no science whatsoever. Anyone who feels any differently about himself based on this "study" has absolutely no reason to. Again, its propaganda. Why aren't we out studying intensity of guys' orgasms based on vaginal tone? Because we don't actually care very much as long as they let us in their vagina and we are not on a mission to destroy their self esteem.
In reading reports by many women (again, not scientific), many report only being able to achieve orgasm with an average size penis, the angle of attack, the firmness of erection, and most importantly the amount of emotional connection to the guy plays the biggest role in vaginal orgasm. Even my wife has stated a bigger than average penis feels fuller, but that sensation detracted from the type of stimulation she needs to have a vaginal orgasm. Of course, not every woman will have this experience and the fuller feeling may be what they need to have a vaginal orgasm, but in reading many, many posts by (supposed) women (who really knows on this infernal internet), a lot of them agree with my wife, they'd had bigger guys who they enjoyed because of the full feeling, but had never had a vaginal orgasm until they had sex with one they loved with an average size penis.
Of course, there's the whole debate of clitoral vs vaginal vs other orgasm and there's plenty written on that also. I've read some women say they prefer vaginal, but clitoral is very close, and I've read even more say clitoral blows vaginal out of the water and they don't even care about vaginal because clitoral is so much better, then there's those who can't tell the difference or can only seem to have clitoral, which based on the above statements I've seen women making, if I were a woman, clitoral would be just fine with me, especially if I could have multiples (and again, given that stimulating the clitoris to orgasm is likely very, very closely related to what we feel if our penis is stimulated to orgasm, why we discount that aspect of love making and focus our depressive efforts on penis size is needless to me).
I would like to state my opinion that by demanding that all women are as hungup on our size issue as we are and are either honest that they want bigger or are lying if they say it truly doesn't matter to them, we are truly offending the large percentage of women who aren't lying, that it truly doesn't matter to them.
To all, I tend to type freely and don't spend a lot of time rereading and pondering my posts, although I do try to look over grammar and frame things nonoffensively, etc. I look at it like having a casual conversation and would appreciate others cutting me some slack if something isn't clear or if you disagree, great, just be cordial in your disagreement. I have looked to have an honest, intelligent conversation on this subject but the internet is a very hard place to do that. Thanks.
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